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posted August 07, 2011 04:32 PM            

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Hey all!
I am seeking a reading. I've got some really big questions and a lot of confusion in my life right now, and I'm hoping a reading can give me some insight (what can I say, I'm a pisces with a gemini moon, I'm all over the place!!!). I am in what I keep referring to as a transitional phase, so any information is hugely helpful, particularly with regard to my love life and money (isn't it always about that, lol). Thanks very much in advance!
-Bday: 3/09/84 in Hinsdale, IL, don't know time of birth.

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posted August 07, 2011 04:34 PM            

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Hi
Post your chart Sweetie

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posted August 15, 2011 04:49 PM            

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Ok, so it took me a bit of time to get my chart posted, but the good news is that I finally found out my birth time! I never knew it until I finally found my birth certificate (I'm adopted). So any insight I can gain from this would wholly appreciated!! Thanks much :-)

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posted August 15, 2011 04:51 PM            

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The link does not work
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posted August 15, 2011 10:55 PM            

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posted August 16, 2011 01:38 PM            

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Seems like an awfully one-sided chart, no??

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posted August 16, 2011 02:30 PM            

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Do you want to dialogue in an honest way and see if we can come to some conclusions?
If so I will write some posts .Please answer with detail if you could so I could learn and also get a feel for you.
This will be a process over time cuz I am doing several charts.
Also, I am really honest and things come to light which can be hard to look at. With all that said if you want to go forward let me know

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posted August 16, 2011 04:11 PM            

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Yes, that sounds fantastic, actually. I am always interested in the process of learning more about myself, and even though the truth can hurt sometimes I feel that it's important. Lay it on me, honey!

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posted August 16, 2011 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by swtbttrfly23:
Yes, that sounds fantastic, actually. I am always interested in the process of learning more about myself, and even though the truth can hurt sometimes I feel that it's important. Lay it on me, honey!

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Ok I am in my element 8th house

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posted August 16, 2011 05:42 PM            

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You are a super 8th house person. You can be way too sensitive to slights and hurts though ,not being able to pull back and assess the situation very easily.
Is this true?

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posted August 16, 2011 05:43 PM            

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Your mind and identity wants to explore the deep regions of the mind and body.Do you work in some field which does this?
You are a natural for it?

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posted August 16, 2011 05:44 PM            

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Do you have big ups and downs in romance.Do they start with a bang and end suddenly and you can't figure out what happened

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posted August 16, 2011 05:45 PM            

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You communicate in a powerful way.Please explain

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posted August 16, 2011 05:46 PM            

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You are a girl made for marriage.You are attracted to am intellectual guy who wants to commit as you do.
You like a man who thinks beyond his own navel and is interested in the world. You want a man who is a citizen of the world.
Does that fit?

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posted August 16, 2011 05:48 PM            

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Your home had a feeling of coldness.You have a passion for it somehow.Your deepest drives involve your early home I think.
How?
Was your mother cold?

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posted August 16, 2011 05:49 PM            

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It is not that one sided .It is rather spread out lol

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posted August 16, 2011 05:50 PM            

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How do you feel hurt by society ? How do you feel that you don't fit in

Career is important to you.Your heart is there.
Your goals involve a career that combines your heart with communication ?
Please explain.

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posted August 16, 2011 05:51 PM            

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After you answer these questions please bump up your thread and I will go on.

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posted August 17, 2011 03:58 AM            

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Ok, here goes! I apologize in advance because some of my responses may be quite long-winded
"You are a super 8th house person. You can be way too sensitive to slights and hurts though ,not being able to pull back and assess the situation very easily. Is this true?"
--Yep, definitely true. I am far too sensitive, especially with regard to certain things (love in particular). Something my father always stressed to me when growing up was the importance of being objective about everything, so I think I'm better at being able to ***** a situation from many angles, but when it comes to emotion I am extremely sensitive like this. Even when my logical self will dissect a situation, my emotion is usually off running in a different direction, a sad, hurt direction, often.

