posted January 31, 2010 01:43 PM         

my good friend:

posted January 31, 2010 03:35 PM         

1. Are you thinking of leaving your current relationship to be in another one?

2. Are you even attracted to your good friend who is being insistant?

3. Please indicate who is your current boyfriend. NS or CB?

What are you confused about? Are you in love with either of them?

Are you talking about marriage or just dating?

Also, your Venus being in Gemini has nothing to do with this problem.

I've simplified the charts because the ones you posted are too muddled with aspect lines and asteroids. The chart needs to be streamlined for clarity and efficiency.

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.....OK, I'm back and I've figured out a few strong signals in both charts. You are currently with NS, but CB is deeply in love with you. Here's my insight, CB will always be a secret, your romantic relationship with him won't be able to see the light of day in any proper or socially acceptable form. If CB doesn't walk away and stay away for a good long while, he might be stuck on you forever. He might not even mind because Venus-Saturn conjunction in his chart suggests that he can easily throw away the social niceties of life. The comparison with CB also suggests that if you were to have a relationship with him, there would be constant "break-up energy" in the air. This relationship is like "The Big Karmic Love Test" for him. It's a soul growth struggle for him.

The chart does suggest that there could be a strong attraction between you both, but if you are in love with NS, then you should stay with him. Yes, you and NS may have your issues but those issues should be handled respectfully within your relationship and the friendship that comes along with a love relationship, it should have nothing to do with CB.

If your decision is to let go of CB, you may have to help him by fully rejecting him and pushing him away from you, even the friendship because he will stick to you like glue for life if he doesn't get a clear cut message that a romance is impossible.

Now, I could be completely off the mark here without having a clear conversation with you about both of these men, but that's what it looks like. The attraction is there for both men but it looks like you won't have a comfortable stability with CB. Stability can be there, but it looks highly uncomfortable.

Please respond and let me know if any of this feels correct or IS correct.

posted February 01, 2010 12:56 AM         

This is very hard work, especially when you're asking an astrologer to read 3 different people and compare the charts of each and you don't even bother to get the charts and names straight. At this point I don't have the time or patience to figure out who is who and who loves you more.

I would suggest to you that you need to learn how to communicate more clearly with everyone, including on this board. Take the time to think things through before you say them or write them. I hope you figure things out.

Geocosmic Valentine