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Topic: Composite synastry for Ami Anne or anyone who would like to read
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starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 07:05 PM
Here is my composite synastry with my ex. Would like a reading (AMi Anne-I can't remember if I was supposed to add asteroids to the composite?)
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 07:11 PM
This is good for a start Sweetie.We can go from there!IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 30, 2011 02:39 PM
Jup conj Chiron in the 12th house-deep ,deep pain IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 30, 2011 04:28 PM
That is an understatement-I feel pain when I'm in the relationship and when I'm not...IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2011 08:39 AM
Lots of 6th house.That is not good.It can feel like a chore ,a stay together for the kids kind of thing.Does it?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2011 08:42 AM
Ok a few questions No fire--does the relationship seem like it has no drive,no gas in the car?Chiron in the 12th oppose Uranus in the 5th? Does it seem like it has huge ups and downs with romance ,sex and fun? Then huge pain that seems unfathomable with Chiron in 12th? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2011 08:45 AM
Chiron in 12th oppose Pluto in 6th. Your relationship needs to be of Service, to be something beyond "selfish" "self absorbed" You will have lots of ups and downs cuz the relationship it too self absorbed. Does that fit? Chiron's pain and trying to serve one another--are in opposition. Let me ask simply---Does the relationship feel super inward like you gaze at the naval too much and this hurts. Then,do you jump to trying to be giving and selfless.Then,do you jump back as a theme of the relationship?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2011 08:47 AM
Moon conj Sun in the 6th.Again, not enough objectivity. Do you feel you guys are too,too close and suffocate each other.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2011 08:51 AM
NN in 5th.You need more funSaturn in the 11th.Do you find it hard to have dreams and goals for the relationship. Again,I think one theme is that the relationship is too dense within itself--too heavy inside itself and not having light and objectivity from the outside. Does that fit? Does it feel like a dense pancake when you have been together too long, like a stifling room with no air where you can't breathe? Am I on/off? IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 31, 2011 09:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Ok a few questions No fire--does the relationship seem like it has no drive,no gas in the car?Chiron in the 12th oppose Uranus in the 5th? Does it seem like it has huge ups and downs with romance ,sex and fun? Then huge pain that seems unfathomable with Chiron in 12th?
As far as the fire void, He is a total fire void where I have a ton of fire and almost no water. HE has tons of water. It's like his water drenched my fire and therefore the r/s has no fire.
To answer your question, yes. I do not fel my usual drive when I am in it. He just has no drive what so ever because he has no confidence. When the r/s is good we have lots of fun but when he decides it will be "bad" then it is just awful=but it is awlways his decison not mine and it is always his decision to be in or out of the r/s. I'm always there ready like the proverbial doormat. This is so good Ami Anne because you are helping me confront the sad truths of it all. IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 31, 2011 09:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Moon conj Sun in the 6th.Again, not enough objectivity. Do you feel you guys are too,too close and suffocate each other.
Yes to explain suffocation, I feel like we control each others well being-like when the r/s is bad both our well-beings suffer immensely. He once told me that I totally controlled him-I think it was true at one time but it wasn't a conscious control-maybe a control from a previous life-like a controlled him or subjagated him (Capricorn SN stuff) IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 31, 2011 09:50 AM
I will come back to this thread later tonight Ami Anne. I'm off to the beach-5th house stuff and getting some water for my water void!Thanks you so much Ami Anne! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2011 09:56 AM
Star Could I ask you a favor.Could you write a one or two paragraph testimonial for my psychic website.Say how/if I helped you and with specifics.I would be so appreciative.If you can e mail it to me. Thank youIP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 31, 2011 08:40 PM
I would be more than happy to ami Anne give me a day or two because I really want to express how you have helped me gain insight on myself and my relationshipsIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2011 09:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by starcrossedleo: I would be more than happy to ami Anne give me a day or two because I really want to express how you have helped me gain insight on myself and my relationships
Thank you .Take your time --a week was what I was thinking IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2011 09:09 PM
We can get back in our groove tomorrow!IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2011 09:19 PM
Did I ask you to get nessus,dejanaria,Child,Eros, Narcissus ,Child and Actor ,Ceres and Lucifer. I think these asteroids may fit IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted August 01, 2011 01:31 PM
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starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted August 01, 2011 01:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: NN in 5th.You need more funSaturn in the 11th.Do you find it hard to have dreams and goals for the relationship. Again,I think one theme is that the relationship is too dense within itself--too heavy inside itself and not having light and objectivity from the outside. Does that fit? Does it feel like a dense pancake when you have been together too long, like a stifling room with no air where you can't breathe? Am I on/off?
He is kind of a wet blanket when it comes to fun-I have a lot of 5th house planets-I like to play and create-I love romance-he is a pessimist. I am aan optimist though I do tire of hoping.... Our ideas of fun differ greatly-my idea of fun is trying new things-his is doing the same thing year after year IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted August 01, 2011 01:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Chiron in 12th oppose Pluto in 6th. Your relationship needs to be of Service, to be something beyond "selfish" "self absorbed" You will have lots of ups and downs cuz the relationship it too self absorbed. Does that fit? Chiron's pain and trying to serve one another--are in opposition. Let me ask simply---Does the relationship feel super inward like you gaze at the naval too much and this hurts. Then,do you jump to trying to be giving and selfless.Then,do you jump back as a theme of the relationship?
It is funny that you mention that our r/s needs to be one of service- I often though we would have a better r/s if we volunteered together or did something to help others IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted August 01, 2011 01:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Lots of 6th house.That is not good.It can feel like a chore ,a stay together for the kids kind of thing.Does it?
We have no kids together but the stay together part is very 6th house-it is almost like we come together because one or the other's well-being has suffered. When things are bad for him, he always returns for confort-to strengthen his well-being again IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 02, 2011 02:21 AM
Your drive as a couple, your purpose is fogged,unclear.It can seem very distorted such that you don't even know why you are together.IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted August 02, 2011 07:42 AM
I can't explAin the draw. We conduct our lives so differently. Our paths would not normally cross. It is fate karma or some other reason. I feel that I have learned important lessons like confronting my mars moon conjunction which makes me childishly aggressive. He has learned to follow his Leo north node and I am proud of him for that. More laterIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 02, 2011 09:14 AM
Ok Darling I will study it Do you have someKey asteroids on here--nessus,dejaneria,child actor narcissus,pholus chaos echo and eros I am most interested in nessus,deja,pholus and erosIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 16683 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 02, 2011 09:17 AM
NN in Leo in 5th You guys need creativity, romance and fun.Leo AND the 5th makes it even more so. That would be the way to make this relationship healthy.That would be the route--the NN IP: Logged |