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carl
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posted April 04, 2011 01:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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lechien
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posted April 04, 2011 06:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you are very brave, and for your situation i think you did the right thing.

i want to send you a virtual (((hug))). keep in mind this is the first time i used to this internet ((())) hug sign!

focus on your recovery, work on yourself and don't be bothered by what's going on in the outside world. you are the most important thing for yourself. when there is an end, there will be a place for the new to come.

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abcd efg
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posted April 04, 2011 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for abcd efg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by carl:
Not to say it is easy, it hurts. . . .

Did you receive a reply to your email?

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carl
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posted April 04, 2011 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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lechien
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posted April 04, 2011 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by carl:
Blocked her on everything (aries moon action)

heeey i don't do that sort of thing! which degree is your Aries? yesterday's new moon was on my moon at 13. maybe it helped you let go too?

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carl
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posted April 04, 2011 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ami Anne
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posted April 04, 2011 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by carl:
Not to say it is easy, it hurts. Even just ending it was not easy. She is so busy, and I guess this is a r-ship that does not exactly have a "label". But just sent a long email, pretty mature, saying my body can not handle the lack of devotion, etc.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/001164.html

For sure a wounded soul. Is there a pill to become asexual and detached? Honest to god, really, love is so not worth it to even risk the huge potential for hurt. No thanks to rolling that dice. and it is unfair to any girl in the future anyway as I will be much more guarded. Dear (my) Aries moon, go away, no more spontaneity.


Butttt, the point of this topic was to thank all those who helped, cause I made 2-3 topics about the issue.


Darling
I lost a dear person to death. I can say that "time heals"
People told me that and my eyes glazed over with the stupidity of the comment but it was true.
You will heal even though now you think you won't.
Are you on FB?If you would like, add me as a friend.
Let me know if you want to and I will tell you the particulars.
Right now, it just hurts.That is all you can do---hurt

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Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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rajji
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posted April 04, 2011 11:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
carl..Love is worth a thousand tears.
Maybe part of loving is learning to let go.

"I never said it would be easy, I only said it would be worth it. I never said there wouldn’t be tears, I just promised to be there if there was. I never said it would be true love, I only said you’d know if it was. I never promised it would be forever, I only said to love unconditionally and generously with no recognition of time. I never said to hold on at all costs, I only said one day you’d have to let go and be free. I never said you’d get the rainbow without getting through the rain, I only said the sun is always brighter than the storm. I never said you wouldn’t cry, or feel like your heart had died. I never said you wouldn’t change inside. And if I had, I’d have lied."

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Ami Anne
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posted April 05, 2011 04:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is beautiful Raji !

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Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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