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posted March 07, 2009 01:38 PM         

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Hi, can anyone give me a tarot reading? There is this guy I have feelings for, but it's a bit complicated.. so if anyone could say something about this I would be happy

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posted March 08, 2009 06:13 AM         

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I owe a few on this forum so I'll give it a shot-
knight of swords-(the situation)-a man who appears courteous but is very controlling.
9 of cups-(crossed over the situation) The wish card! generally means you get your wish!
king of swords-(as the base of the situation)Usually denotes a man in a position of authority, maybe employed by government, maybe a cop? Has the authority to be "in charge" over others and uses that control
3 of swords-(distant past bearing on the present situation) Ouch! deep sorrow, maybe due to a seperation, emotional wound that will heal but seems like it will last a long time.
5 of swords-(recent/current/will continue to affect situation) a coldness, sensitivity lacking creates a change
page of pentacles-(topping the first five cards) a moody young person, probably a student
4 of cups-(feelings, attitude toward situation) shows discontent, sometimes shows use of drugs or alcohol (viagra?)to "cover" or avoid feelings
major arcana 7- this card is all about control! Self discipline is necessary. there is triumph here but pain too. A win but at an emotional cost.
Lots of swords showing people, things, and emotions "cut off". Ties are severed and may be because of the relationship. Someone (I think you) must lose if you want to gain in this relationship. someone is in control and someone must comply to the control-sort of "my way or the highway). it seems one of the persons may be using drugs or being offered drugs (not necessarily illegal drugs)as an out for the feelings of being controlled by the situation or the other person. This relationship was wished for and granted but doesn't make it ideal.One person may have already deeply hurt the other and despite that hurt the hurt person is willing to bear it to have to other in their life. one person (the masculine one) is domineering and the other must adjust and allow it if she wants this man. Is it worth it to lose your individuality and frredom of choice? Maybe so if the loss of freedom betters your previous life choices. The masculine control won't stop ever and even if it seems he wants your input all decisions are his. You could get hurt or isolated or you might like the control. it makes some feel safe. There are words said that cut you like a knife and are spoken coldly. Many ideas and spoken thoughts, lectures,lots of sharp words and directives. The mind of the female is or will be under his authority as is physicality and spirit.
Some like relationships like this, some got into a relationship like this and now can't see a way out of it, and some resort to outside substances to live in a relationship like this. Like i said he has control and maybe legal control. Nowhere to get help if needed because he is in charge.

This was a hard one to try to put into "nice" words because while I don't get too much physical abuse, there does seem to be mental abuse and sorrow at the least.
Please let me know if I am close at all.
Love, Tuxedo meow

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posted March 08, 2009 11:34 AM         

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OMG! Well, at first I didn't relate very much to the cards and the meanings of each card, but then when you got to the part were you interpreted the cards together, I was stunned But first of all, we have never been in a relationship.
He IS controlling the situation. "someone is in control and someone must comply to the control-sort of "my way or the highway)". He has always been very honest and open with me, wich made me believe him, but some imortant aspects has been left out. Not good. I know now that he is playing with my brain! He doesn't want anything serious, but wants a physical relationship without commitment, but I don't want just that. "There are words said that cut you like a knife and are spoken coldly". Well, that is very true, he says honest things, but the truth hurts sometimes.. He is also using drugs, but not the illegal stuff. What do you mean by "This relationship was wished for and granted"? We have both expressed that we have feelings for eachother, but we don't reach eachother. I'm too serious, he is not.. But he is also treats me good, he is kind, funny and everything, I really like to hang around him (and he knows)
There is also another girl (they have a physical relationship), but he didn't tell me about it at a point he should have. He says it is nothing serious. Right now I am avoiding him, we have actually both said no at different times, he has hurt me a lot (don't know if it is intentional or not), but some parts of me still wants to be with him. Do you think that it is true that he has feelings for me? And do you think that he hurts me on purpose? Because he is also very positive towards me.

Thanks a lot!

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posted March 09, 2009 07:08 PM         

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My girl, in my opinion he has feelings for himself and his blunt honesty makes him think he can do as he pleases and you can handle the emotions because, after all, he told you his truth! The wish card could mean you wish you had this as a good relationship?
Good luck!

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