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Topic: anybody here psychic? or can channel the dead?
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gorgeousbutterfly
Knowflake Posts: 11
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Registered: Jan 2009
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posted February 03, 2009 01:58 AM
 
my aunt just committed suicide and i was wondering if anybody could contact her and see if she 's ok? if she has any messages or anything. IP: Logged |
GemLover
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Registered: Aug 2008
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posted February 04, 2009 04:03 AM
Gorgeousbutterfly, I wish I could do that for you but I'm not developed in that way. I'm sorry about your loss, it must be so hard.  I hope someone can tune in for you and bring you a message.IP: Logged |
Pearlty
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posted February 04, 2009 02:33 PM
I wish I could help too. I really am sorry The only thing I could offer is pulling a few cards, for you. The cards can offer insight and guidance for you, and possibly show you an alternative way to cope and heal...? just a suggestion.  IP: Logged |
gorgeousbutterfly
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posted February 04, 2009 03:52 PM
thank you so much guys  just for the thought i appreciate it much. a few cards would help and i'd take it if you are willing IP: Logged |
Pearlty
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posted February 05, 2009 09:36 AM
Gorgeousbutterfly I love your name by the way it is very pretty. I consulted the cards this morning, and asked if they could provide some advice for you. While shuffling two cards fell out. First was the Strength card, this card for obvious reasons, can definitely apply to your mournful situation. As difficult as this is for you, you can’t carry the burden, it is unhealthy. Getting angry won’t help either. Her problems no matter how abundant they were can’t be allowed to be your problems. Be the pillar of strength, for others and yourself. The first thing I thought of when I was concentrating on this card, was people. People who are in need of help, like those suffering from addictions or eating disorders as an example. Sometimes they get better sometimes they don’t, and those of us, after rendering all the help we can, slowly have to watch their demise, or even have to ultimately cope with their death. You sometimes have thoughts in the back of your mind, maybe if I would have done this or that differently they would be here today. This type of guilt, can eat away at the loved ones left behind. Why do some people get better, snap out of it, and lead a productive healthy life. I don’t know, and I wish I knew, because like you, I have a similar situation my friend since right before Christmas has been in and out of the hospital, for suicide attempts. Every time, she go’s I see her poor little kids faces, and the worry these children have. I know she doesn’t want to do this to them, but her thoughts are so overwhelming, and she knows the safest place is in the hospital. I wish there was some magical cure for her, and I’m sure you wished the same over and over for your Aunt. It’s not in our hands though, and as helpless as we may feel all we can do is pray, and in your case be grateful for the time no matter how short it was, you had together. The next card that came out was Justice I think this card is about decisions, and you need to make the correct decision, to learn from this, grieve, and move forward. Have faith that things will in time,be ok. Bless you and your family..
"Sorrow and silence are strong, and patient endurance is godlike." HENRY WADSWORTH LONGFELLOW, Evangeline IP: Logged |
tuxedo meow
Knowflake Posts: 921
From: Texas Gulf Coast, USA
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted February 05, 2009 11:35 AM
Bless you and may you be kept from harm.
My knowledge shows transitional healing periods for those who have passed on. Suicides have a tendency to malinger so it can be helpful to your loved one to spiritually, mentally, and physically cleanse the area where your involvement in the passing is and, if possible, theirs.
Sage is good, some lavender, and after a spritz of something more invigorating and lightening like peppermint or orange oil-put sea salt in corners and "brush" down rooms esp. corners. Put some small bowls of vinegar around. You could pick up some marigolds (bedding plant-common) and set them in corners or just around rooms. I like to tear up the blossoms and toss the petals around a bit.
These things lighten and brighten-disabling negative "sticky threads" and opening positive space.
Keep yourself ritually cleansed for awhile as well. Knowingly cleanse and oil your body top to toe with the purpose of again disabling "sticky threads".
You can picture your aunt becoming un-bound and entering a lighter phase.
It seems your aunt was un-comfort-able. She will remain so for awhile. She will go through a healing process where she is.
Love, Tuxedo meow
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tuxedo meow
Knowflake Posts: 921
From: Texas Gulf Coast, USA
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted February 05, 2009 11:51 AM
PS. I don't think she is in the position right now to send messages. I "see" a confined space with predominant dark orange and brown colors, a smallish woman sitting. She has wide open tearful eyes that are beautiful but miserable. She is reaching up with both hands towards a light source and some light shows on her face from the source. The light is not bright but it is showing itself and she is aware of it. There is cleansing to be done and healing. I am not sure if she understands yet the implications of her surroundings-like she is seated on a bed or mattress with a light colored gown. Many tears rolling down her cheeks. She doesn't even have a message to herself yet.
i hope i don't sound harsh as that is not my conveyance.IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 2821
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted February 05, 2009 01:04 PM
My sympathies to you.
However she is fine.
Let her go.
Her guilty feelings and others "holding" onto her in their grief (and perhaps some anger too)
is keeping her in a stasis, like a semi-conscious state betwixt dream and awake.
If you and others do not let her go...she could fall into an apathetic fugue state of the soul....and be unable to move on until those grieving pass on themselves.
Let her go and wish her well on her journey.
Say it out loud even!
She may have a good bye message but until she is let go, she will not be able to give any messages.
I hope that made sense.
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Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.
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gorgeousbutterfly
Knowflake Posts: 11
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Registered: Jan 2009
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posted February 06, 2009 04:05 AM
thank you for the readings. i have a few questions.. how do i let her go? what do you mean excatly? its not ok to mourn her death? IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 2296
From: Florida for now
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted February 06, 2009 05:12 AM
You should mourn her when you are ready, though you might be in a state of shock initially right now....I do agree with LEXX that though it's hard to let go, holding on would keep her soul caged here in a way. She won't impart a lot of messages while she is here still, besides echos of sentiments and imprints of her own life. I would not be surprised if she herself is in a state of shock as well, trying to register what happened. So it's possible she's also very much 'here' trying to make heads or tails of the situation. Try and give it some time. I'm sorry for your loss.
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