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carl
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posted March 22, 2011 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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littlecloud
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posted March 22, 2011 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oooooooo I likey the cradle...tells me its a supportive relationship. Ok will be back to look later cuz it's way past my bed time...

but I have a good feel on it

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posted March 23, 2011 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do not know Astrology;
but keep up with the Long Distance Relationship for now.
And talk, seriously communicate.
This is a good time to really get to know each other in ways you could not when together
in person.
And I wish for you a complete recovery from your health woes.

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posted March 24, 2011 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks LC, look forward to having an outsiders perspective.

Lexx - very good points! Thanks

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posted March 24, 2011 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Firstly I like the cradle in the composite, to me this speaks of a supportive relationship where the two of you are very supportive of each other.

The moon/pluto opposition gives this strong element of all or nothing, can't live without you kind of feeling/attitude in the relationship. It's very strong and very tying but also depends on the synastry and natal. If for example you have a hard moon/pluto aspect in the synastry then this aspect in the composite is further emphasized. Same for any other aspect. The best thing to do with this is allow each other breathing space. Moon is in the 6th house so you likely spent time together everyday, or are in contact every day for a few hours. It's a nice thing to want to be with someone that often but when tied into pluto that way it can be a bit much at times where you both need to make time to be apart.

The really nice thing about this moon/pluto opposition is that it has avenues to release it's nastier qualities. Through the venus/jupiter conjunction that is trined by pluto it gives a very deep love in a benevolent way and sextiled by the moon is further emphasized for a forever kind of love. This will help some of the other harsher aspects. These aspects help to lend a hand in being loving, forgiving and understanding to one another. The moon trine neptune helps you two understand each other with little words and really ups the romance in the relationship.

Now, I don't like mars conjunct mercury because it can lead to nasty fights and frequent arguments. However the sun conjunct mercury is very good. It helps the two of you talk through your problems and helps make communication a central theme in your relationship, which is an excellent thing in any relationship. The arguments might be money and sibling related mostly but the merc/mars conjunction could just make it a general misunderstanding in general. Again this is also dependent on the natal and synastry.

The venus/jupiter square saturn. Me no likey. It puts a damper on fun and love. Makes things more serious when you just want to dream. With saturn in the 1st I feel like there's some sort of delay in the identification of your relationship. Perhaps you didn't define it or it took time to define. Then there's the likelihood that it puts a damper on the two of you as individuals in the relationship, you feel less 'I' and more 'we' which can be devastating to some.

All in all lean on that Sun/Mercury conjunction to help communications which is always key and avoid the moon/pluto instinct to take over and completely posses the other person. Give each other room to be individuals within the relationship and to breathe. Don't give each other the third degree about the tiniest thing, believe in the depth and magnanimity of your love to see you through.

I know that culture is a big part of her (?) life right now. I advise you to help her embrace it and partake in it yourself as much as you can. A strong culture in a persons life really dictates a lot of what they do and how they do. When you're in a relationship with someone like this you have to find a balance, learning more about their culture and language helps bc it allows your partner to feel more at home with you and to feel that they aren't giving up a part of their identity to be with you.

If you feel like it, post natals and synastry

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posted March 24, 2011 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Littlecloud
You are amazing

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posted March 25, 2011 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nah...just remembering what I've read and experienced...I read what I see and feel.

Thanks though.

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posted March 25, 2011 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 26, 2011 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 27, 2011 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreamy_AriesGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

Well, transit Uranus is conjunct her Aries Sun now, so i guess thats why she feels the need for freedom at the moment. And yes, this transit will last for a couple of months, so the best thing you can do is to give her space and take care of yourself!
You have some very strong aspects in synastry so no doubt why you feel so close to her, but well, you have to trust the Universe. Transit Jupiter will trine your Venus and conjunct your Moon around late april, that could bring you some relief and good feelings. All the best!

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posted March 27, 2011 07:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the input, much appreciated. For me personally, it has been a very miserable month, maybe the worst of my life. Praying April looks better.

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posted March 29, 2011 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok I see that the main issue here is that moon/pluto opposition. I see it in her chart and I see it your synastry.

If I'm not mistaken she is the moon and from what I have read on here (thank you Lioness) is that the moon person feels a need to escape after a while. It may not be forever but the intensity of the opposition is a lot to handle. She has this in her natal, which can make her rather obsessive, it's in your synastry and in your composite. I'm getting the feeling that she needs to break away to make sure she loves you for you. Not out of some obligation to your being ill or out of some strange obsessiveness she has.

If you two break up for good then I feel that you will be friends or that at least there will be no hard feelings. If you two stay together this relationship will continue for a while...that's what I'm feeling right now. I say a while because I don't have an exact time and I don't want to say forever bc that's a long time.

Now as far as you going through chemo, please contact me at littlecloud@linda-goodman.com Put your user name and LL in the subject so I don't miss it.

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posted March 30, 2011 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 30, 2011 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok progressions is not a place I excel in. However there was a thread that someone mentioned a trine between mars and venus in natal and synastry I think. If you look that up I'd say that gives you a rough idea. Again this is not a question I can answer with certainty.

My advice is take this time during the break to look inward within yourself and maybe face some demons or acknowledge faults that you have. Most of all take the time to get better, physically. That is most important because without your health there is not much you can do. Health meaning emotional, physical and mental.

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posted March 31, 2011 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Really really anxious and sad today, not sure if there is something in the sky (does not help that it is rain and gray here). Very deeply depressed, probably a creation of my own mind too though. But just feel so uncertain about this relationship now and it hurts very bad, physically (not even emotionally). It hurts my body, can not sleep.

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posted April 22, 2011 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 22, 2011 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did you fix the charts?

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