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From: Stockton, CA, USA
Registered: Aug 2010

posted August 16, 2010 03:28 AM         

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Hello, If anyone could help.....
I started seeing an Aries man about 3 months ago,we hit it off really well,he was very passionate and we seen each other many times during the week,then I started spending the night,we would stay up and watch romantic movies together and talk about his past for hours. He swept me off my feet!! I could say I feel in LOVE instantly with this man! But me being a Libra tried to play it cool, I told him I was just looking to be his friend and nothing more because I knew he had a history of being a player,which I admitted I was one to when I was younger too,he agreed saying thats even better! But deep down the only reason I acted as if I didn't like him anymore then friends is because I was trying to play hard to get (even though i hate playing hard to get) So after that it seemed like things were goin down hill from there, I tried everything I can think of to get that initial passion he had for me back,but was unsuccessful, which made me even madder and sadder. So to make this long story a bit shorter I said some hurtful things,said I was sorry,he forgave me,told him I loved him,he told me "You dont want to do that, Im a bad guy!", I acted jealous,he got mad, I begged for him to forgive me and to talk to me and told him I loved him from the first time went met,he hasn't contacted me in 3 days. Though this whole thing I felt like I didn't want to do anything to mess this up,but now Im feeling like I did the exact opposite of what I wanted,Im so mad at myself, all I wanted to do is see him more and to be with him,but now Im stuck feeling like I will never meet another man like him who literally drives me GaGa!!! I would need 10 guys to compare to him!! So my questions are....... Do you see us working things out? How could I get that initial passion back?Do Aries men try to protect their hearts? (he had his heart broken before and seems to not trust women) Where exactly did I go wrong? And how do I get this man to open his heart to me? (he has told me very secret things he says he has never told anyone,was that a clue that he was opening his heart?) Please Help!!! I can see myself settling down with this man,so any advice is appreciated!!
Me:
Sun Libra
Moon Pisces
Mercury Libra
Venus Virgo
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
True Node Gemini
Ascendant Aries
2nd House Taurus
3rd House Gemini
Imum Coeli Cancer
5th House Leo
6th House Virgo
Descendant Libra
8th House Scorpio
9th House Sagittarius
Medium Coeli Capricorn
11th House Aquarius
12th House Pisces

Him:
Sun Aries
Moon Gemini
Mercury Aries
Venus Gemini
Mars Leo
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
True Node Leo
Ascendant Leo
2nd House Virgo
3rd House Libra
Imum Coeli Scorpio
5th House Sagittarius
6th House Capricorn
Descendant Aquarius
8th House Pisces
9th House Aries
Medium Coeli Taurus
11th House Gemini
12th House Cancer

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From: 49N35 34E34
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posted August 16, 2010 03:12 PM         

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You have a lot of challenging synastry aspects: squares and oppositions, so I can see the intense attraction you feel at the same time this energy is not easily harnessed so emotins might get out of control and feelings get hurt... some people thrive on challenging aspects, others prefer supportive ones...it's all very individual but to tell the truth I am surprised he is the one who got offended because he is Aries so he should be more comfortable with fire energy...anyway, I doubt anyone can say for sure whether it will work out or not judging by your placements; so I pulled a Tarot card for you, the question was: will Innocent Libra make up with the Aries in the near future? I got Page of Swords, reversed. The Page of Swords is about a tendency to follow one's rational intellect over emotions in your case it represents irrational and overemotional behavior. So it looks like he needs time to cool down and sort thigs out first. Give him time.

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posted August 17, 2010 05:40 PM         

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Thank you Peri! I defiantly want our friendship to grow into a relationship and hopefully he realizes that me and him are good together and he comes back to me, I miss him so much, I feel like I cant move on just yet, im very impatient,but like the card said, I just need to give him time to cool off. Could you see if you can see us getting into a relationship in the near future or living together?

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posted August 17, 2010 05:41 PM         

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Thank you Peri! I defiantly want our friendship to grow into a relationship and hopefully he realizes that me and him are good together and he comes back to me, I miss him so much, I feel like I cant move on just yet, im very impatient,but like the card said, I just need to give him time to cool off. Could you see if you can see us getting into a relationship in the near future or living together?

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posted August 17, 2010 05:41 PM         

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Thank you Peri! I defiantly want our friendship to grow into a relationship and hopefully he realizes that me and him are good together and he comes back to me, I miss him so much, I feel like I cant move on just yet, im very impatient,but like the card said, I just need to give him time to cool off. Could you see if you can see us getting into a relationship in the near future or living together?

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From: 49N35 34E34
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posted August 19, 2010 03:57 PM         

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Could you see if you can see us getting into a relationship in the near future or living together?

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I already asked about the near future for you and I got The Page of Swords is about a tendency to follow one's rational intellect over emotions in your case it represents irrational and overemotional behavior. So it looks like he needs time to cool down and sort thigs out first. Give him time. so right now you need to be patient.

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