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seveneieghtorange
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From: atlanta, georgia
Registered: Jan 2005

posted April 05, 2009 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seveneieghtorange     Edit/Delete Message
Lately, my relationship with my boyfriend has gone so far down I dont even think there is any way for it to get fixed. He has been going through things, does not confide in me, has the most terrible mood swings and is always angry. I havent seen him in his usual sweet demeanor now in over 2 months. Im so confused. It was like out of nowhere a switch turned off and I am left in the darkness. I'm trying to be understanding, but at the same time I am a human being as well and I just cant stand to be ignored. Everytime I try to talk about things, he shuts me off completely and tells me to just "relax". It's hurting me so much. I don't know what to do anymore. I would love a reading, I am so hopeless as to what is happening to the both of us. It has come to the point wherein I just want to run away because he has hurt me so much.

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amowls
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From: Richmond, VA USA
Registered: Dec 2007

posted April 07, 2009 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
Venus has been Retrograding for 2 months, and it turns direct today or tomorrow.

If you can provide birth information, that would be great.

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seveneieghtorange
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From: atlanta, georgia
Registered: Jan 2005

posted April 08, 2009 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seveneieghtorange     Edit/Delete Message
Ugh, yes the venus RX. I always have bumps on the road whenever there is Venus RX but this one was real hard for me.

His bday: 02.28.1976, birthtime: 1130PM. Birthplace: Phoenix, Arizona
Mine: 06.28.1985, birthtime: 515 AM. Birthplace: Manila, Philippines.

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Geocosmic Valentine
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Posts: 1333
From: New York, NY
Registered: Sep 2007

posted April 10, 2009 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Seventyeightorange,

I’m glad to see you here tonight, I didn’t forget about you, for some reason I couldn’t approach your chart before, I don’t know why, but I’m in a flow right now here after midnight and your chart is SPEAKING OUT LOUD TO ME!!! Here’s what I came up with:

As of today, April 10, 2009, transiting Neptune is square to your Saturn. Neptune suppressive things and it dissolves things. Saturn rules your 7th house of partnerships and the marriage partner or the person you are involved with who is significant to you. With Neptune squaring your Saturn, it is dissolving your relationship partner. Is it possible that he is using drugs or drinking a lot? That would be a valid explanation for his sudden change of mood that is a bad mood for more than 2 months. Does he drink or do drugs or is he ill? Neptune rules drugs and unexplained illnesses. Not always unexplained. You naturally have Neptune on your 7th House cusp. With transiting Pluto there it can suggest a partner with substance abuse issues or the fact that it is being triggered by Pluto now may suggest anything from substance abuse by him or some kind of deception.

Transiting Pluto is retrograde and is about to conjunct your natal Neptune for the 2nd time and it is still considered to be conjunct your 7th House cusp. Pluto on your 7th House cusp or the DSC is an incredibly strong transformational energy for your relationship. It demands change. It appears that it is demanding that your relationship change drastically or that you end it. It is a destructive energy for renewal. The way you feel now, that’s the pressure you’re feeling to end it, the kind of pressure where you say "I can't take anymore of this".

When you resist Pluto it can do severe damage. The best thing to do with Pluto is to follow its energy, go with the flow, don’t fight it. You could be devastated by fighting Pluto and Pluto still wins in the end.

I understand that you found a job recently but it seems there will be more career changes soon. Pluto is retrograde and it will soon conjunct your Neptune for the 2nd time. I mention that because Neptune rules your MC in Pisces, the career point. Also, transiting Uranus will conjunct your MC in Pisces. This could suggest a surprising change in your career or that you may leave your career suddenly. It also looks as if there might be a geographic relocation with that change. Uranus on the MC and Pluto on the DSC, if it hasn’t happened already, it probably will happen. You may be moving soon.

Transiting Jupiter is about to square your Venus which rules your 6th House of the workplace and employees and also co-rules your 11th House of love received and income from the career. When Jupiter contacts Saturn, ambition is given the go-ahead. Whatever plans you are about to make, expect to implement them soon. With Jupiter square Venus, you may see a temporary kindness from your boyfriend, there may be a party of some sort or some kind of reward whether monetary or emotional. Use that time to get yourself together and make plans joyfully because big changes are coming within the next few months and certainly through out the year.

That’s all I can tell you for now, maybe someone else can jump in with more suggestions of this chart as well. I didn't look at his chart because I wanted to focus on you, perhaps someone else can look at his chart and yours together.

Good luck to you, you'll make it through any changes you need to make. One day at a time.

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seveneieghtorange
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From: atlanta, georgia
Registered: Jan 2005

posted April 10, 2009 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for seveneieghtorange     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Geo!!
Wow thanks for your input. Its scary how accurate astrology really is. I only know the basics of it, I have no idea how to read and translate transits like you do!
Yes, my boyfriend does have a substance abuse problem. He *smokes* (if you know what I mean) and has been for over 8+ years now everyday. Recently he quit cold turkey (he tried to quit before and I went through the same things as I did this time...except this time I am really at my wit's end) and then he started back up again because legally he could. He goes through withdrawal stages which are very hard for me because they include extreme mood swings, sooo much anger issues from him (nothing physical or emotional, just a lot of sniping back that is so unnecessary). He cannot deal very well with the real world and I always tell him this.
Yes, I am so very much sick of this relationship not getting any deeper than it is. I do want a drastic change. Right now Im looking for that deep soul mate love and if this relationship does not give me that, it will break my heart to end it but I cant go on in a superficial relationship.
Thanks for the input Geo!

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writesomething
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From: meet me in montauk
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posted April 11, 2009 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
Wow geo..Im so impressed by your work. Youre good!

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Geocosmic Valentine
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From: New York, NY
Registered: Sep 2007

posted April 12, 2009 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Hey there, Writesomething.

Thank you so much. I also want to say that I see your work around this website also and you're very, VERY good, also. Keep up the great work. And Happy Easter and Passover to you as well.

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