posted July 13, 2011 03:22 PM            

I was hoping somebody could give me a composite and synastry reading for my boyfriend and I.

A little background... we are both still quite young. I am turning 20 in a couple months and shortly after that he will be 22. We have been together for 3 years now. We are currently living with his elderly grandparents and taking care of them. We pay rent and help pay for groceries and we do all the cooking, cleaning, and yard work. I have a strong bond with his grandmother, sister, and mother.
So here is our composites with transits (if it helps)

And here is our synastry chart

posted July 13, 2011 06:02 PM            

HOUSE OVERLAYS;
His Juno, Valentine, and Nessus all in my 2nd house.
His Cupido and Sappho in my 3rd house.
His Eros in my 4th house.
His Vesta and Psyche in my 5th house.
His Pallas and Eris in my 8th house.
His Ceres and Pholus in my 10th house

My Pallas in his 1st house.
My Ceres in his 2nd house.
My Juno and Eros in his 3rd house.
My Valentine in his 4th house.
My Eris in his 7th house.
My Vesta, Pholus, Psyche, and Cupido in his 10th house.
My Sappho in his 11th house.
My Nessus in his 12th house.

ASPECTS (that I find the most intriguing);
His Valentine trines my Ascendant.
His Eros, and Venus, both conjunct my IC.
His Sappho sextiles my Sun.
His Nessus conjuncts my Sun.
His Ceres and Pholus both trine my Moon.
His Cupido sextiles my Mercury
His Juno and Valentine both conjunct my Mars.
His Valentine conjuncts my North Node.

My Nessus conjunct his ASC
My Eros, Cupido, and Valentine sextile his ASC.
My Eris conjunct his DC.
My Juno conjunct his IC.
My Pallas conjunct his Sun.
My Valentine sextile his Sun.
My Ceres trine his Moon.
My Juno sextile his Moon.

Asteroids aside, I am also liking his Moon not only in my 7th house but also conjunct my DC. We have a very strong emotional bond, we've had many spiritual experiences together. The sign involved is Pisces, and our loving moments together are magical. Our best moments are when we are outside stargazing together. Absolutely breath taking, like it's just me, him, and the universe.
Are there any other aspects in our synastry that could indicate these feelings?

posted July 14, 2011 08:12 PM            

I am looking at your synastry... I am new at this though, and I am having trouble making a beginning with your chart. I tend to generally notice the issues first when I look at a synastry chart, as I am geared I think, to solving problems. I would like to change this somehow, as I don't want to begin with negatives all the time..

having said that, one cannot help but notice the huge t-square in your synastry. Involving you conjunct marses and outer planets at that!

Do you guys fight?

I see that he, with a mars conjunct his sun, must be a pretty assertive type, and I was wondering if he overpowers, or dominates you a bit, but then I see, I think you can hold your own too.

Is this correct?

Your venuses are squared, additionally, his venus squares your moon. This can mean hurt feelings from venus(him). Venus in this regard can be perceived by the moon as too into themselves, and not considerate enough to the moon, the moon can seem oversensitive to venus.

Is this the case? Do you find him a bit into himself and not taking regard for your feelings, or the intimacy you may like have in the relationship?

But then, your mercury is opposite his moon, so perhaps you give him "words" back, if he has hurt your feelings?

I get the impression of a bit of back and forward arguments and struggle with this synastry..

posted July 15, 2011 01:25 AM            

Yes he is a very assertive person (as long as he is without failure. The moment he makes a mistake his Pisces Moon tends to take over and he becomes self-undoing and depressed) but his Sun, Mars, and ASC are all in peaceable Libra so his assertion comes across as very charming and diplomatic. His Mars is also in the 12th house, causing him to repress his rage. Having this in the mix with the Libran tendency to avoid conflict can be a huge issue for him but I am doing my best to help him find the right balance. To answer your question, he's never really tried to dominate me. There's been times when he's become quite angry with me because I tried getting him.to open up. All that, as I had said, repressed anger made him uncomfortable thus made him feeling defensive. But you are right I can hold my own lol.

When we first started dating I felt he didn't pay enough attention to me ,which he didn't but I think at forst the idea of commitment freaked him out a bit.

Yes you are correct, there are many arguments and heated discussions. Lots of "going back and forth" as you said. We are currently trying to stabalize our relationship but with all the heavy demands it can be exausting at times.

posted July 15, 2011 01:39 AM            

Yes he is a very assertive person (as long as he is without failure. The moment he makes a mistake his Pisces Moon tends to take over and he becomes self-undoing and depressed) but his Sun, Mars, and ASC are all in peaceable Libra so his assertion comes across as very charming and diplomatic. His Mars is also in the 12th house, causing him to repress his rage. Having this in the mix with the Libran tendency to avoid conflict can be a huge issue for him but I am doing my best to help him find the right balance. To answer your question, he's never really tried to dominate me. There's been times when he's become quite angry with me because I tried getting him.to open up. All that, as I had said, repressed anger made him uncomfortable thus made him feeling defensive. But you are right I can hold my own lol.

When we first started dating I felt he didn't pay enough attention to me ,which he didn't but I think at forst the idea of commitment freaked him out a bit.

Yes you are correct, there are many arguments and heated discussions. Lots of "going back and forth" as you said. We are currently trying to stabalize our relationship but with all the heavy demands it can be exausting at times.

posted July 15, 2011 02:49 AM            

What you say there sounds to me like your saturn trine his mercury

it is the only aspect your saturn makes; it is supporting his communication efforts - make sense? Is he supportive of you in return I wonder?

posted July 16, 2011 12:36 AM            

Yes we are both very supportive of eachother. And I agree that we will grow a lot from eachother as we've been together only 3 years and have already grown quite a bit, due to many struggles, but we're making it work.