Posts: 31
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011

posted March 03, 2011 03:18 PM            

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Me and my cancers have been together for two years, since my family was very strict, we only seen each other like once every two months, but he never left, hes always here with me, no matter when im happy or sad i could always rely on him, he gave me everything like he could to make me happy.
But things getting harder and harder, he had a fight with my dad, and dad said to him to leave me alone, but we still didnt give up.
Last week, i found out he had a date with other girl, and he said to his friend im his ex already when we hadnt even borke up! I was so angry and asked him why, he said he had no intension to cheat on me, and i have been pushing him away, treat him like nothing, so he decided to give up, he said he cant do it anymore.
I keep begging him not to leave me, and i have been calling him but when he pick up just told me to F off, and leave him alone, im so depressed that he never ever told me to off and never told me to leave him alone, and i still havnt gave up, i keep calling him and he told me he had moved on and he has a new gf and he said his gf treat him heaps better, they met everyday, and i should move on.
I was shaking and could not think when i heard this, but the things he said just suddenly turn so sharp and i could not believe the things he said, i have a feeling he is saying this to hurt me to push me away but im not sure, im not sure if he has a new gf and move on already
I been emailing him everyday like its my dirary, but he said he is been deleting them everyday and call me psycho and said dnt wana see me or talk to me.
Please help, i cant eat i cant sleep, i lost 5 kilos already. Please and i call him he jus wont pick up anymore

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From: new delhi
Registered: Sep 2010

posted March 03, 2011 04:20 PM            

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let go.

i m a cancer and ask me once m done, i m really done.

its hard bu trust me break up are not that bad afterall. a matter of time.

on a higher note if you really want him back then you should be patient and do nothing about it.

let him come out of the shell again. try to step into his shoes and think what he would be going through right now?act accordingly

ps ONT jump into the dating pool only to make him jelous.that would actually **** him off

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Registered: Nov 2009

posted March 03, 2011 08:26 PM            

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Eh you need to let this go hun. Begging for him back and trying to get him to change his mind won't do anyone any good. It's obvious he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you anymore =(. Don't lower yourself and continue this begging...It only pushes him further away. Just disappear from his life and live your life, don't depend so much on him. You were perfectly happy before you met him, you'll live.

If you go no contact with him, maybe in the future he might be curious about you and actually initiate convo. If you keep on being all up in his face, all it leads to is him thinking you're unstable and needy.

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posted March 03, 2011 10:46 PM            

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Get this book http://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Attraction-Universal-Laws-Romance/dp/1561708178

And listen to her show on hayhouse radio every monday morning 10am pacific time. She knows what she's talking about.

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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009

posted March 07, 2011 01:07 PM            

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I see you have come to terms with all of this. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum25/HTML/002239.html
Bless you!

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