"Your mind and identity wants to explore the deep regions of the mind and body. Do you work in some field which does this? You are a natural for it?"
At the moment, I am very much thinking of a career change, actually. I currently work as a costume designer in the film industry. I am particularly good at picking a script apart and getting extremely in depth with the minds of the characters in the script, in order for me to understand the choices that the characters would make. I am somewhat fascinated by people's psychology, and even in my personal life I often try to figure out people a deeply as I can; I like getting into someone's head and understanding them. In some ways I am also a bit scared of the mind and of what ill it is capable of. I suppose I am also fascinated by the body as well, and the depths that the body can achieve and endure. I am extremely in-tune with my own body, but in some ways I've been scared of my body-I've been somewhat overweight my whole life, and while I believe that it hasn't held me back too too much, I know it has somewhat. I have spent a lot of time hiding in my own body.
"Do you have big ups and downs in romance. Do they start with a bang and end suddenly and you can't figure out what happened"
-Yep!! That sounds pretty spot on. And then oftentimes I find myself trying to regain the ups when I should more likely move on. Romance and love has always been extremely elusive, yet highly sought. I've never ever been one to settle just to be with someone, but I also feel that I've had many great guys and opportunities pass me by because I tend to keep people at a distance from myself. It's not easy to get close to me; it scares me, less than it used to, but it still does. In fact, I'm currently in a spot where I am mentally stuck on someone that I knew 3 years ago. He changed his life massively in the last few years, and I find him more attractive than ever now, but he's moved on. Sometimes I feel like a great opportunity will come along and before I even know what's happened I've missed it or blown it. That's how I feel with this current guy that I can't let go of, and I've never kicked myself so hard for missing this one.

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posted August 17, 2011 03:58 AM            

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“You communicate in a powerful way. Please explain”
-I don’t tend to communicate subtly, I suppose I just prefer to be honest and direct because it’s the quickest route to an answer. I think I am also very good at knowing not just what to say, but how to say it. I know how to use the inflection in my voice and the depth in my eyes to sway people. I used to joke that I can essentially talk my way into or out of anything, and I do think this is true for the most part. I’ve gotten really good at reading people and communicating in a way that they want to be communicated with. I can say all the right things to make someone feel pretty much whatever way I wish. When I speak with passion, it’s impossible not to be affected because my eyes almost blaze with fire. I am extremely expressive in tone of voice and inflections and in my facial expressions. I guess I just know how to speak to almost anyone to turn them the way I want. I know I hold a lot of power in my communication. At the same time, if I am at all uncomfortable (which happens on occasion), it’s like I just clam up.
"You are a girl made for marriage.You are attracted to am intellectual guy who wants to commit as you do. You like a man who thinks beyond his own navel and is interested in the world. You want a man who is a citizen of the world. Does that fit?”
-Yes, also very very true! I don’t much care for the crazy world of dating though, which makes it more difficult for me. I very much want to find someone who brings out the best in me and to be with them for a long, long time. Have you heard that saying that behind every successful man is a good woman? I want to be that good woman. I want to be the amazing mom that teaches her children remarkable things about the world, the wife that stands proudly by her husband as he does great things.
Also true about the type of man I am attracted to. I am by no means a simple person and I consider myself quite worldly-I’ve been tons of places- and I want a man that is the same in that regard. Very much attracted to intellectualism first, and then looks second. I want someone who is not flighty, someone who wants to stay with me for a long time. I love strong but sensitive men with open eyes and a realistic view of the world. As you say, a man that can think beyond his own navel. I find men who travel frequently and who have a passion for it very attractive. I want to explore the corners of the earth with a partner such as this.

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posted August 17, 2011 03:59 AM            

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“Your home had a feeling of coldness. You have a passion for it somehow. Your deepest drives involve your early home I think. How? Was your mother cold?”
-I was adopted by my mother and father when I was 3 weeks old, so I suppose there is a degree of strangeness that goes with that, although I don’t consciously feel anything like that. More than anything I have a deep respect for my parents for taking me in as their own. My mom is actually an incredibly warm person, but I have to say that my father tends not to be so warm. We are by no means a touchy-feely family, and affection was never overt. My father is also an extremely critical person and even when I was a child and I knew that he was wrong about something, there was never apologies or admittance on his part. Dad was always right, even when I knew he wasn’t. There was never an air of “good enough” in my family, it was always “good job, now do something even better”.
I love my mom a lot, but I do have some issues with an aspect of how she raised me. I believe that most of my food-related issues stem from her. I’ve struggled with binge-eating disorder and compulsive overeating which I believe stems a lot from the way she dealt with me as a chubby child. I very much recall her openly feeding my skinny siblings whatever it was they wanted, no matter how bad, and I recall she had no qualms about doing it right in front of me, even though I was typically restricted a lot by her. She dragged me to several nutritionists and several doctors who all essentially told her I was a normal healthy kid. I never actually felt like a fat girl until she and my siblings pointed it out. She would feed my brothers junk and then only give me carrot sticks, and I still feel some bitterness about this. It was like a huge feeling of being purposefully excluded, and it very much hurt me (being quite sensitive) so I resorted to things like hiding food and bingeing. I think that in reality I was just a big kid and got bigger faster than most other kids. My mom, not really knowing how to handle this, basically just put me on a huge string of diets from a very early age-I just got really good at lunch-time trades, haha. My father still comments on my weight whenever he sees me. I know that when I have kids I am going to make a huge point of treating them the same in this regard, and that is something I am quite passionate about. I feel that I always knew my parents shortcomings, even when I was little, so they were never quite the totally infallible parents. Even my period of “rebelling” honestly sprung from a place of just wanting to make myself happy and do what I want.

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“How do you feel hurt by society ? How do you feel that you don't fit in.”
-In many ways I feel that my societal rejection has come from my weight, but I also have never totally let that slow me down. I was hugely popular in high school, and people in general like me and find me interesting. I guess now that I live in Hollywood I feel even more acute sense that I don’t fit in. This not the most forgiving industry I work in, where image is so much of an importance. I also hate to be treated as a dumb girl when I know I am smarter than so many men out there. I also don’t feel like I totally fit in with my family. My siblings all tend to be very alike, but I consider my depth of feeling and emotion to be much much deeper than that. I don’t really know if I’ve ever felt like anyone gets me, not really, not down to the deep. And I’ve come to grips with the fact that my family probably never will get me, and that I’ll probably have to find that in friends or in my husband. I feel hurt by society very much when it comes to love and romance and the fact that both are quite absent from my life. I feel as though I am constantly judged as “not good enough” by the men that I know are attracted to me! I feel lied to on many levels with regard to that. I feel that society believes me to be a lesser person because I am not as beautiful and skinny as so many girls out there.
“Career is important to you. Your heart is there. Your goals involve a career that combines your heart with communication? Please explain.”
-Yes, I suppose career is important to me. The problem is that I have many and varied talents and it’s very hard for me to figure out which one to follow at any given time. There is a myriad of things I can see myself doing on my lifetime-opening a restaurant, maybe starting a clothing line, just plain being an artist. It’s hard to know what to go with. And honestly, being a mom would be my most favorite “career move” ever, although I do know that when all of my energy isn’t put to good use I get quite restless. I couldn’t sit still and do nothing with my time, even if it’s not a career per se, I need to be occupied pretty consistently. Not totally sure what it means to combine heart with communication. I am very artistically talented, and I have the urge to use all of those talents, lest they be wasted. I do have the natural instincts to create and achieve.

Ok, so there is at least my basic responses. I hope that gives you an idea, and thanks again for the help and guidance 

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posted August 23, 2011 08:34 PM            

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Just wanted to do a quick bump!!

Feeling very moody lately. Feeling like I've lost my enthusiasm for life altogether. Going through a rough period. This too shall pass, but it feels awful to be here.

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posted October 02, 2011 01:37 PM            

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Hello Ms Ami, wanted to do a quick bump :-) I hope you haven't forgotten about me!

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posted October 02, 2011 01:39 PM            

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I just saw you.I have been busy with my web site,lately, and need to give my eyes a rest.I will try to come back,later, Sweetie

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