posted May 16, 2011 03:06 PM            

I added some asteroids, just because.

posted May 17, 2011 12:28 PM            

Thank you for being more clear. I'd like to take a look at the charts and I know you want privacy but it's easier for me if I know:

1. Who is on the inside circle and who's on the outside.

2. Having both birthdates and the birth data allows me to make a chart where I can see the exact degree numbers of the planets. With Astrodienst synastry charts degree numbers aren't included and you can't always tell which planets are relating to each other realistically, especially when you have large conjunctions like this chart.

3. Are you married to this person? How long have you been together?

posted May 18, 2011 06:45 PM            

When I look at your charts together the symbols suggest an extreme toughness. This relationship doesn't look easy for you to stay in.

I want to say that you are very young and your statement that leaving is an easy way out is not appropriate for someone who isn't even married.

The symbols in his chart suggest that he is a hard worker but he can also be very controlling and rigid. There is something about this relationship that you idealize but there is the potential of getting stuck in something you may not want for much longer.

I don't see a move or geographic relocation for you in the near future, I don't think you'll be moving in with each other although it looks like you might remain with him for a little longer, it looks and feels like he might be stepping up to the plate a little bit more and you'll feel very loved but then the relationship will change because he'll be going through some massive changes and it looks more like it's a loss for him than for you.

As I studied the symbols in your charts together they gave me the feeling that your relationship is like two motorcycle gangs fighting it out. There is love and affection but a lot of rigidity, control, anger and the feeling of constant little break-ups almost all the time. I wouldn't be surprised if you told me that there was some abusive behavior in there as well. I really hope not.

As long as you are not in any danger I'd just say that it's alright to have different experiences in life and different kinds of relationships but trust yourself to know what's good for you, what you like and don't like. You'll learn a lot from this relationship, but your own chart suggests that you need something a little more joyful and light-feeling in a relationship.

Life moves along gradually so take your time, but not so much that you miss other opportunities that God/the Universe is trying to give you.

That's my insight. Other's may also chime in if they feel the need. Please respond by letting me know if I hit on specifics. If you have any other questions, I'll try to clear it up for you.

posted May 19, 2011 06:01 PM            

I don't think we'll be moving in together either, and you're right that I can't see myself in this relationship forver because it really doesn't satisfy my basic values in life. I think I've been trying to make it fit the mold I want and that's been the problem. There's some qualities I just have to have or I can't be happy.

He is definitely stepping up a little more but in some ways it's like the more affection there is, the more tension it creates.

posted May 19, 2011 08:00 PM            

I want to say one last thing. Your being a Libra Sun with Mars conjunct your Sun, it's as if you have the turbo charged energy to please others, but I loved reading that you're strongly aware of what you want in a relationship and that in itself sounds healthy. Trust yourself, trust your instincts. Libra's love peace, they require it. You will eventually give yourself that gift.

Take good care,