posted June 25, 2011 11:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I saw your comment on the other thread about how you are both in to each other.That is good.
Would be happy to meditate on the charts if you do it like Pluto Squared did

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You got it girlfriend. I'm doing chores and have plans this evening so it may not be until tomorrow. But I will definitely list them out for you.

posted June 26, 2011 04:13 AM            

Thanks anyway

posted June 26, 2011 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
Well... never mind. He got back together with his ex. I'm 0-2. It's not worth it. I'm done.

Thanks anyway

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I am sorry (((Jo))

posted June 26, 2011 10:39 AM            

A couple minutes later he sent me a sad face and apologized. I responded back "for what?', but after thinking about it and before he could tell me, I sent him another one that said, "never mind. Don't tell me. I don't want to know." Then I turned off my phone and went to bed.

There aren't any explanations or apologies that will fix this, so what's the point of listening to them? Easier to delete cut him out and move on.

posted June 26, 2011 11:21 AM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
Thanks guys. But I don't care. I had a strange feeling about it last night (random gut instinct) so I sent him a text asking him if that's what happened. He replied a few minutes later that he did. So I replied, "well, I guess that's that then." And deleted him from my phone.

A couple minutes later he sent me a sad face and apologized. I responded back "for what?', but after thinking about it and before he could tell me, I sent him another one that said, "never mind. Don't tell me. I don't want to know." Then I turned off my phone and went to bed.

There aren't any explanations or apologies that will fix this, so what's the point of listening to them? Easier to delete cut him out and move on.

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Well, I would say to try to learn from it Jo.
At least that way, it will not be wasted.
That is what I try to do, anyway

posted June 26, 2011 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well, I would say to try to learn from it Jo.
At least that way, it will not be wasted.
That is what I try to do, anyway

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Thanks girl. I don't know what there is to learn in this situation really. I knew she wanted to get back together because we talked about it (The best part of us was that it was safe to say anything. There was total acceptance and understanding.).

Personally, I think he made a big mistake in reconciling. His reasons revolved around the fact that she's the closest thing to a mom his little girl has ever had. I never once heard him say he was considering it because he loved her and wanted to be with her. I even called him out on that omission and his answer again revolved around his daughter not himself.

I know all too well what a mistake it is to be with someone for the sake of your kids (that was the theme of the last seven years of my marriage), and considering our dynamic, I thought it was best to cut things off while they're together. We adore each other, and I know he really wants us to be friends and stay in contact. But I also know I would be a distraction which isn't fair to anyone.