posted September 12, 2011 04:34 PM            

Well, here I am again. And yeah, it's the same guy I'm asking about. But now, I have a fair idea of what his chart could look like, in which case at first glance our synastry looks good (Mars sextile Mars, Venus trine Venus, Sun trine Moon, don't know where his Moon is though... )

The horary suggests a relationship between us (my significator is almost exact - exactly 1 degree of separation - in sextile with his. Interestingly, he's a Libra sun)

Every time we talk about "us" something seems to be blocking me. Also he seems to be very confused about us and the situation, and it seems to result more in us giving each other the cold shoulder and somewhat ignoring each other. I know we need to talk about us, but being terrified of opening up makes me unable to and I fear that my inability to talk about this, makes him think we're not worth the effort.

The situation as it is now is also very confusing because most readings I had, had a positive view on this relationship.

posted September 16, 2011 02:42 AM            

So, my significators are: Mars (Aries 1st), Venus (Taurus intercepted) and Moon (as usual). Jupiter is also in my house, So I should see it as a significator too. His significators are: Venus (Libra 7th), Mars (Scorpio intercepted) and Sun.

First of all, I find it quite interesting that, apart from the usual Sun and Moon, we have the exact same significators. Mars is debilitated in Cancer, not a good thing. It does sextile Venus in Virgo, suggesting a connection. I know Mars is exalted in Capricorn, so it's debilitated in Cancer, but I don't really know how it is for Venus.

Sun and Moon oppose, not a good thing but to be expected when you ask a question during full moon. It does show a bit of what is going on, neither of us seem to be able to "come together".

But for communication I am tempted to look at the respective 3rd houses. Mine is in Gemini, his in Sagittarius. This is quite interesting actually. His Jupiter is not only another ruler of mine, it makes a trine to my Mercury and his Sun. Sun and Mercury are too wide to conjunct. Not only that, but Jupiter is also retrograde. In relation to his 3rd, I am tempted to ask myself: miscommunication? Not being able to speak out? My Mercury doesn't aspect anything significant except Jupiter. That to me suggests lack of communication, but not the complete absence.

Okay, please tell me if I made a mistake or if I've missed something! Thank you!