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Topic: The reader was indeed right, but when?
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Hana-Bi
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posted May 03, 2009 01:48 PM
 
About 12 yrs ago sb did me a tarot reading.I was told I was going to meet a man through work, pretty much like myself, who would be very important in my future. The reader also told me I'd have 2 boys and 2 girls. I only have 1b+1g.
Well, 2 years ago I met sb through work who I think might be him, because we're very much alike and he has 2 children: 1boy+1girl, and we're having a relationship since we met. The reader was indeed right.
Being together is sth that I wish for, although I know that major things would have to happen to make my dream come true.Can I ask your help to see if there is still the possibility of sharing a home with both our children and if so when is this going to happen? I'm looking for some relief...Hope you can help. Thank you so much.
Looking forward for your answers. hana-bi
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Hana-Bi
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posted May 04, 2009 06:31 PM
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 04, 2009 08:12 PM
You said: quote:
Well, 2 years ago I met sb through work who I think might be him, because we're very much alike and he has 2 children: 1boy+1girl, and we're having a relationship since we met. The reader was indeed right.
Being together is sth that I wish for, although I know that major things would have to happen to make my dream come true.
OK....this is not a psychic reading but a logic call/reality check.
You say you have had a relationship with this man for about 2 years.
Yet you only "think" he might be the one?
Does he want to be with you Long Term and not hiding?
Being "important to your future" does not automatically mean a future mate/spouse.
The "major obstacles".....
Are either or both of you still married to other people?
A Tarot reading from 12 years ago is a rather shaky thing to base your future on.
How old are your children, and his?
And have they met yet?
How old are you and how old is he?
I do pick up something about this "relationship", but it just feels strangely/disturbingly off somehow,
hidden agendas and so forth.
Sorry, something just does not sense right.
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Hana-Bi
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posted May 06, 2009 06:35 PM
Dear Lexx
Thank you for your reply.What the reader then said was that I 'd be meeting sb that would be staying by my side, supporting me in life issues (which he has) and helping with my work (which he has)and then said this person would be someone important in my future life. The reader then smiled and said that there were words left unspoken (true at least for me) and then said he wouldn't tell me anything else and smiled again. In this context I can only place this person in a relationship where people are living together under the same roof. Doesn't make sense anything else. But what is your opinion? In family affairs he said that my house was full of joy because of all the children. I said the two of them were always running around and couldn't stand still. That's when he said the cards showed 4 children instead of just 2, two boys and two girls.
Again this makes sense when people are living together. I missed the track of this reader, he was such a wonderful man. I went for his help several times. The things he said that happened and those that would happen really did. More are yet to be proved so or not. Anyway and please don't judge me, we are both indeed married to other people. We live afar from each other and it's difficult to meet each other in person so we've been keeping daily contacts by phone and meet whenever possible. I do have deep feelings for him (he tells me he does too) but the deepest ones (and also that wish of mine) I'm too afraid to tell. Sometimes (but not to often) I let some go, he does the the same. Other times his and my words get silence for an answer. Sometimes he complains about the silence (and he gets it again). Being married to sb else, children, income, and distance are of course and both ways all major problems. Does he want to be with me longterm and not hiding? I don't know. Too afraid to ask, to afraid of being let down. Perhaps it's not the time yet to consider a turn over on our lives. Still I can't help thinking that one day... As this is a hidden matter, our children (his are 6 and 12; mine are 13 and 14) have never met. I'm 42, he's 45. Strangely enough we have managed to keep the relationship very much alive, despite the distance in this case, which makes me wonder sometimes how can it be possible that it has survived so far? Perhaps a deep connection. Does it make sense now? Hope hearing from you soon. Any help will be welcome. IP: Logged |
Hana-Bi
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posted May 06, 2009 07:48 PM
Please feel free to post any reading.If it turns out to be an opposition to my deepest wishes or if his feelings for me aren't completely true, please tell me anyway. Longing for a healing answer.
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 11:16 PM
Hello Hana-Bi!
Hugs!
I was not judging you.
Both of you being married to others does not negate that what you two have together is deep and significant.
I wonder if it is simply not time to become more intimate.
Your situations appear to be complex and unchangeable at this time.
I sense a possible future together but not soon.
I feel the reader mentioned unspoken words because a good reader does not give one absolutes in future readings.
Why?
No matter what form of divination is employed in a future reading, it is only a reading based on the time it is given.
The future is not set in stone.
If a reader tells too much, it can cause one to not let things evolve naturally but to either sit back and wait for the reading to come true, doing nothing about it, when perhaps one is supposed to actively watch for the right timing and so forth to allow the future to manifest as the reader had seen.
Another problem too is that a person can mistake parts of the reading and focus on what seems to be fitting the reading, but may or may not be in actuality.
I gave a reading to a man who wanted to know if he would grow old or die young.
I told him what I saw, that he would live to at least 90+years old.
Well, he took the reading as an absolute, and while I did indeed see him alive and very old in the far future, he did not pay attention when I told him, that is what I see as it stands now.
So thinking he was immune from danger and death until very old, he went out and drove at high speeds and began taking other very stupid risks.
Suffice it to say, he was almost killed by his reckless actions.
He called me up and screamed that my reading was wrong, that he was not immune to dying.
I was so damn miffed at him!
I said, "I told you fool, the future is not set in stone! A future reading is your probability but you can indeed screw it up by being foolish and acting recklessly!I do not feel you are acting recklessly though, just wanted to explain the dynamics concerning readings for the future. Yes, I feel you are helping each other.
Stay in contact, keep being good friends.
Things can change and there may be a future together for the two of you.
However, it is also possible that by way of him you meet someone else.
I do see a man with 2 children in your future, but not sure it is him.
If I get anything more I will let you know.
I will tell you one thing however;
At this time it looks like it will be a minimum of three and or a maximum of 7 years until the reading comes true.
I see one child moving at adulthood, and another not yet born taking their place in a family unit.
Watch for signs of timing beginning in 2013, maybe mid to late 2012.
As I said, things can change.
This was a reading based on the vibes at this moment in time.
I also sense that someone has a health problem, whether known yet or not. You, him, or your spouses, or possibly one of the children.
This also seems to be a factor in future events.
I wish you well and if I pick up anything else I will let you know.
Blessings to you!
Sincerely
LEXX
PS.I keep getting a vision of a tall well built man with thick dark, graying hair.
He wears alot of brown.
He has a mellow voice and very expressive hands.
His smile is wonderful!
Does that mean anything to you? IP: Logged |
Hana-Bi
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posted May 07, 2009 09:19 AM
Dear Lexx
Thank you, thank you. Thank you so much for your words.You said: "The future is not set in stone.
If a reader tells too much, it can cause one to not let things evolve naturally but to either sit back and wait for the reading to come true, doing nothing about it..." I know, that's why I asked if it was still possible in the first place. "PS.I keep getting a vision of a tall well built man with thick dark, graying hair.
He wears alot of brown.
He has a mellow voice and very expressive hands.
His smile is wonderful!
Does that mean anything to you?"
Gosh! You've got his description very accurately, Lexx.
Mellow voice, great smile. Indeed, you couldn't be more thorough! Thank you so much once again.
If you pick sth else please let me know. Bless you Lexx IP: Logged | |
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