posted May 12, 2011 08:35 AM
Hi I have been reading a lot about Virgos and sometimes it feels like you are describing my guy, I have also noticed that I can have more insight into his personality with a complete chart and not only his sun sign, so I was hoping someone would be kind enough to me a little more about him and the odds for this relationship. His dob is 08/28/1981 he was born in south america have no idea about the time tough :-(
I am a Libra, dob 10/08/79 also born in south america between 2 and 3 pm.
The sexual chemistry is off the charts (altough we haven't had sex yet, it almost feels like he is afraid to take that step) intelectually we get along great, at the beginning he was extremely closed off, hard, trying so hard not to show that he wanted to see me or that he liked me, slowly he started to open up, it was almost like it was painful for him to be feeling these things and even worse to be able to express them, when he told me he missed me it was such a struggle but he did and i could tell how hard was for him not only to admit it but to be feeling vulnerable. I can tell he is afraid of being abandoned or replaced by someone better, is not that he thinks I would cheat because I am that kind of woman (btw he knows I am not) but because he feels inferior, like I am too good for him or "why would u want to be with me, someone better would come along and she will leave" he never actually said that but I could feel it. He constantly says I flirt too much, I am always smiling and that I am too nice with everyone...
We are currently distanced, but I know that underneath all his "neardenthal bs" he has a huge heart and could be so loving and romantic, I saw that side of him he opened up just for a little while but it was enough. He has told me that for the first time he feels he has met someone that he wants as the mother of his kids (even introduced me like that to his family...)
*sigh* please if u can offer some insight and advice it would greatly appreciated...
Thanks!!!!