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Topic: Synastry w/ Asteroids - for Ami
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MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 03:30 PM
Hi, I'm back and ta dah! I was actually able to do this. Holy accomplishment (for me). Anyway, I couldn't find Child Narcissus, but the rest are all there.Let me know what you see, and think. XXX IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 03:32 PM
Good Job.I can't do it IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 03:33 PM
I knew it .He has Chaos conjunct Mars Am I good IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 03:49 PM
His moon conjuncts YOUR Chaos His Mars conjuncts his own Chaos How amazing is that IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 04:03 PM
That's Fantastic - great job Ami - um, ok, I admit it - what does that mean exactly {{{{embarrassed}}}}IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 06:22 PM
Bumpity bump AmiIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 06:48 PM
It is OK When you told me about all the Chaos he had and you with him I thought of that ASteroid He has Chaos on his drive(Mars) He will attract chaos You have it WITH him lolIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 06:50 PM
MAN He has Lilith conjunct Chiron Is his sexuality ALL caught up in his pain?Please explain cuz it must beIP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 06:53 PM
Ami - Hi!
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 06:54 PM
YOUR Deja conj his NN You wil bring your victim self to him and follow his star with that part of you Does that fit? Please elaborate Are you a victim with him? Is that the core of your relationship IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 06:56 PM
the Sexuality pain questionPossibly - oh he is very loving, and caring - and the physical/emotional connection is incredible and super important. (( I know from after not having that for years now )) IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 06:58 PM
Hm.. Victim.. I absolutely feel safe with him (as he with me) to express deep and inner scary things. IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 07:02 PM
He is/has been the only man ever who I feel protected and safe with - normally I'm the strong one. And perhaps that fits.One thing he did say is that he admires that "I'm comfortable in my own skin", and he implied he felt slightly disorganized - re: his life. And needed to get his "emotional self" squared away. I hope that means he's not rekindling with the neighbor and really closing that chapter IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 11:35 PM
bumpity bump bumpsterIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 09, 2011 09:24 AM
he has Deja conj his Merc.Is he usually abused in relationships?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 09, 2011 09:25 AM
You have wisdom with some of your important planets.Do people tell you you are wise?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 09, 2011 09:26 AM
Wow His Deja conj your Lilith You will have raw sexuality but may abuse him Does this fit at all?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 09, 2011 09:27 AM
You bring Deja to his NN so you may bring the subject of victim hood to this relationship.Does that fit?
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MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 09, 2011 09:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: he has Deja conj his Merc.Is he usually abused in relationships?
Yes, it would seem so with women e.g. his one sister and choices of this most recent woman in his past. (Not me though, at all - which I think gives him inner calm, contentment & strength, but also scares him as it is such unfamiliar territory) IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 09, 2011 09:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: You have wisdom with some of your important planets.Do people tell you you are wise?
I'm prone to being very balanced and level headed. Many say I'm a straight shooter with a good sense both intellectually and street-wise. Affairs of the heart and soul don't always fit these logical groundings Tee hee! Those emotions are such tricksters - adventuresome little cookies IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 09, 2011 10:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Wow His Deja conj your Lilith You will have raw sexuality but may abuse him Does this fit at all?
Ok, we're hitting something here that I'd like to explore. "May abuse him" is what I critically do not want to do. I absolutely don't want that - ever. I perhaps wasn't "free" until now, and yet now I am free and available, no limitations on my end. My personal circs may have caused him pain - he didn't show it. It is/was painful for me too and yet it is/was very temporary on my end. IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 09, 2011 10:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: You bring Deja to his NN so you may bring the subject of victim hood to this relationship.Does that fit?
(repost) Hm.. Victim.. I absolutely feel safe with him (as he with me) to express deep and inner scary things. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 17433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 09, 2011 10:05 AM
Can we talk real? Have you been abused? Have you been with abusive men or been the abuser--in the past?IP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 09, 2011 10:05 AM
Ami Anne - you are narrowing in on some very enlightening areas. Can we go deeper into these aspects, like are these surmountable? Or hardwired for-evah? Hm, what do you seeIP: Logged |
MsVenus Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Boise, ID 83712 Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 09, 2011 10:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Can we talk real? Have you been abused? Have you been with abusive men or been the abuser--in the past?
Yes we can talk real. Please feel free to peel away any layers to the core if you see it or feel it. Abusive men? perhaps in a way. My soon-to-be ex held back affection entirely. A previous strong relationship was with a fairly controlling fellow - that's long over. I figure they'll all be wrong til the right one comes along I do seem to intimidate some men since I've got a fab career, home, material wares, enjoy activities. My heart seeks comfort and safety - and guards itself behind my strong action gal exterior (true self assessment) IP: Logged |