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PhoenixFire
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From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009

posted August 16, 2009 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PhoenixFire     Edit/Delete Message
One of my sisters and I went down to an occult store, where the owner conducts card readings. Both of my sisters had gone to this reader before, with accurate results. Once, the reader claimed to see the spirits of our grandmother & cousin described to a tee. My sisters & I usually conduct readings for each other, however I was curious to meet this reader.
The wait was 3+ hours and uncomfortably hot (I am 5 months pregnant). When we were finally called back together, I admit to no longer being in the greatest mood. The reader then summarized some highlights from her previous readings, to clients who had visited earlier. This put me further at unease, as I think this was abusing the trust of privacy the client have toward her.
Maybe she picked up on my sketpticism and annoyed mood, as she read my marriage by attacking me to complain too much. In a ntshell, she said I need to cook & clean for my husband more as he is a wonderful man. I replied that I work and attend college fulltime, have two kids under 12 and one on the way. basically, I do the best possible regarding my house chores. I asked if she would please read into my career & school, as that is what I am wondering about.
She then swithced over completly, and advised me to dump my husband as he works part time and attends college fulltime. She said he isn't taking school seriously, and I told her he is two years from graduating with a Computer Science B.S. and on the Dean's List. She then warned be to be careful, as my unborn child may be bron premature & premature babies have a high death rate.
At this point, my knee slightly tapped onto the desk between us. Next thing I know, the reader (who is on the heavy side)fell off her plastic lawn chair, breaking it. She stood up, and declared I am cursed by my first husband and she took the fall in order to prevent my fatality in an accident. I stared at her incredously, and she again stated I have dark energy surrounding me which she has only seen once in another person.

Ok, I am now totally freaked out about someone saying those kind of things to me. I do not believe my ex husband wishes me ill, nor wants me unborn child to suffer. The worst part is, my sister bought into the negative energy thing. While she doesn't believe in black magick, she does think my negative reacton to the whole premature labor thing somehow cause the reader to fall off her chair.
I've read about scams where the reader tries to sell you a cleasning for $$$, and was surprised this one only tried to sell me a $9.00 bath soap. She proceeded to tell every customer in her store, how I dropped her fom the chair with the evilness around me.

I have never had anything this bad happen from a reader before, and am surprised both my sisters like her so much. I still can't believe she would threaten my unborn child with her curse talk and then make me out to be a freak to the other customers. I don't understand it all, expecially from a professional who alleges to be a healer of people. I will definatly not go back again, and am contemplating on calling her and telling her exactly how bad she made me feel.

No matter how irritated my mood, I don't think anyone should be spoken to the way this lady spoke to me. When the reading was really, bad I asked her to stop and she did not stating she was not done yet. Very weird, and very freaky.

She did not at all answer my two qestions, which were if I selected the right Unviersity and if I should wait to ask for a pormotion until after maternity leave.

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cpn_edgar_winner
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From: Toledo, OH
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posted August 16, 2009 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
i would also visualize yourself in violet protection with mirrors surrounding you so any ill will shoots like an arrow back to the source.

what a horrible experience.

just do the protection excercise as i totally dont like her projection to you.

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GypseeWind
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From: Dayton,Ohio USA
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posted August 16, 2009 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
When I was a few months preg with my eldest, I went to a psychic that was highly regarded.
I didn't get WORD ONE out of my mouth, and she just went on a rant about how, I drew this situation to me (we were currently apart) and we would never be together, as I "carry my heart on my sleeve" and "carrying an empty bag would be too difficult for him." She just went OFF! She said he would never come back, never take care of the child, never this and never that, because we had SOOO much negative karma.
Well, he came back a month later. We had that child, and got married when she was five months old. Then we had two more.

I saw her at a physchic fair a few years ago, with the Dad and children in tow. I pranced right up to her and said, "you told me, this and that, you made me very upset during a pregnancy, and blah blah blah."
She said, "huh, I don't think I've ever read for you before, you must have me mistaken!"
Whatever! Just chalk it up to a weirdo, and takenothing personal from it. She obviously has issues.
Sorry to hear that tho, it stinks.

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Dee
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posted August 16, 2009 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message
I went to a psychic in 1998.He told me all kinds of Bull, He told me my husband would leave me in three years because of my bad temper. Well the husband is still here

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Lucia23
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posted August 16, 2009 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Wowww, I'm so sorry that happened to you! That woman sounds like a nutter with lots of negative energy. I am glad for you, in a way, that she showed you what she was really like, because it will make it easier for you NOT to take in her false information...it would be a lot harder if she poisoned your mind with some little thing in an otherwise competent reading.

Someone read for me last year who said I would be married and pregnant within the year--I knew this would not be true because I had just ended a long relationship and one thing I really knew for sure is that I DID NOT WANT marriage or kids anytime that soon! We've all had inaccurate readings...this woman was poisonous on purpose with you, though. I'm glad you told us here so we can all help you cleanse out the negative energy, which is all about her, not about you.

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted August 17, 2009 06:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
this thread makes me know now that i will NEVER go to another psychic. if anyone ever reads for me again it will be MVM only.

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PhoenixFire
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From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009

posted August 17, 2009 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PhoenixFire     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you so much for your kind responses. I am doing my best to remove this from my thoughts, and cleanse my energy.

I've decided to just stay away from unknown readers, and have my sister continue to lay the cards for me in the future. I don't think all readers are on par with this one, but the experience left me very spooked out and unbalanced.

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LuvinU
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From: Jersey
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posted August 17, 2009 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LuvinU     Edit/Delete Message
PhoenixFire,
Right now - you and the baby are VERY important and I know I don't need to stress that enough to you. The funny thing about readers and free will and all these complicated things is that you have a choice to accept or refrain from accepting all of what a reader tells you as truth. I agree with a previous poster - cleanse yourself (that, out of the reader's message to you, we both agree on BECAUSE it's a refreshing thing for ANYBODY to do no matter what message you get) and if you feel you must get a reading - I'd say to keep it between yourself and the baby (work with your own cards on your own) so that you two can establish a strong bond and relationship between one another and it will help you refrain from taking the energy of the reader's reading into yours and the baby's energy. You need to protect you and yours because you can and because you have to be selective when it comes to what you will and won't accept during your current life path. I don't really trust everyone to give me a reading and I certainly don't remember many of the readings I've received in the past but I do remember getting "bad" readings and how much I ALLOWED them to take away from me emotionally. Pick and choose the information she gave you wisely - which would mean take the positive and accentuate it - drop the negative. Also, please keep in mind that readers are human too and make mistakes and mix up readings. By the way, everyone has a special and unique relationship with higher powers even so far as to be protected and closed off from the 'eyes' and 'ears' of an outsider which is why intuition is important enough NOT to take for granted.

Remember: You are too blessed to be stressed.

Wishing you and yours love and happiness.

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crabbypatty
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From: New York, NY
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posted August 17, 2009 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabbypatty     Edit/Delete Message
Phoenix: I am sure that this reader should be tarred and feathered. I know spirit does not give messages of the sort she claimed to be conveying. I know this because I have had the privilege of being read by some of this country's renowned mediums, and nothing like this ever came up. Ever. She was involving her ego in the process, which means she's to some extent a fraud and a hazard to the community. The flip-flopping is the first red flag. When you're ready for a REAL LEGIT reading, let me know, I will recommend who I know to be good.

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