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Topic: Please Help! Need a Love Reading!
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swtbttrfly23 Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 16, 2010 05:41 PM
Can anyone please help me with a love reading? I am so twisted about things and I really need some insight. I'm not sure what to do anymore. Please let me know and I will send our info. Thanks in advance!!IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1237 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 17, 2010 04:26 AM
What exactly is your question? if it is: "are we going to get married and live happily ever after?" I cannot help you. If it is about how you can improve your relationship or something like that then, yes, maybe.IP: Logged |
swtbttrfly23 Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 17, 2010 10:39 AM
Haha, well I'd love to know if we will get married and live happily ever after! LOLBut I guess I'm more after some advice on the situation I'm in, from an astrological POV. I'm really torn up by all this, and I jsut don't really know what to do about it anymore, so I figured I would turn here and see if anyone had insight on it. Any comments or advice is highly appreciated! I very much respect the esoteric topics, and I believe that astrology can help me work through this, but I guess I am looking for outside opinions. Me: DOB- 3/9/84 in Chicago Him: Dob- 6/23/80 in New York So here is what I posted in another section: I am just now starting to realize just how in love with a cancer man I am (I'm a pisces woman) and I have no idea what to do about it. I haven't seen him in almost 2 years, or spoken to him in almost as long. When we met, we were working together, and I immediately noticed him, but not really like that (I kind of had my eye on someone else at work!) But he started to hit on me, and that made me pay attention. He was pretty intense at times (that's his scorpio moon) but he was also really sweet. Sitting on my lap, telling me he loved my chicago accent, telling me I'm the highlight of his day, lots of cute things. I admit, I was scared, I've always had trust issues and I deflected him quite a bit, but we still flirted a lot. He is extremely cute, and works really hard on his body, and I'm kind of a chunky chick, and I think he was used to girls being all over him, but I am definitely not one of those girls; I am positive that many girls have given in to him quickly, but I wasn't one of them. He really grew on me. In the end, we both were a little bit stupid and hurt each other and then just parted ways, we had never even kissed. Well, now I am unable to stop thinking about him at all. I keep kicking myself because I missed the opportunity to be with him, and I really did not realize how much I was going to be missing him now. I figured I would just forget about him, but I've never been able to. Even though other guys have come and gone, I haven't been able to get over him. So I don't know what to do. A part of me thinks that he is maybe kicking himself too, but I don't really know. I sent him an email about 6 mo after we parted ways just to say hello to him and that I was thinking of him, but he never responded. I also get the feeling that this is not over and he will come back into my life someday, or maybe that is just me hoping I'll get a second chance? I’m not the kind of girl people forget easily, but I’m scared that he has moved on and I’m just here pining for something I can never have. I'm in a really tough spot, because on one hand I want to get past this, I don't want to feel bad about this anymore, but I still want him, more than ever. So I am at a loss, and lately I've been feeling particularily bad about it (mercury about to go into retrograde maybe?) Anyway, any opinions or if there is some reading you can do or something that would be so great. I feel like I am at my wits end, so anything would help. Oh, and also, are we going to get married in the future? LOL, just kidding ;-) Thanks so much in advance for your help, anything is greatly appreciated! IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1237 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 17, 2010 11:42 AM
do you have your and his time of birth?IP: Logged |
swtbttrfly23 Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 17, 2010 12:56 PM
Unfortunately, no. I don't even have mine, as I was adopted as an infant. IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1237 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 19, 2010 03:46 PM
ok, judging by your planetary positions and aspects, it looks really nice, I like your synastry Our needs in a relationship are mainly highlighted by Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars/Merc positions (and of course the angles but I am not talking about them since you don't know the time of birth) and you both seem to satisfy each others' needs pretty well: your Sun trine his Sun (you get along well naturally) your Merc trine his Merc (you get each other) your Moon is in Gemini he has Venus there his Moon is in Scorpio you have Mars there your Venus is in Aqua trine his Moon conjunct his SN (this might be an indicator of past life connection)+ you have NN in the same sign as his Venus! (10 degrees apart) >> very karmic positions his Venus as I have already mentioned is placed in the same sign as your Moon the same with your Mars and his Moon his Mars sextile your Mars also the following aspects are the indicators of great attraction and sexual chemistry: your Mars conj his Uranus (sizzling chemistry) your Pluto conj his Moon (deep emotional involvement) and of course your Venuses/Nodes being the same sign and conjunct so it all looks very nice; of course you two have challenging aspects too but most of them only add to the attraction e.g his Uranus square you Venus and conj your Mars (you might find him a bit too rebellious but that excites you at the same time) What I don't like is his Mars conj Saturn opposite your Sun/Merc: looks like he is very stubborn and no matter what your say it won't change his mind + you have expansive Jupiter opposite his Sun and unconventional Uranus square his Jupiter >> it looks to me like he feels his 'authority' or 'manlinnes' is somehow threatened by you in addition your Pluto is conj his Moon (the Pluto person always seem to get the upper hand in the relationship) besides he is a sensitive Cancer so having Sun in this sign does not add to his self-perception as a strong male (although Scorpio Moon and Mars/Saturn in Virgo do make him a really strong personality) so judging by what I see, I think he is now playing 'who's the boss' game, I checked his solar arc chart he has some stressful aspects to Venus so, yes, I think he is kicking himself too, but again for the time being his pride is winning. That's how I see it. I don't have any particular advice to you because you have already contacted him and he never replied ... I don't think you should write him again, he knows where to find you if he feels like doing so, right? so let him decide and do your own thing in the meantime. Good luck IP: Logged |
