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posted March 06, 2011 11:43 PM            

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Hello. I am wondering what folks think about this synastry - and am curious as to any explanations as to why I can't seem to let it go. The relationship was never physical and ended years ago after multiple misunderstandings. Despite an initial attraction and sense no one knew me better, it ultimately became more work than it was worth. What was once thrilling and exciting became overwhelming and draining. All the pluto perhaps... Thanks for any insight. Synastry and aspects attached.

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posted March 07, 2011 10:00 AM            

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Welcome!

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posted March 10, 2011 08:53 AM            

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Originally posted by astrophile:
Hello. I am wondering what folks think about this synastry
- and am curious as to any explanations as to why
I can't seem to let it go.
The relationship was never physical and ended years ago
after multiple misunderstandings.
Despite an initial attraction and sense no one knew me better,
it ultimately became more work than it was worth.
What was once thrilling and exciting became overwhelming and draining.
All the pluto perhaps...
Thanks for any insight.

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I do not know much astrology;
however from a vibe point of view;
it appears the two of you are very intense people.
Seems you burn each other out even though you were not physically intimate.
Maybe you or the both of you were afraid of getting any closer?
It is like, well;
you both knew on some instinctive levels;
"this is not going to work"
despite your attraction to each other.
Maybe unconsciously pushing each other away?
My advice?
Let this one go dear.
It would only bring you unhappiness if pursued.
Treasure the good memories but let the rest go.

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~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
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posted March 11, 2011 08:35 AM            

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LEXX,
Thank you! You are so right! I don't think I ever felt something so intensely before, and I resisted the entire time because I didn't see a good ending out of it. In working together, we got a lot done, and I felt that together, we were able to accomplish more than alone. However, there quickly evolved these undercurrents that were hard to ignore. It mostly felt like passion, control clamoring to get to the surface; yet neither were in a position to do anything about it since going down that path would have had negative repercussions professionally and personally. So it went largely undiscussed while we continued to work together. He made subtle attempts which I did not acknowledge, but I loved being the center of his attention. I miss that feeling of vibrancy. I don't know how much that was our synergy/synastry or whatever was going in my life at the time, of which he just happened to be a part.

You are right. I need to let it go, and it's hard to let go of such a feeling - even if the rest was unrealized and the relationship ultimately ended badly...

I just wish I understood why...

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posted March 11, 2011 08:44 AM            

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Not why it ended, but why it happened and why him in the first place. The other thing is, as much as I think of it, still, it's odd to think he might no longer give it any thought at all. Our paths no longer cross. It's not that I'd want him back in my life, but that feeling! well that would be another thing...the positive parts of it anyway.

And I'm curious if my thoughts about it or the relationship itself could be explained astrologically or any other way - as if understanding them could help me let it go.

That would be the hope, I guess.

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posted March 11, 2011 01:13 PM            

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{{{hugs}}}
Try posting at Astrology 2.
Folks there might give you some Astrological insight.
Sorry I could not help more.

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~There is no box.~H♥
~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
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posted March 11, 2011 02:49 PM            

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LEXX,

You are more help than you know. Your reading was spot on, and you are right about what I need to do. I wish I had more answers or a sense of his perspective - is it possible to feel this much and be alone in it?

I will also try the other forum. Let me know if you get any other vibes!http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/icons/icon10.gif

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