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feitlebaum
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posted July 22, 2011 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for feitlebaum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is my boyfriend and I. We haven't been together long... it's been 6 months and he fantasizes about marriage. I have been telling myself, before I met him, I want to avoid marriage.

I don't want to disappoint him, because I am in love him, but it feels like a rush. What will happen after the feeling of "in love" goes away? Like I said, I don't want to disappoint him because I can see myself with him long-term, and he is too interesting of a guy to just let go.

Based on Synastry, what would happen without the rose-colored glasses? I really want this to work out.

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Ami Anne
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posted July 22, 2011 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will look later.Keep bumping it Darling so I make sure to see !

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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feitlebaum
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posted July 22, 2011 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for feitlebaum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Will do, thanks Ami.

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feitlebaum
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posted July 23, 2011 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for feitlebaum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump with composite.

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You got some cool stuff on the synastry

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It doesn't happen all at once.You become.It takes a long time.That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,or have sharp edges,or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally,by the time you are Real most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,because once you are Real you can't be ugly ,except to people who don't understand.
The Velveteen Rabbit

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your Eros conj his NN

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let me ask you this
Does he bring friendship.You bring spirituality.
He brings deep soul.You bring the ability to relate to the outside world

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It doesn't happen all at once.You become.It takes a long time.That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,or have sharp edges,or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally,by the time you are Real most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,because once you are Real you can't be ugly ,except to people who don't understand.
The Velveteen Rabbit

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You bring Sat and Nep to his DSC. This may be a downer relationship and hard to figure out ,too
Does that fit?

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It doesn't happen all at once.You become.It takes a long time.That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,or have sharp edges,or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally,by the time you are Real most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,because once you are Real you can't be ugly ,except to people who don't understand.
The Velveteen Rabbit

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your planets in the 5th quincunx his in the 12th.
This relationship will take a LOT of work.
Does that fit?

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It doesn't happen all at once.You become.It takes a long time.That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,or have sharp edges,or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally,by the time you are Real most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,because once you are Real you can't be ugly ,except to people who don't understand.
The Velveteen Rabbit

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn sq Saturn--does not seem good--seems painful-very!

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It doesn't happen all at once.You become.It takes a long time.That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,or have sharp edges,or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally,by the time you are Real most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,because once you are Real you can't be ugly ,except to people who don't understand.
The Velveteen Rabbit

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His Pluto oppose your Mars--sexy vibes but power struggles.
Does that fit?

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It doesn't happen all at once.You become.It takes a long time.That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,or have sharp edges,or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally,by the time you are Real most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,because once you are Real you can't be ugly ,except to people who don't understand.
The Velveteen Rabbit

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your moon opposes his Venus,Mars and Chiron in Taurus.
This points to lack of understanding. Does that fit?

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It doesn't happen all at once.You become.It takes a long time.That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,or have sharp edges,or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally,by the time you are Real most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,because once you are Real you can't be ugly ,except to people who don't understand.
The Velveteen Rabbit

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does not look like you guys have a lot of closeness from the Comp.

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It doesn't happen all at once.You become.It takes a long time.That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,or have sharp edges,or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally,by the time you are Real most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,because once you are Real you can't be ugly ,except to people who don't understand.
The Velveteen Rabbit

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feitlebaum
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posted July 23, 2011 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for feitlebaum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So far, the only power struggles that happen is when he gets jealous and he tries to 1-up me somehow to make me jealous. He seems to take things out of proportion when he gets mad, which I do not understand, and frankly makes me angry. I don't try to continue the fight, though.

The relationship is far from painful, it's pretty nice. Saturn-op-Saturn is more of a generational thing, I understand. His idea of this relationship seems more traditional than I do. He's a chivalrous guy and I strive for total equality. I think it will take a lot of work because we are so far apart in age.

He brings friendship, which I try to maintain. To me, he is my friend, my lover, and even my mentor (he has a lot of experience in hiking, I am trying to learn from him). He doesn't seem too downed by me -- he finds me perfect, except for the fact that I am kind of flirty. Part of me feels blocked from being emotionally in-tune to him.

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Ami Anne
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posted July 23, 2011 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well the composite comes to play when you more live together in close quarters,I think.
I am not that good either so bump for some other opinions

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It doesn't happen all at once.You become.It takes a long time.That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily,or have sharp edges,or who have to be carefully kept.
Generally,by the time you are Real most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don't matter at all,because once you are Real you can't be ugly ,except to people who don't understand.
The Velveteen Rabbit

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feitlebaum
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posted July 23, 2011 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for feitlebaum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Ami!! You're awesome!!
I thought the Sun trine Moon and Moon trine Merc in the composite would be a nice off-balance to the lack of good aspects between the Sun/Moon in the Synastry.

Bump.

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feitlebaum
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posted July 24, 2011 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for feitlebaum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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