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Topic: Just to say I ended it
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carl Knowflake Posts: 440 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 04, 2011 01:50 AM
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lechien Knowflake Posts: 910 From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat! Registered: May 2009
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posted April 04, 2011 06:38 AM
you are very brave, and for your situation i think you did the right thing. i want to send you a virtual (((hug))). keep in mind this is the first time i used to this internet ((())) hug sign! focus on your recovery, work on yourself and don't be bothered by what's going on in the outside world. you are the most important thing for yourself. when there is an end, there will be a place for the new to come. IP: Logged |
abcd efg Knowflake Posts: 321 From: India Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 04, 2011 01:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by carl: Not to say it is easy, it hurts. . . .
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carl Knowflake Posts: 440 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 04, 2011 01:36 PM
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lechien Knowflake Posts: 910 From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat! Registered: May 2009
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posted April 04, 2011 02:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by carl: Blocked her on everything (aries moon action)
heeey i don't do that sort of thing! which degree is your Aries? yesterday's new moon was on my moon at 13. maybe it helped you let go too? IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 440 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 04, 2011 03:50 PM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9372 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 04, 2011 04:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by carl: Not to say it is easy, it hurts. Even just ending it was not easy. She is so busy, and I guess this is a r-ship that does not exactly have a "label". But just sent a long email, pretty mature, saying my body can not handle the lack of devotion, etc. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/001164.html For sure a wounded soul. Is there a pill to become asexual and detached? Honest to god, really, love is so not worth it to even risk the huge potential for hurt. No thanks to rolling that dice. and it is unfair to any girl in the future anyway as I will be much more guarded. Dear (my) Aries moon, go away, no more spontaneity. Butttt, the point of this topic was to thank all those who helped, cause I made 2-3 topics about the issue.
Darling I lost a dear person to death. I can say that "time heals" People told me that and my eyes glazed over with the stupidity of the comment but it was true. You will heal even though now you think you won't. Are you on FB?If you would like, add me as a friend. Let me know if you want to and I will tell you the particulars. Right now, it just hurts.That is all you can do---hurt ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
rajji Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: Jan 2011
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posted April 04, 2011 11:04 PM
carl..Love is worth a thousand tears. Maybe part of loving is learning to let go. "I never said it would be easy, I only said it would be worth it. I never said there wouldn’t be tears, I just promised to be there if there was. I never said it would be true love, I only said you’d know if it was. I never promised it would be forever, I only said to love unconditionally and generously with no recognition of time. I never said to hold on at all costs, I only said one day you’d have to let go and be free. I never said you’d get the rainbow without getting through the rain, I only said the sun is always brighter than the storm. I never said you wouldn’t cry, or feel like your heart had died. I never said you wouldn’t change inside. And if I had, I’d have lied." IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9372 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 05, 2011 04:55 AM
That is beautiful Raji !------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |