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Topic: New Relationship
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Jounia
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posted August 03, 2011 05:56 PM
  
Hello, this is a new relationship between me and Mr Pisces... I'd love it if someone could tell me what it is that attracts us to each other, and what kind of relationship it is likey to be?
Or just anything about it really!
Thanks so much 
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Ami Anne
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posted August 03, 2011 06:06 PM
Is that a Composite?IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted August 03, 2011 06:14 PM
yes. Is that ok? I haven't got a clue really!IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 03, 2011 07:32 PM
If you could give me a bigger one it would be easierIP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 04, 2011 09:05 AM
Low air
Low waterDo you mainly feel passion and being grounded in the practical world like your feet on the ground together? is it hard to share deep feelings?
Is it hard to share intellectual ideas? IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted August 04, 2011 04:01 PM
Hi Ami, thanks for looking at this - I've no idea how to get a bigger one - sorry!Yes, we mainly feel passion. It feels like we have to be very grounded and practical, although I feel that neither of us want to have to be....... We don't share deep feelings, but I think that's just lack of uncertainty as to how the other person will react. I think there are deep feelings though.
I'm not really sure about the intellectual ideas part, could you give an an example of what you mean please? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 04, 2011 04:02 PM
Could you leave the link.I can make it bigger when I goIP: Logged |
Jounia
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Registered: May 2011
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posted August 04, 2011 04:18 PM
http://www.fotosik.pl/pokaz_obrazek/5ade185af4bb6771.html Click on the link, then click on the chart and it should increase in size. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2011 10:13 AM
Ok I will tryIP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2011 10:16 AM
Ok
Can see well now!
Does this fit
Hard to communicate
Hard to understand each other's emotions
Lots of passion
Could live together and do practical things like make dinner, shop and clean house etc
is that how it feels?IP: Logged |
Jounia
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Registered: May 2011
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posted August 05, 2011 04:07 PM
Ok, I see it like this.There is loads of passion. We're very sexual together - it's hard for us to resist each other for like 5 mins even! We can't look each other in the eyes for too long before we end up kissing. He in general is a very practical person. He loves DIY and is always doing something around his home. Me being Cancer, loves cooking, cleaning, generally making my home nice. So yes, If we lived together I could see us being very practical. Communication is very difficult. Firstly, our native languages are different. I do speak his language and he speaks mine but the difficulty comes when he doesn't anwser my questions, when he's done with a subject he blaitently tries to change the subject and he knows I'm not done with it! And I feel like he's holding back his feelings a lot - like he wants to tell me how he feels but he can't. I feel that he doesn't understand my emotions, but then when I explain how I feel to him face to face, he seems to get it completely. But then later on, it seems like he's completely forgotten what I told him earlier! Ami, I feel like we could be very very close, but that something is in the way. Maybe it's communication? Maybe it's the fact that I feel neither of us is brave enough to say how we feel about each other?
I feel like we could be soul mates and that we could and should be reading each other's minds? Does that make sense?
I also feel that we could have a lot of fun together, that we can both be silly and childish in each other's company and feel very comfortable with that. What does he see in me?  Wow - I say 'I feel that' a lot! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2011 05:00 PM
OK
I need the synastry for what he sees in you.
Make another thread for the synastry addressed to me
I just started on this so will look more for you. The low air is why it is hard to communicate.
I will be back!IP: Logged |
Jounia
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Registered: May 2011
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posted August 05, 2011 05:21 PM
Done. Thanks so much! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2011 06:57 PM
Ok synastry is GREAT!
All around it is good.
So,I am back to the Comp which does not look that good?
How much do you like this guy?How invested are you? I will study the Comp and write to you.You tell me what you think.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2011 07:00 PM
OK
Some honest questions
Do you both want to be "seen" with the other as someone who looks good on your arm?
Do you like to be seen as successful and that is part of why you are together i.e the appearances of you two together?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2011 07:02 PM
Do you feel there is tremendous pain at the core of this relationship ?
Do you feel that?
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Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2011 07:03 PM
Do you look as if you are a couple who does a lot for others even though you may not be?I guess what I am saying is do you have a big "image" as a couple and this image is a super big thing in the relationship? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2011 07:05 PM
Do you fight alot but it is kind of playful fighting to some extent.However, if you take out the playful part there is REAL competition and anger there.
Do you have fun but also have times when there is no fun at all and it is cold.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2011 07:08 PM
Ok Answer this and I will try to put it all together
Does it seem there are huge obstacles to ever being truly committed?
Do you share deep things but then disconnect as abruptly only to do it all over again?
Is your idea of why you are together hard to grasp like "Why are we doing this?"
You will have luck in career as a couple and will be accepted by society.
What do you think so far?IP: Logged |
Jounia
Knowflake Posts: 263
From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 06, 2011 05:17 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ok synastry is GREAT!
All around it is good.
So,I am back to the Comp which does not look that good?
How much do you like this guy?How invested are you? I will study the Comp and write to you.You tell me what you think.
I really like him. I'm not sure how invested I am yet. That depends on what I feel from him. I'm very cautious and am taking the lead from him, although I do initiate a lot of our meetings. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 06, 2011 05:20 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
OK
Some honest questions
Do you both want to be "seen" with the other as someone who looks good on your arm?
Do you like to be seen as successful and that is part of why you are together i.e the appearances of you two together?
I do feel a little bit like I want to be seen with this good looking guy and for people to look at us and say what a nice looking couple - they look good together!
I don't think this is why we are together though - it happended very suddenly. Although it was more based on physical attraction rather than personality because we didn't know each other - we wern't 'friends' before.IP: Logged |
Jounia
Knowflake Posts: 263
From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 06, 2011 05:20 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Do you feel there is tremendous pain at the core of this relationship ?
Do you feel that?
No. Why? is there??  IP: Logged |
Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 06, 2011 05:22 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Do you look as if you are a couple who does a lot for others even though you may not be?I guess what I am saying is do you have a big "image" as a couple and this image is a super big thing in the relationship?
I think it;s too early to tell, but although image is important to me and he's quite vain so I'm guessing it is important for him too, it's not the reason we're together or the be all and end all. IP: Logged |
Jounia
Knowflake Posts: 263
From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 06, 2011 05:25 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Do you fight alot but it is kind of playful fighting to some extent.However, if you take out the playful part there is REAL competition and anger there.
Do you have fun but also have times when there is no fun at all and it is cold.
We 'fight' through our emails, not really when we are together. But it's kind of more like we are annoying each other - no real anger there at all. I don't feel any real anger or competition.
I do feel like there are times when it's cold and there is no fun, but I think just I feel that way? IP: Logged |
Jounia
Knowflake Posts: 263
From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 06, 2011 05:29 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ok Answer this and I will try to put it all together
Does it seem there are huge obstacles to ever being truly committed?
Do you share deep things but then disconnect as abruptly only to do it all over again?
Is your idea of why you are together hard to grasp like "Why are we doing this?"
You will have luck in career as a couple and will be accepted by society.
What do you think so far?
YES it seems like there are HUGE obstacles in the way of us ever becoming truly commited - ok, if I'm honest then we KNOW there are huge obstacles and we know what they are.... We do seem do be quite close and share feelings and then disconnect abruptly and then start all over again..... why is that? I do often wonder what brought us together so out of the blue?? Why has this happened? Where will it end/where is it going..... I find it hard to believe we will be accepted by society..... IP: Logged |
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