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Topic: Male opinions needed (yes randall, i stole your title XD )
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 25, 2011 10:11 PM
i'm still in love with my ex...i'v stopped crying about the past and am looking toward the future, and i'm hoping to one day get back together with him....the thing is, we are both working a lot, and the reason he had broken up with me was because he had said he felt he wasnt ready for a relationship at the time (of course, at this time he was taking classes so he can get a better job....he also thought we were going "too fast" even though he said "i love you" first)...now its summer, and class is in "recess"any advice on how i can get him back if you want to know, hes a taurus sun, leo moon, scorpio asc ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17180 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 25, 2011 10:23 PM
What I think of in these situations is if it is meant to be God will MAKE a way. I know that is uber trite but it is the only thing that helps me go on. Love you Nicki so very much!
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 25, 2011 10:25 PM
yes ami, and i agree, but i refuse to allow every relationship i'v ever had be only 2-3 month flingsbesides, you know how much i love him love you too ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Moderator Posts: 5429 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted July 26, 2011 02:48 AM
Well have you tried getting in touch since class is in recess?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17180 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 26, 2011 07:33 AM
Nicki I know how much you love him and how your moons are conjunct. How rare is that? You have a wonderful synastry. You know what? Why don't you put the composite in PR. I am not that good with them but maybe we could get some clues. Your synastry was outstanding! The composite will show you about the workings of the relationship. That will be a great start to getting him back IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 26, 2011 09:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by GypseeWind: Well have you tried getting in touch since class is in recess?
well, we have seen each other since then...while he was at work and i had just gotten off of work...and we had talked briefly but the thing is, i'm extremely timid (i know, strange considering my placements of scorpio sun, leo moon...on second thought, maybe its my cap venus that makes me timid) when it comes to "first contact" and i dont know a guys point of view about that, which is why i'v made this thread ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic Moderator Posts: 616 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 26, 2011 10:10 AM
Um, I'd say with that combo he's unlikley to be easy to move. You need to look at mercury (how easy is it for him to change his mind) and his ven/mars for relating. <<<scorp asc, leo sun, mars in taurus IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 26, 2011 11:01 AM
his mars is in gemini, aries venus, and his mercury conjuncts his sun in taurushis mars conjuncts my ascendant, moon conjunct moon, and his pluto conjuncts my mars...our suns do not oppose ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
abcd efg Knowflake Posts: 804 From: India Registered: Mar 2011
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posted July 26, 2011 12:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: i'm still in love with my ex...i'v stopped crying about the past and am looking toward the future, and i'm hoping to one day get back together with him....the thing is, we are both working a lot, and the reason he had broken up with me was because he had said he felt he wasnt ready for a relationship at the time (of course, at this time he was taking classes so he can get a better job....he also thought we were going "too fast" even though he said "i love you" first)...now its summer, and class is in "recess"any advice on how i can get him back if you want to know, hes a taurus sun, leo moon, scorpio asc
He is tripple fixed. Oh Boy! But so are you i mean atleast twice. What's your asc? Never mind with your Capi Venus you can build on a love relationship superbly. I hope it works out well. All the best! IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 831 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 26, 2011 01:56 PM
whoa those are my placements! taurus sun, leo moon, scorpio rising.. my feelings are just as stubborn as i am so.. if i did have feelings for you it's hard to change that. it also takes me a long-ish time to get over someone. like if i see an ex with another guy iz excruciating but of course i'd never show it. anyways i think talking to me works but not immediately of course. there's not much wooing needed for a taurus-scorpio. if we like you we, like you. ryt? food/ other taurean stuff nah not really. wouldn't change a thing coz we can get those on our own and probably enjoy the solitude anyway. being chill i think iz a big big plus but yeah fudge i'm hella slow and i can see why it would be frustrating. i think you can be chill for a few months while making constant effort to spend time/ give affection (leo moon) and then corner him into that "where are we?" conversation i always seem to have with everyone i date sometime down the line. bad idea? fudge i'm starting to see why i'm a lot of work LOL! i can't speak for the other placements though so i may be way off but that's mostly how i get into relationships. i think we're very ambiguous and like to leave a lot of things open ended, no labels, undefined. then we disappear doing who knows what and expect you to always be there.. ugh hehe! i have venus in taurus, mars, in scorpio, merc in aries for the other personal planets. IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 26, 2011 10:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by abcd efg: He is tripple fixed. Oh Boy! But so are you i mean atleast twice. What's your asc? Never mind with your Capi Venus you can build on a love relationship superbly. I hope it works out well. All the best!
gemini ascendant...i'v also got aqua NN and MC, opposite our moons ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 26, 2011 10:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: whoa those are my placements! taurus sun, leo moon, scorpio rising.. my feelings are just as stubborn as i am so.. if i did have feelings for you it's hard to change that. it also takes me a long-ish time to get over someone. like if i see an ex with another guy iz excruciating but of course i'd never show it. anyways i think talking to me works but not immediately of course. there's not much wooing needed for a taurus-scorpio. if we like you we, like you. ryt? food/ other taurean stuff nah not really. wouldn't change a thing coz we can get those on our own and probably enjoy the solitude anyway. being chill i think iz a big big plus but yeah fudge i'm hella slow and i can see why it would be frustrating. i think you can be chill for a few months while making constant effort to spend time/ give affection (leo moon) and then corner him into that "where are we?" conversation i always seem to have with everyone i date sometime down the line. bad idea? fudge i'm starting to see why i'm a lot of work LOL! i can't speak for the other placements though so i may be way off but that's mostly how i get into relationships. i think we're very ambiguous and like to leave a lot of things open ended, no labels, undefined. then we disappear doing who knows what and expect you to always be there.. ugh hehe! i have venus in taurus, mars, in scorpio, merc in aries for the other personal planets.
this is very helpful, thank you sand he told me when we last talked on the phone that he still loved me and hopes to be friends in the future...i had asked him if friends was all we could be and all he said was "i dont know"....he actually said i dont know a LOT, LOL ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 27, 2011 11:27 PM
ok, now that all of this is established, how about some guys give me advice on how i should approach him in order to get him back!!!!!! please ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 28, 2011 12:05 PM
:bump:------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17180 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 28, 2011 12:17 PM
Awww I hope some guys answer
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sand Knowflake Posts: 831 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 28, 2011 01:19 PM
what do you mean by timid anyway?winning back iz different from how to get a taurus man no? IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 28, 2011 02:32 PM
by timid i mean i'm hesitant to send the first email or to call when were broken up...and besides, the way we got together was because of my sister....he and her work together------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 28, 2011 03:29 PM
i guess what i really want to know is if i should make first contact and how i should do it..what should i say, and such...i want a guys point of view with this because, really, only guys know what guys want------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
lanuit Newflake Posts: 6 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 28, 2011 03:48 PM
Hi If you post your composite chart,I'll give a try..
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 28, 2011 03:52 PM
sure no problem
------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 28, 2011 04:06 PM
it looks like some of my stuff has actually been progressed by about one minute...i dont know why it did that...my moon is supposed to be at 24 leo, and my sun is supposed to be at 27 scorpio------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 12:02 PM
:bump:------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 831 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 06:27 PM
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 3998 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 11:22 PM
thanks for your input sand....sadly enough, the only "regular" place i know of that he goes to regularly is work------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17180 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 30, 2011 11:11 AM
Hi Lanuit Nicki I will look Baby I did not know it was here.I will get on it.I may need it bigger but for now will see if this suffices
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