posted November 21, 2010 05:10 AM         

I have had two 1 card readings (online). I know this is not how it should be done, but the second one was meant to complement the first, because it was not clear to me.

So for both I asked for Advice.

Theme: I am interested in two men.

Man 1 and Man 2, according to whom I met first.

First, I have no experience with men. So: I like to talk to both of them (talking is important to me) and to just hang out with them. I do really like both of them, I want to get closer (in every sense) because I like them and I am attracted to them but I have controled myself and Im insecure because I have almost no experience

I have not flirted with them at the same time, it was a question of timing on how this has happenned. Contact with numer 1 was suspended for sometime, and recently started again.

I was doing a pros and cons list in my head, but then I thought I should find out which one is really interested or more interested in me, or tell each one I like them and see how they respond. And I have tried to discriminate my feelings for each one too.

This is an irony because I rarely am attracted or like people and especially not to people that I can actually call and ask to go out with me, and people that say yes. And in theory I am going back to my country in a month or so - if anything happened how serious could it be...

I asked for a one card advice and I got The Sun... (which sounded like enjoy the moment do what makes you happy if so it would make sense because I have only worked and I dont really know how to enjoy life or to take risks)

Then I tried to formulate the question more clearly and asked for advice - I like them both, what to do, and I got the Knight of Pentacles.

This cuold not be a person I suppose, both of them have K of Pent traits (that I want) and I was asking for advice.

I have been trying to understand the message, perhaps in a too rational way... Does it mean something like "enjoy the moment but":
- make a plan to deal with this or
- both still require more effort
- finish your work because thats more importnat
- things take their own time to develop
- enjoy the physical side of it
- be honest and cautious
- I have to know what I want
- have fun for now but Im going away and my interest on them is an illusion

I am confused.

And a technical question - for how long should I follow this advice ?

I would like to have other opinions on this, please. Thank you !!