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Topic: I'm at my BOILING POINT- Please HELP!
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JMommaSlim Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Fayetteville, NC Registered: Apr 2007
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posted March 24, 2009 04:03 PM
I love him to death and we became engaged a few boths back, but still don't have a date since he says he wants to do it right. We've been together 15 months now. Honestly, right about now, I just think he gave me the ring to keep me around. I'm sooooooo tired of guessing since he NEVER wants to talk about it. I just need insite. Is he serious? Is he READY for what I'm ready for? What do I do? not to mention it seems like his mother might be ANOTHER obsticale for us, or at least me to overcome. I think I'm preparing myself to walk away. HIM: 17 Sep 79 @ 0138 AM Jersey City, NJ ME: 12 Nov 81 @ 1230 PM Columbus, GA IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 3312 From: Kyiv, Ukraine Registered: Dec 2003
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posted March 24, 2009 04:23 PM
oops, sorry, I thought it was Soul Unions forum IP: Logged |
JMommaSlim Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Fayetteville, NC Registered: Apr 2007
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posted March 24, 2009 04:30 PM
LOL! Not a problem. Thanks for reading though. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3114 From: Florida for now Registered: Sep 2008
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posted March 26, 2009 12:54 AM
He does want to do it right. Try and be patient. I know it's frustrating. What sign is his Venus in? Water/earth, by the sounds of it. I'm sorry, I don't have time to look it up right this sec while working. His mother? I cannot for the life of me deal with a man's momma who is a problem. I married one with a problem with his mom (as in, she was an OBSTACLE) and it didn't get better. At all. I hope you guys are good at talking/communicating, because she's not going away. I'll try and take a look later. For now, try and relax. IP: Logged |
JMommaSlim Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Fayetteville, NC Registered: Apr 2007
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posted March 26, 2009 08:25 AM
I believe his venus is in Virgo too. I guess I KIND OF understand the mother thing, since he's her only child, but at the same time, she used to be nice to me. Even went as far as saying I reminded her or herself when she was my age. Now all of a sudden I swear her head is doing a 360 degree turn when she looks in my direction. I don't get it! I mean, I really dont care that much because I'm going to be me regardless. Hey! LOVE me or LEAVE me right?IP: Logged |