posted February 03, 2011 01:20 AM            

Here is my Natal chart http://img15.imageshack.us/img15/124/mychart.gif

And here is the synastry chart of me and my current partner. http://img442.imageshack.us/img442/8940/oursynastry.gif

posted February 06, 2011 10:59 PM            

HOWEVER... there are some negative points to be made, here...

posted February 06, 2011 11:08 PM            

But, this seems like a very serious and heavy relationship, one that a lot of responsibility is put on in both home and life direction -

One that a lot of control and intensity plays out in the relationship arena - and one that stands to turn into an emotionally controlling and perhaps manipulative situation... could this involve finances, as well?

This relationship seems to be blessed with material fortune, in the sense that the two of you will be have money and comfort, as promised by the Jupiter conjunctions, true node in 2nd house as well as composite moon (although this planet can also signify up and down finances, to a degree)...

Are you two in love, but also capable of smothering each other? Do you feel fated, at times seeing each other as ideal, as a permanent relationship, but then swing back to doubting your direction together and perhaps thinking that your relationship "like a pressure cooker" could just explode one day?

My suspicion is that although you two were obviously meant for each other in many respects, it's is also equally possible for you two to end up in romantic disaster. I can't gather if this is because one or both of you are good at being controlling of the other, of if the drive of Saturn is just too great within the synastry and composite... (probably both, I would guess)

posted February 06, 2011 11:35 PM            

My guess is that you will feel pretty down about your relationship in periods of a couple months at a time, really feeling like a breakup could be coming, but in reality it looks like this relationship could last into the beginning of 2012-2013.

My interpretation of these transits is there's a good likelyhood you two will break up...

In fact, a lot will change for you in 2012.

If your relationship does in fact survive this period, you will be married in 2016. If you guys do not last these years, you will find love again in 2016.

posted February 06, 2011 11:41 PM            

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Originally posted by starzy54:
I basically asked this question because I am worried about trusting my heart.
My family doesn't want me to marry him because of our difference's and customs.
They want to set up an arranged marriage for me.And sometimes i think i should appease their wishes because my heart isn't trust able and maybe my family might be right when they say he is wrong for me in the long run.I love him though,and i dont think anyone will ever love me the way he does.I know i have to make my choice and stand by it,so far its been 3 years and i'm keeping him waiting for me until i muster up the courage to listen to my heart and marry him or let him go to avoid family conflict.I do believe i'm in control of him,just keeping him wait all this time proves that.He is willing to wait forever,but i dont want to do that to him.I have my doubts all the time with him,he has none in regards to our relationship.I sometimes feel our differences are too big for us to over come,and my guilt of betraying my family will be too much for me to handle.

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This makes complete sense, now. The reason this relationship is so difficult is because so much responsibility is being put upon it...

You have two choices, here. One is that you proceed with your relationship and try as hard as you can to not put unnecessary burdens upon each other, OR, to allow this relationship to go, realizing that essentially your destiny will be chosen for you...

I can't tell you what is best, except that the outcome will be very similar regardless of your choice; promised by the transits I see over the next several years.

posted February 06, 2011 11:47 PM            

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Originally posted by starzy54:
Thank you for your interpretation.I can't thank you enough for taking out your time and effort to do this.

We almost broke up a few times already,but we keep coming back to one another.
You say i will find love again in 2016? with my current partner? or someone else

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posted February 07, 2011 12:01 AM            

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Originally posted by starzy54:
I was hoping not to hear that..
Is there anything i should work on to make my current relationship last? any hurdles i can possibly anticipate and prepare for?
if you can't see any more in detail,let me thank you again for all your help.I appreciate it.

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In order for you to make your relationship last these years, you will have to use this Pluto transits to become empowered enough to make your own decisions. You will have to be willing to fight for your own decisions to stay with your partner, and at the same time allow your relationship with him to thrive without unnecessary "control" playing out within the relationship together...

It will be a balancing act. You will have to fight to set yourself free.

You will have to allow your partner breathing room, and to be determined to stay together regardless of what difficulties you will face together.

You have Pluto in the composite of the 7th house. There is a likelihood that your relationship will end by means outside of control...

Unfortunately, this situation may be unavoidable, and should you manage to overcome the obstacles put forth from your parents, and differences in culture, you will have to learn how to work with each other rather than against each other - do not fight each other.

If you manage to do this, your relationship will be intense, karmic, bonded and solidified. If you handle this relationship inappropriately, it will disintegrate... and you will have fought for nothing.