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Topic: What does my natal chart say about my love life??
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sunkissedqt
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From: new york, USA
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 09, 2011 10:52 PM
  
I've certainly had my ups and downs with men but as I am getting older I am starting to realize that I have a difficult time finding men who are willing to wholeheartedly commit to me, does my natal chart manifest this?  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 10, 2011 02:40 AM
Hi Sun
If you want to dialogue with descriptive answers on your part so I can learn we can do your chart step by step  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 10, 2011 02:41 AM
Your life involves fun,romance ,creativity and work as a kind of back and forth deal.Is that true? Explain pleaseIP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted August 10, 2011 03:59 AM
You have this inner need to 'shine' as in make sth of yourself and be recognised.You also are quite unpredictable and have a really out of control temper too? Kinda accident prone too. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted August 10, 2011 04:01 AM
You can be quite insecure and sometimes don't have a definite idea of what it is you want in life? You fantasise alot.
Am I correct?
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mintgirl123
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posted August 10, 2011 04:03 AM
You also seem to crave freedom, and may feel stifled with too much commitment. (moon loosely square uranus and merc, venus and jupiter in gem)Might be a case of projection? You subconsciously don''t really want too much commitment, so you are thus attracted to unreliable guys, who aren't very serious about things. IP: Logged |
sunkissedqt
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: new york, USA
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 10, 2011 08:41 AM
Thank you all for your replies!I easily fall in love but have a difficult time making it last. While I do like my independence I also like having a committed partner I can rely on. I enjoy my independence because it enables me to be creative and fantasize a lot. My artistic ability is truly what I love most.
I do want a monogamous committed relationship but perhaps the way I go about securing it is not the best. I tend to fall head over heals in love with someone and then as the relationship progresses I feel that there is no substance there or that the person I come to see is not the person I hold in such high esteem.
And YES I do have a bad temper! I'm usually the most easygoing person in a group but when I feel someone has betrayed me or is not making an honest woman of me I will give them a piece of my mind!! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 10, 2011 11:03 AM
Do you want to dialogue with me?
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted August 10, 2011 11:09 AM
OK I need to start at the bottom and build a picture.Probably cuz I am not good enough to answer off the bat :joker;Ok
Fire void
Is drive and boldness ,optimism and forward movement hard for you? You have a few things that show your problem maybe
You value career a lot.Am I right? You NEED material security a lot.
You may be too "strong" in how you come across communication wise. In romance ,do you have lots of hot ups and dropping to the ground lows  Can you not SEE what happened after you "drop"
Maybe that is your question
Is it? Your 11th house is interesting cuz you crave groups but groups bring lots of sorrow.Is that true? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 10, 2011 11:12 AM
You have LOTS of quincunx.These are opportunites for transformation
They are huge blessings .We will get to these.IP: Logged |
sunkissedqt
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: new york, USA
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 10, 2011 01:44 PM
Thanks for your feedback Ami!
Maybe my lack of fire can definitely hurt me in that I don't take the bull by the horns many times. I always wait for the guy to give our relationship the stamp of approval. I want the guy to court me and will wait for him to call the shots, maybe this shows a lack of confidence? I often find I have a lack of control in deciding whether our relationship will become official or not. The ball seems to always be in the guys court. This ultimately makes me angry and I lash out and probably scare him away. I hate instability and someone who is wishy washy is definitely not for me.I also can be a hopeless romantic and fall in love at first sight because I always see the positive in everyone right off the bat(when it comes to men that is, not so much women I'm rather intuitive with females) but than my earth elements come to fruition and I decide he is not a suitable or practical mate. So maybe my career focus tells me though I may be in lust or infatuated this person is not practical in that he is not committed to having the lifestyle I ultimately crave and want. I will say this, I put my lover on a pedestal. I tend to attract a lot of men because of my warm nurturing nature and feminine style. I also tend to put everything on the back burner when I'm in love. However, though I attract many lovers I want to attract more relationship-oriented men who are willing to be there for the long haul so I can let my guard down and build something more. Also, maybe I come off differently than I really am. I tend to sometimes use big vocab words when I communicate maybe because I'm insecure. I don't like new people or things if they are not immediately on my side. I feel lie I always have to prove myself. When it comes to groups I always make appearances but tend to limit them. As I am getting older I prefer having keeping company with my few reliable friends who know me the real me. I feel like when I'm in huge groups I have to maintain a facade and sustain an image that just isn't really me. And I feel like problems are inevitable with large groups and I'm just fed up with being criticized. Bottom line is that I can't really be myself with big groups and as a result I prefer intimate settings with people who love me unconditionally. What do my quincunx's mean?
Also, do you see marriage in my chart? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 17529
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 10, 2011 01:55 PM
Quincunx is the aspect that forces you to blend 2 things together that do not normally go.
When you do you"come together" and get to be very unique
I am doing that with Gemini and Scorpio which are quincunx.
I am very deep but very full of fun which does not usually go.
See what I mean?Marriage?
I can't really see that cuz I am not good enough lol IP: Logged |
sunkissedqt
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: new york, USA
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 10, 2011 02:08 PM
That's interesting Ami, what quincunxs do I have?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 17529
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 10, 2011 02:11 PM
I am gonna wait until I can figure you out better
It will be more powerful that way.IP: Logged |
sunkissedqt
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: new york, USA
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 10, 2011 02:19 PM
okay, thanks for dialoguing with me.IP: Logged |
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