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Registered: Feb 2010

posted December 03, 2010 03:05 AM            

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I hope someone can help decipher some concerns i have.

First off my birthday is Jan 6th 1987
born in Queens NY USA 7:45 AM

and the man in question is my Fiance
Born March 9th 1984
in Beckley West Virginia USA time unknown

we have been together for 3 years,I believe he has been faithful. and he has always loved me. I just have this agonizing doubt in the back of my mind that he might not be the one for me.On top of everything,my family doesn't know about him yet!
because they practice arranged marriage,and will probably disown me if they find out about him.I wonder if it it even worth it to
lose my family over this man.He is very quiet and doesn't talk as much as before.He is always depressed and doesn't make any efforts to be romantic or say nice things to me.I always make efforts to try new things with him..I wonder if things will get worse or more boring after we get married.is he the one? should i risk losing my family over him and tell them i dont want an arranged marriage? i wonder if i should call it all off and just let my family pick a spouse for me.thanks for any insight

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Posts: 35
From: Brooklyn, NY
Registered: Nov 2010

posted December 29, 2010 03:01 PM            

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It sounds like you already know the answer to your question. In another one of your posts you stated that in the back of your mind you keep getting the feeling that he isn't the one. If you feel this way after so many years then it is most likely true.
This is not a matter of astrology, it's a matter of your heart.
I doubt your family will hate you at all let alone hate you forever, but then again, I don't know your family and I know certain cultures take tradition very seriously.

Pray and meditate on it. Bring yourself to a place of peace and calm before making a decision. Call on your higher power as this is a huge decision.

My love and thoughts are with you <3

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From: London England
Registered: Aug 2010

posted December 29, 2010 06:33 PM            

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Why is he depressed?
Was he always depressed?
Did he never say nice things to you?

It doesn't sound much fun to be in your relationship, but I think you can salvage it, if you want to?

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