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From: salt lake city, utah, USA
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posted September 23, 2009 01:19 PM         

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This is mine and my boyfriends composite chart. We have been together for 2 1/2 years and it has been flawless. We will probably get married this year so I'd love to know if there are any major flaws in our chart.

Thank you so much!!!! :-)

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From: Baghdad by the Bay
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posted September 25, 2009 05:53 PM         

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hi sasha
i'm glad your relationship is headed for consumation but i must be direct and the composite does show great love and affection but it seems that it will take work to make your dreams unfold.
the venus conjunction with uranus shows the intense ,idealistic attraction you have.but the uranus influence is so intense that this square often makes it very difficult for relationship to proceed from "head over heels in love "to the mundane activities that make up the routines of a marriage.

but with saturn conjunct to venus ,you have a aspect of devotion .then again the difficulty here is that saturn is also square to uranus.these are elemental polar opposites and this aspect by itself is an indication of breakup or instability.but you do have the venus/love as a mediator.
the moon/saturn midpoint is square to the sun which shows there has always been a feeling that this could be a steady relationship,so from the beginning that was probably the direction the relationship went.
but there seems to be a lack of "easy" aspects,ones that would lead a bit effortlessly to a marriage.
the sun/jupiter midpoint is opposed to neptune which indicates that there is not a immediate pressure towards a marriage and infact this aspect tends to weaken the impulse to a marriage.
mars is sesquiquadrate to venus and semi square to uranus.this again reinforces the spontaneous affection in the relationship but at the same time shows that there are many little issues that need to be resolve.if these little issues are ignored this cobfiguration can manfest as a replusive rather than attractive dynamic.
in line with this ,the composite has the mars/uranus midpoint square the midheaven axis.this implies that he has an independent streak and likely,though agreeing with the longterm direction of the relationship,wants to take it a bit slowly.
then there is the mars square to the sun/neptune midpoint and opposed to the saturn/chiron.this may be one of those possible"flaws" you are concerned about as this can show a indirect approach to the relationship.it shows a selfishness that may be concealed.but it also can mean that he is not really telling you what his needs are.
then there is the moon on the ascendant showing a strong need for a complementary and nurturing relationship but the mars/pluto midpoint is conjunct the moon.this again can imply that there are deeper emotional states that are being affected by the relationship.possibly there is a need for the security of marriage rather than the purely emotional joy.these are speculative assessments but with mercury square the saturn/pluto midpoint it is clear that there is a lack of communication when it comes to deep emotional feelings.this aspect can show unexpected silence or emotional/mental distance at times unexpected because the venus square uranus is so vibrant and open.
so i think you are clear minded to be on the lookout for potential "flaws" as this relationship,intense as it is , will need constant nurturing and awarenss.
todd

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From: salt lake city, utah, USA
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posted September 25, 2009 07:56 PM         

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Todd -

Thank you so much for your interpretations. You have given me a lot to think about.

After living together for a little over a year, I feel very lucky and solid in our relationship and love. We may be jumping the gun on a marriage, so I am going to be thinking about what you said on that topic, as that has actually been more forced on us from outside influences than from our own instincts (parents/friends/neighbors, ect...). As far as emotional and deep communication goes, you are also accurate. Neither of us is emotional in nature so we rarely get deep into emotional discussion. We do find it easy to show affection and thoughtfulness toward each other (possibly in place of some communication). My boyfriend is very independent in nature so you are right about that too. I have found it pretty easy to give him his alone time and freedom though.

A COUPLE OF QUESTIONS:
If a couple does get married would certain aspects in a composite become more prevalent and possibly change things?

Is there anything you can look at in a composite to tell weather it would be a good idea to have kids together. It is something I would like to do in a couple of years. He has never imagined himself having kids but loves them and says he would be fine with up to 2 it if it was something I wanted.

Thank you so much Todd! It looks like you basically have a full time job giving us all insight on our composites :-)

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From: Baghdad by the Bay
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posted September 26, 2009 01:11 PM         

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i think all aspect become stronger once married but that is an opinion.
as to children,i really don't know about that .i would assume one would look to the 5th house ruler,but again just a guess.

todd

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