posted August 27, 2011 02:10 PM            

I met a man in april and subsequently we've started seeing each other, even though we live 10 hours apart. We met half way every other weekend...up until 5 weeks ago that is when we both had a little bit of anxiety about what was happening between us, and I suggested we dont talk any more until we know what to say...dramatic maybe, but I honestly wasnt sure how to proceed in this very strange relationship that started out of nowhere. I know the time we met because I was on vacation and taking pictures. He was a complete stranger who walked in and ended up in the background of one of my pics as he was walking in the door. The picture is literally of him (behind my brother and sis-in-law)holding the front door to the bar open with his hand to get through, while staring straight into my lens. He came up to me immediately, before even ordering a drink, and then we spent the next 4 days joined at the hip until I went home.
The thing is, we have a stellium in the 4th house ruled by aries in our first meeting chart (April 29th 2011, 2231 Seattle, Wa). His sun (7degrees) and Moon (11 degrees) are both in aries (Pisces Rising). and based on what I gather from reading older posts here, he was having a lot of planets (moon, venus, uranus and lilith specifically)conunct within a couple degrees either way of his sun and/or moon. Also, his IC and MC are conjunct our 1st meeting charts ASC/DSC by sign but NOT degree. I, on the other hand, dont have any of these things going on with my natal chart. Im a cap, cancer moon with Leo rising (Im SUPER complicated but i like me =) )
I guess I wonder what that means, because in reality, I really care about this guy but have a hard time seeing a way for this relationship to work. I am VERY comfortable with a long distance relationship like this. I am a single mother and full time student/employee and couldnt have a relationship without specific dates and times to engage with the other person whether they were near or far. HE wanted to move closer, introduce our children and see where things went back in May, and I declined, and my continual refusal to give into those things, even though I feel like the potential is ABSOLUTELY there, hurt his feelings. I couldnt understand why. Are all the planets conjunct his planets an indication of why he was ready to be more committed than me? Or am I right that it was just rash impulsive and emotional decision making? I also wonder if its as simple as my natal sun/moon opp in E/W signs as compared to his sun/moon conjunction in a Fire sign? Any input?

posted August 27, 2011 02:18 PM            

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