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From: Cambria heights,NY
Registered: Jun 2011

posted July 06, 2011 11:36 PM            

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So heres the story I just started talking to my cancer again after a close family member of his passed, I reached out. We exchange a few words and he said:
MY RESPONSE:'ve been talking to my crush for a while now. A couple weeks back he asked me was I single I replied " I was at the moment"he said its good I'm single then he went into A LOT of detail of why he was also single then saying at the end "When his one come by which will be soon or later he was gonna show her his love and appreciation and she would be displayed as his 8th wonder on the world then he said that I (Me) already know. Yesterday we were having a convo and I said I'm a free spirit but I'll never go against my morals then i said I caught 2 of my roomies in the act. He replied back IN EXACT WORDS by saying" I know college is fun and wild but don't forget why ur there in the first place, You have the right ideal, don't compromise your morals, but have fun also. Don't go having **** with a lot of dudes SMH. But find one you like, make em strap up and go in (we don't want nothing now). You gotta try everything at least once...Have you?"......I'm a little confuse by him and why he would say that to me, pLus I like him and I think he likes me "i responded by saying I wasnt experience(Im still a virgin) but in order for me to lose my virginity I needed 2 way love, mental stimulation and emotional attachment, I said I rather wait for the one ...Perhaps I scared him off?
HIS RESPONSE:my responsed to my crush via letter(Im far away at college)...he wrote me back 2 weeks later he usually only takes a week if that stating this:
he stated " I take major breaks in between though, Sometimes, being I haven't been around for so long, some people I feel too disengaged; I barely have anything to say, Its sad sometimes". We must have an mutual agreement and understanding to call each other on our mistakes and faults and errors!! It is our duty as friends to correct each other and ourselves, with humility, when we are wrong!! To hold ourselves to less would be diminishing!! We would only be betraying ourselves, for we must behave in accordance with who we want to be!! In the words of Niall Ferguson,"Its NOT the fault of the mirror if it reflects our blemishes as clearly as our beauty"....WHAT IS HE SAYING?? DO YOU THINK HE WANTS TO BE JUST FRIENDS?
Also he said:I find your vibes to be intelligible and lucid, and I always re-evaluate my assessment of your mind.because it is not often that i encounter young women who are capable of their own thoughts.

He also gave me an explanation as to why he didnt send me a letter back quick : he said being that he hasnt been around for long, he feels ppl are too disengaged. He barely has anything to say: its sad sometimes.
I replied back by saying: I didnt need an explanation as too why he didnt write me back quick, I told him letters are optional and have no time limit. So when u need to take a break by all means do so, and when u do write I'll make sure to send my regards back.

Est then he hasnt wrote me back or phone call. emails NOTHING. Its going on three weeks!
Can I get some feed back!!!

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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted July 07, 2011 03:43 PM            

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Hi Pretty Pisces

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
I am my Beloved's.My Beloved is mine.
Song of Solomon

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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From: Cambria heights,NY
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posted July 08, 2011 07:55 PM            

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Im not getting what your saying. Can you elaborate for me...Thank you

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posted July 08, 2011 11:38 PM            

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Hi PrettyPisces: I don't do astrology readings, but from what you posted It seems like he is older than you, and that he really cares about you as friend and does not want to take advantage of you. He gave you REALLY GREAT advice! I don't quite understand his response to you, whether or not it was directed at you in anyway. But it does seem like he was explaining himself (bad to take advantage of your virginity). So you haven't heard from him? Sorry because I know that hurts. But you have to have an open heart and go forward with your life. He is your friend, he may have realized you have feelings for him that he does not or cannot return for his own reason. That's my two cents, hope it helps you.

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posted July 09, 2011 05:05 PM            

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Thank you tenny...but what Im confused about is even though I like him and I always felt a connection. I always treated him as a friend, and never off stepped my boundaries( NEVER) was flirtly or anything in that nature. He really started being distant after I said " I rather wait for "The one" ...Im intuition screams he thinks Im talking about him but in reality I rather wait" The One" has NO name. Its just the way I want to go about with doing things. Im confused because he has said to me I need you a friend, someone I can be with, that understands me...Im tired of playing games, he said this after to me after I became distant. Im just rather confuse that he disappeared on me BUT above hurt. It makes me have resentment towards him and I dont want it to be that way, If he doesnt want to be with me fine, I believe that when its real friendship above all. Im cool with that But I can still bet he'll have an issue if I tell him Im seeing someone or interested in another person...its happen before
btw: Im older than him by a few months

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