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posted July 08, 2011 02:15 PM            

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I started dating this guy that I already feel a close connection with, but there are some aspects in our chart that worry me about how our relationship will be in the future. What do you think of our Synastry?
(I'm on the outside & he's on the inside) & his birthtime is unknown.

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posted July 08, 2011 06:42 PM            

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I will take a quick look later Darling

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posted July 08, 2011 06:58 PM            

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Thanks you've been so nice! take your time ^^

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posted July 08, 2011 07:13 PM            

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Well
I will tell you what I found, His Chiron conjuncts your Mars. This will be INTENSE. These relationships can start fast,get intense and leave fast,imo.
His Vertex conjuncts your Sun which is an aspects of "fate"
His Venus conjuncts your Saturn. I would not like this cuz Saturn makes Venus feel cold,restricted.
His Sun, Mars,Pluto conjuncts your Uranus. This is a super attraction aspect.
Your Chiron opposes his Sun,Pluto and Mars.

I am NOT very good.Let me say this. I have been doing it for 2 years only.

My conclusion is that it will start in a super attraction way. You will get close really fast. You will have intense ,deep sharing from both ends i.e. you and him lol

However,Saturn conjunct Pluto may make you feel unhappy with each other ,like unloved with the other

How does that sound?

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
I am my Beloved's.My Beloved is mine.
Song of Solomon

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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posted July 08, 2011 08:12 PM            

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Well so far it has be very intense. I do feel the need to hold back (his venus sq my saturn) because I'm afraid I might come on too strong (my natal mars conjunct pluto). But I feel like we have a lot in common & the way we approach things seem pretty similar. We were both born on the 15th, so our suns make a exact sextile. I do have a feeling those saturn squares will get us in the future. I appreciate the reading ^^ very helpful

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posted July 08, 2011 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Well so far it has be very intense. I do feel the need to hold back (his venus sq my saturn) because I'm afraid I might come on too strong (my natal mars conjunct pluto). But I feel like we have a lot in common & the way we approach things seem pretty similar. We were both born on the 15th, so our suns make a exact sextile. I do have a feeling those saturn squares will get us in the future. I appreciate the reading ^^ very helpful

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Thank you Sweetie
This is my thought.You are totally right to hold back. 90% of my Chiron relationships, the person ran away. All of these were platonic males or female friends.
However,most people cannot take the intensity of a Chiron relationship.
I have 2 left

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
I am my Beloved's.My Beloved is mine.
Song of Solomon

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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posted July 08, 2011 10:04 PM            

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Your welcome
really? well i'm having less hope that this relationship will last.
What kind of Chiron aspects usually make people run from a relationship?

He has Sun trine Chiron in Natal & I have Venus sextile chiron in Natal

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posted July 09, 2011 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Your welcome
really? well i'm having less hope that this relationship will last.
What kind of Chiron aspects usually make people run from a relationship?

He has Sun trine Chiron in Natal & I have Venus sextile chiron in Natal

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Well,this is my feeling about Chiron in any relationship.
Both people have to have a few crucial ingredients.
Both have to be humble enough to admit mistakes.Both have to be humble enough to forgive mistakes in the other.

Each has to be free to go to far and then say I am sorry.
The other must allow him back in his good graces.

If not, one will run away. The more immature one of the two will run,ime.

So, to forestall this, go slowly with HOW close you get.
However,if you cannot be real ,make mistakes and say you are sorry, you may as well lose him now cuz it will happen at some point ,anyway lol
This is just my Chiron experience,too

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