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Topic: please help
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impulsv Knowflake Posts: 8 From: ca Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 23, 2010 10:02 PM
Can some one help on a reading. I've had a difficult past year(cancer, divorce, lost home and dog). Weeks after my husband said he no longer wanted me I believe I met my soul mate. Inew he felt the instant connection too.We dated for about 1.5 ever weekend but all of sudden he just cut it off. I think I scared him off.No sex or kissing.Since we talk for work purposes on monthly basis but really we don't have too. I had given up but calls today at work and asks what I'm doing this weekend.I'm going out of town for the holiday. I don't know how to handle this weather to continue to give up because obviously he's not into me or really try and pursue him. which route do I take with him MY DOB 10/30/74 his DOB5/10/74IP: Logged |
impulsv Knowflake Posts: 8 From: ca Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 23, 2010 10:28 PM
How do I post charts? My time is 10:37 am his is unknown. Thank youIP: Logged |
impulsv Knowflake Posts: 8 From: ca Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 23, 2010 10:46 PM
My chart http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cpy2filery8FMt-u1288834238/astro_w2at_01_v_l_hp.13191.16511.gif His chart http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_w2at_02_b_b_hp.13549.12875.gif&res=63&va=&cid=py2filery8FMt-u1288834238 IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted November 24, 2010 01:46 AM
Did you meet your soulmate like in Linda Goodman love signs. How did you met your soulmateIP: Logged |
impulsv Knowflake Posts: 8 From: ca Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 25, 2010 02:20 AM
Yes I believe so. Weeks after the separation he called me from another agency asking for assistance. He asked to meet me at my office for debriefing. The moment I saw him was like lightning struck And new that he had to be part of my life. I know he something too. Now I ache because he's not part of my life.IP: Logged |
impulsv Knowflake Posts: 8 From: ca Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 25, 2010 02:22 AM
Yes I believe so. Weeks after the separation he called me from another agency asking for assistance. He asked to meet me at my office for debriefing. The moment I saw him was like lightning struck And new that he had to be part of my life. I know he something too. Now I ache because he's not part of my life.IP: Logged |
impulsv Knowflake Posts: 8 From: ca Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 25, 2010 02:28 AM
Another odd thing is that everytime I had a bad discussion with my ex that same day he'd call and I'd be uplifted. Yesterday I had to see my ex and was alittle down and out of the blue he called. My coworkers noticed this pattern.IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted November 26, 2010 08:23 PM
love is always mutual and never one sided. i hope you get the help you need.IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted November 26, 2010 08:25 PM
help with the ex debriefing are you a lawyerIP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted November 26, 2010 08:29 PM
why is he not part of you life as you met like in linda goodman love signs and are soulmate. What's going on. Maybe you have a mission to complete and to clean house with the ex? IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4005 From: acousticgod@sbcglobal.net Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2010 09:24 PM
Play easy to catch.I don't know how the Taurus/Scorpio mating dance goes, but I think he'd like to have a sense that you're genuinely interested before he makes a move. IP: Logged |
impulsv Knowflake Posts: 8 From: ca Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 27, 2010 10:26 PM
Probably true needed to clean slate with ex. I'd play easy to catch if he'd play but he's not playing . After dating for a month and half. I asked him personal questions that I noticed made him uncomfortable such as when was your last relationship. At the end of the date usually I'd give him a hug but i do not because i became guarded. I noticed that confused him and prior to leaving he said next time well go out as friends. Since we haven't gone out but he calls me 1x month at work.He'll say call me after your trip and express interest. Then I call him at work after trip and he's cold. What I haven't done is call him after work like I used to.IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted November 28, 2010 12:51 PM
it's a dance but he needs to feel that you are genuine before he will make a move take it easy with him and see what happens.IP: Logged |
impulsv Knowflake Posts: 8 From: ca Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 28, 2010 05:08 PM
I'd reassure him if id know he was interested but I have no clue if he's just being friendly. After he said next time we'll go out as friends I called him and told him the reasons I was asking those questions was because I wanted to know if he was interested like I was. He said I was cool and hopefully we can still go out for coffee. SO I take it as NO. I wish I knew what to do. Give up or wait.IP: Logged |