swtbttrfly23 Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 20, 2010 01:41 AM
Thanks so much Peri! That really helps me to understand and put some things into perspective, and it makes a lot of sense with some of the other things that happened. And it especially helps me understand why we didn't get together back then. I had looked up our moons, but I didn't realize we had such a nice synastry! When you refer to the Venus/SN connection, what do you mean by karmic positions? I will say that there is a very strong feeling that I've known him for a longer time than I have. And I was very comfortable around him from the beginning, although once I noticed how much sexual intensity there was I did get a little freaked out. The way he would look at me, such incredible fire in his eyes! But yeah, I could tell too that he was a little bit intimidated by me, I have a strong personality and I am very confident in my intellect and wit, and I never like to miss a chance to make everyone laugh. I always noticed that he was a little more nervous and awkward around me, when he tended to be more open and talkative with our co-workers. He told one girl I was fairly close with that he still thought about his ex-girlfriend and he thought she still loved him (yeah, I know, awesome...). Mostly he would just stand around me and stare at me, and act more awkward. So I get it, but I'm not sure what I should have done to not be intimidating or threatening. He made me uncomfortable sometimes with his intensity, but nobody really has ever made me feel that and I really miss it now.As far as contacting him goes, no, I don't really want to, at least not by email. I won't even get started on the 'signs' I've seen since we spoke last that all remind or lead me to him, but lately I've been getting particularily strong vibes about it all, and while I have no desire to send him some silly email, I do want to make sure he understands that it would be ok for him to contact me. LOL, does that make sense? I want him to realize that it actually would be ok to come and get me, even if it's something small like friending him on facebook? Or would that even matter? I absolutely dread being some chick who is chasing him around. Thanks again, so much for the info! For the time being I am just trying to get some things done, have been working really hard on getting into shape, I figure if I ever do see him again I want to look slammin! And I just love the boost I am getting from shaping my body into something I love. Anyway, that is neither her nor there, but thank you again, you have really shed a lot of light on the situation. :-) IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1237 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 20, 2010 06:03 AM
thanks for such a detailed feedback, I appreciate it quote: When you refer to the Venus/SN connection, what do you mean by karmic positions? I will say that there is a very strong feeling that I've known him for a longer time than I have.
I will say that there is a very strong feeling that I've known him for a longer time than I have. ~ yes, that's what I meant by it, node connections give a feeling of destiny in the synastry yes, I think it's a good idea to add him on FB, write him a short encouraging message somethig like "I am sorry we parted like that, just letting you know I don't have bad feelings towards you" or something like that? I am glad I could be of help IP: Logged |
swtbttrfly23 Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 23, 2010 03:42 AM
Hahaha, ok, so I tried to do the FB thing but there are like 8 of him on there! I can't figure out which is the real him or it is possible that he is not even really on there. He is an actor, not super famous or anything but known a little bit for a cult-classic type of movie and a couple smallish roles in bigger movies. He's not some crazy Hollywood celebrity, but he does have fans; I met him because I was doing wardrobe on a film with him and I had never heard of him so I just treated him like any other guy, although I was very sweet. So I am pretty sure people are weird and have started FB pages as him or something like that crap. I don't know what to do short of just friending them all and hoping for the best, but I don't want to do that.So, long story short, I think maybe that this is a sign I should just wait for it to happen? This is my problem with this whole situation, I waffle between thinking I should contact or try to seek him out before it's really too late and thinking that I should just let it happen by itself (if it's meant to be it will happen anyway, right?). I'm just afraid that I won't read the signs right and I'll f*** it up again. I don't know if astrology can help me on this one, but you've already been super helpful and had some great advice, so I thought I'd ask. Hahaha, sometimes I really feel like that stereotypical pisces sun/gemini moon! Looking off in way too many directions. But like I said, I've been particularily weird about it lately, it's just been really weighing on me heavily. Thanks again for your analysis of the situation, it is really helping me work some things out in my brain and heart. IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1237 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 23, 2010 04:07 AM
well, you are a Pisces after all, follow your intuition! Good luck IP: Logged | |