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nervousgravity
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posted June 03, 2011 04:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nervousgravity     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey everyone

I'm very confused right now.
There are a lot of mixed opinions about the 12th house in synastry. Some say it's good. Others say not at all. So I was wondering if anyone could please take a look at this chart and give your opinion. It would mean a great deal to me.

How would we effect each other? Do these placements indicate possible secretive issues? Or more like an intense connection?


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Ami Anne
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posted June 03, 2011 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had the same thing.My Sun,Venus,Mercury and Moon were in his 12th house.
I really cannot answer,though.
I am not clear enough about it to answer.
I would love people's opinions, though.

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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Ami Anne
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posted June 03, 2011 10:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I felt like I KNEW him,effortlessly.
I felt like he was the transparent man, virtually.
I felt like I knew him like I knew my son--inside and out.
My son was the person who was most like me.
We had the same sense of humor and we could almost read each other's minds.
This is what I would say 12th house synastry feels like.

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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nervousgravity
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From: NJ, USA
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posted June 03, 2011 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nervousgravity     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I felt like I KNEW him,effortlessly.
I felt like he was the transparent man, virtually.
I felt like I knew him like I knew my son--inside and out.
My son was the person who was most like me.
We had the same sense of humor and we could almost read each other's minds.
This is what I would say 12th house synastry feels like.


Thank you so much for responding Ami. I always enjoy reading what you have to say.

Wow... that sounds incredible. Did it unsettle you at all to have such a connection with him?

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Ami Anne
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posted June 03, 2011 03:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by nervousgravity:
Thank you so much for responding Ami. I always enjoy reading what you have to say.

Wow... that sounds incredible. Did it unsettle you at all to have such a connection with him?


No, it was so natural which may seem strange. Some things which sound strange can feel totally natural while you are in them.
Thank you for you sweet words Nervous gravity.
They mean a lot to me

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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nervousgravity
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posted June 04, 2011 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nervousgravity     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
No, it was so natural which may seem strange. Some things which sound strange can feel totally natural while you are in them.
Thank you for you sweet words Nervous gravity.
They mean a lot to me


That makes me a little more hopeful then. From other research I've done on that chart, it seems he might be able to break me out of this prison I imposed on myself. Or at least help me anyway. If I let him do so, that is.

And you're very welcome
If you're not already overwhelmed by requests.., I'd love to hear your opinions on my natal chart just for a different perspective other than my own. I'll post a new thread of course, but only if you have the time.

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Ami Anne
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posted June 04, 2011 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It would be my pleasure to look at your chart !
Post it in Personal readings attention to me

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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Lioness
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posted June 08, 2011 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have heavy 12th house synastry with someone.. Its both good and bad.. Like Ami said its very deep and personal.. It hits a spot in you that is unexplainable..

What I have discovered, is that the house person gets hit hard in the back yard.. So to speak... this is someone that sneaks into you and uncovers yourself.... You see your self differently... The planet person can bring out your deep fears,and see through you, like no other...
You can try anything to hide yourself, but it wont work.. or does it?? (shrug) There is so level of confusion going on..

I think it depends on what you have locked up inside you, what ever that is it will be brought out into the open with your interaction with each other..

Thats pretty darn scary.. Some people can not handle it.. Its easier to get away from some one, then it is to deal with your true inner self..
Your secret door has now be opened.. Do you choose to close the door, or walk in with eyes wide open??

For me, what I had locked up, was my emotions.. Ive never truly dealt with emotions.. Ive just shrugged them off and moved on. Never looking back...

Let me tell you did I get a good kick in the azz.. My emotions were brought out like a rain storm..
In the beginning.. even speaking to sent me into an emotional spiral.. My head was spinning.. I truly had no clue what I was feeling..
My hormones went crazy, and I was out of balance for 8 months..

Anyways.. Also some things are still hidden.. My Venus is in his 12th and I care for him sooo much, but I would NEVER admit it or tell him.. Even if he asked me, I would deny deny deny..
Why OMG the fear of rejection is so deep and internal... It would just literally destroy me.... So I keep it to myself.. Never showing him, never saying it.. never admitting it..

Also his Mars is in my 12th.. Sneaky little thing has done things behind my back..
He created a fake FB acct, and requested me as a friend.. Only I didnt fall for it.. I denied it, saying.. IDK who this is.. lol
He goes through my desk at work.. I have no clue what he's looking for...
Thats what I have found out.. No clue what he's done, that I havent found out...

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