posted January 29, 2011 07:49 PM            

Anyway, I hope someone can help me with my transits/chart. Saturn right now is opposite my Venus and squaring my Mars + ASC and descendant and it looks like Saturn will be parking his butt in that spot til September-ish.

Does this mean my relationship chances are very poor for all this year? Saturn rules my 7th house, does this mean anything?

Thanks for taking the time to read...any advice will be greatly appreciated.

posted January 30, 2011 01:36 AM            

maybe when jupiter comes up on your venus, but beware of tying yourself to your home.. my personal experience of saturn (and im a taurus sun cancer asc) transiting 4th was that i stayed home a lot, depressed, preventing a lot of what i was searching for. it was also my saturn return.. (how was tr. saturn conj n. pluto? mines coming up at 22 degrees libra 2 deg. into my 5th tho not 4th)

watch for when venus transits your dc, with your ruling planet venus in 1oth aries and mars on your asc, maybe go out with a co-worker or group of co-workers..

either way, have more faith in yourself be more vocal and let people know what you think, with tact of course, sometimes we taurus' forget that when that cancer asc is activated and yours has mars too!!

keep an eye out for when the moon or venus hits around 3 degrees capi also, because it will be opposite your saturn.. with capi dc/7th, watch out for getting into a relationship you will eventually feel suffocated by because it feels safe at first (my saturn is exactly square yours lol, 3 libra 4th house for me.. i have capi dsc/7th house and my husbands sun is conjunct my saturn exactly.. wish i knew astrology before i met him lol!! he also has a 12th house mars conj cancer asc.. you are like a combination of our energies :P)

posted January 30, 2011 02:45 PM            

Yes, I am all water and fire. I need some balance..lol. And I do tend to be a hermit and tie myself to my home. You are spot on with that. I am so quiet and reserved.

Saturn conjuncting my Pluto was not too bad..so don't worry! I had some difficulties with my teenage son at the time but all is well now. I bought a house around the time Saturn hit my IC and he had a lot of difficulty adjusting. That was also the last time I was sick. Around Dec 2009-ish.

So, you think Venus coming up on my descendant will be good? And Jupiter approaching my Venus? Uranus is gonna hit my Venus in a few years and that kinda freaks me out.. That's so interesting that your chart and your hubby's chart have much in common with mine. What were your transits when you met?

posted January 30, 2011 06:09 PM            

i think it partly depends on if you want something that's going to be easy-flowing, because i don't think this would be. same with uranus transiting your venus, it will also be opposite your natal uranus (i have venus oppose uranus too). it seems like something is likely to come up soon, but i would advise you to keep your eyes open and don't be swept up to quickly, wait and see if everything is as it seems..

i think you are prone to have relationships that will make/break you and be erratic, depending on if you can come away from them with something learned or if it further bitters you. relationships may begin suddenly, end suddenly, and what's coming up might be that again.. or it could just be an internal transformation on your idea of love and relationships though, opening blocks for you. you may need to learn to take them one day at a time and enjoy the ride while it lasts, but worrying about if it will last will definitely undermine your intentions

posted January 31, 2011 09:00 PM            

You are right, I am very prone to erratic relationships and they always start and end suddenly. I never come away bitter though. I think my venus/moon midpoint is also opposed my Uranus and I do have a lot of trouble maintaining my emotions once it gets past a certain point. I'm glad you understand the 'snap' thing...haha, and I am kind of curious about your chart.

I think my two main issues probably are moon opposite uranus and venus square mars. My heart and my head will never be on the same page...lol. Easy flowing relationships bore me and the crazy ones burn me out.

Anyway, I am looking forward to Jupiter conjuncting my Venus in April. Venus on the DSC prob prob will be a very short transit. I'm hoping for something great!! I have been single for almost a decade!! I'm ready.