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Topic: reading please? Any kind...we can trade?
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staborgi Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted April 05, 2010 12:22 AM
I've been going a little crazy anxious over the insecure state of a relationship...where is it going? how is he feeling about me/the state of the relationship? what does he want? what's the best way for me to go about things in the future (to encourage a more open, established, romantic relationship)?I would be more than willing to do a trade for a tarot reading. This has been consuming all my energy and I'm all weird and scared about it and don't feel like I can pull for myself at all... any and all thoughts appreciated thanks IP: Logged |
Deux*Antares Knowflake Posts: 795 From: Meet Me In Sofia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 06, 2010 11:24 AM
Hi Staborgi, I'm curious as to what your relationship charts look like. Can you post your composite (with transits) and synastry please? And how long have you been together? IP: Logged |
staborgi Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted April 06, 2010 07:05 PM
Hi Deux! Thanks for responding. Here's everything...thanks so much! would appreciate your thoughts His birthtime is approximate. Pretty sure his ASC is scorpio but not sure of the exact time so I made an educated guess based on his personality...we met in Sept. I'm really really head over heels, I think he's really special and haven't felt like this about anyone before...and I never get like that! Usually consider myself one of the chronic non-romantics/singles! EDIT. sorry originally I registered progressed composite instead of composite with transits...but I corrected it synastry composite progressed composite IP: Logged |
Deux*Antares Knowflake Posts: 795 From: Meet Me In Sofia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 09, 2010 02:55 PM
I'll post the reading tomorrow (Saturday). Just a little clarification, he is a Scorpio sun with Mercury in Sagittarius, right?IP: Logged |
staborgi Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted April 09, 2010 08:10 PM
Oh thank you so much Deux! And yes, that is correct. Looking forward to your thoughts! Have a lovely nightIP: Logged |
Deux*Antares Knowflake Posts: 795 From: Meet Me In Sofia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 12, 2010 03:16 AM
Hi Staborgi, sorry I'm late! I drew these cards a few days back. I used a spread that shows "movement" in a relationship.1. Where he is at present (not necessarily in context of relationship) - 3Wands 2. Where she is at present (not necessarily in context of relationship) - World rx 3. How the relationship started for him - Death 4. How the relationship started for her - 2Wands 5. How the relationship developed for him - Judgment 6. How the relationship developed for her - Fool Rx 7. Where the relationship is moving for him - Hanged Man Rx 8. Where the relationship is moving for her - King Wands -Rx 9. Essence of Relationship/Outcome - 2Swords 10. Advice - 8 Pentacles And then I pulled these cards yesterday: 1. Staborgi - 10 of Pentacles 2. Other Person - 7 of Wands - Reversed 3. Outcome - Priestess 4. Advice - Wheel Reversed Do the cards make sense to you? I noticed the absence of Cups in both spreads. And looking at the charts, I don't like that his Moon is square your Mercury. I think you need to work at strengthening the emotional connection between you two. IP: Logged |
staborgi Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted April 12, 2010 06:35 PM
Thanks so much! Actually...this feels spot on to me in terms of how things have been and where they are right now. So thank you! Let me know if I can do a reading for you now or in the future. I am also pretty good with solar and Venus returns Thanks again for your energy and help! Be well! IP: Logged |
MiaMammy08 Knowflake Posts: 83 From: Maryland, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 11:55 AM
hey i dont know if this will help but lately when i have issues,fears, hopes, or dreams I want addressed. I just give it to God in a sense. I have a mental conversation with my higher self and God. I tell them what's on my mind like what is a fear for me. Or what dreams I have that I would like to come true. And once I go down my list of stuff, I give it to them. You can imagine giving it as a present or just the feeling of a burden being lifted. and after you give it away, it is helpful to sit there and feel eternal bliss for a few moments about the fact that you were heard, your "gift" will be taken care of and there is nothing to worry about. It can be a genuine feeling or a created one but it doesn't matter. the feeling of happiness helps ease your mind about it all even if you think that it wont help. but it has helped me much. I have issues with my boyfriends best-friend who just so happens to be a girl. Insecurities have been driving me mad. I did this little exercise, and I feel like my mind is just a little bit calmer with each day that I do it. and when I feel it come back I do it again. Im sure if he is messing around that my higher self and God already know that and have my best interest at heart. hope this helps you. ------------------ Yes i'm a Capricorn with an Aries moon and Taurus rising. oh yea... IP: Logged |
staborgi Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 09:50 PM
Thank you MiaMammy. I've been trying to use creative visualization in a similar way with this. I get so down when fear takes over my love...do you have any tips for relaxing? Sometimes I feel like I try this and get more anxious somehow...IP: Logged |