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Topic: I just lost my job.... :( I feel hopeless...
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Venia
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Bonn, Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 15, 2011 08:06 AM
  
Itīs really a tragedy! Iīve been crying the whole night yesterday, couldnīt and didnīt sleep... today the same!Why do I always have to struggle so much... Now, I donīt have a job and neither a place to stay... Can someone please do a reading for me... I will exchange it with a card reading for īthank youī! I am so desperate and donīt know what to do... I appreciate any insights! IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 15, 2011 08:19 AM
Venia, so sorry to hear! {{hug}}
I can't offer you a reading but just some comfort (I hope). You are not alone in this struggle. Can you find other people in your predicament? That would not only lessen your pain but also open up a world of resources for your next stage in life.
One more hug from me, and be sure that crying is normal and appropriate. You grieve for your loss. Let your grieve go for a fee days until you feel a bit relieved a bit better and then start thinking of a way through. Call everyone you know for help; some people might help you emotionally others materially you just need all the (and any) help you can get. Anongrl10 (been there - in fact I'm still "there" i.e. in your shoes) IP: Logged |
Venia
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Bonn, Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 15, 2011 08:22 AM
anongrl10....thank you so much for your comfort and hugs!
So sweet of you... honestly! I am blaming myself... thatīs the problem. Itīs a long story... BUT thank you so much, dear!
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anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 15, 2011 08:29 AM
Dear Venia, I assure you that blaming oneself is the first reaction to this kind of event. I don't know obviously what happened exactly, but may I be the advocate of yourself for a second and say that no matter what you did wrong, some times things go bad and we can do very little to avoid some disasters.
Like you, I blamed myself (silently) when I lost my job. My relationship with my manager could have been better. I won't bore with the details but you can imagine...
Be well, keep looking for nice people here and in real life, you are definitely not alone! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 20299
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 15, 2011 08:33 AM
Just e mailed you. Wish I could offer,more.  IP: Logged |
toptops
Knowflake Posts: 46
From: Bulgaria
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted September 15, 2011 08:45 AM
Dear Venia,HUG, I know how it feels and it is indeed awful. I had that blow mid of June - being fired. I felt devistated - my life's plan collapced over my head and I felt so hopeless and alone and despared. And although right now you will most probaly not trust me - that awful feeling and pain fade away with the time. But it takes time, no escape of that I thing. What I have done is what I will advice you not to - it was not the wisest thing - I shut myself down from everybody. I literally isolated myself from the world triyng to deal with the pain alone. That is really not the best thing to do. There were friends triyng to reach out to me and I rejected them - didn't pick up the phone and similar. Dear Venia, don't do it! Now with some time passed I realise how big of a mistake it was. The person in the previous post is right - don't play it "strong" and allow yourself to be helped and assisted from the people around you. After you get yourself emotionally together you will see the new oportunities that will present themself around you. YOU WILL BE ALLRIGHT! HUG IP: Logged |
abcd efg
Knowflake Posts: 1019
From: India
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 15, 2011 01:50 PM
((((((((Venia)))))))), I am sure you will find the light soon just let it come to you as knowflakes above have so wisely and appropriately suggested. Lots of love to you.  Hey toptops i hope you are pulling yourself together now.  Lots of love to you too. IP: Logged |
Venia
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Bonn, Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 15, 2011 04:13 PM
Thank you so much, EVERYBODY!I did blame myself, but actually I did nothing wrong - the exact opposite. The employers are really horrible and unfair people... It is really sad, cause I got a chance to work in a new city and it turned up like that.
None of my ex- coworkers was happy... Everybody is leaving one by one... You were right about shutting down oneself and avoiding everybody... None of my friends knows about this. They are all at my home country anyway. So doesnīt my mother... I felt so guilty today for not picking her call, cause I didnīt want to tell her - she would be devastated. And I was also helping her financially, and now that really hurts that I canīt.
Eventually, I talked to her and lied that everything was ok. I hated doing it. Thank you again ALL for your support. I really need it!
And I wish you all good luck as well!  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 20299
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 16, 2011 03:03 PM
Thinking of you, Venia
Did you put up transits. I will check.------------------
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toptops
Knowflake Posts: 46
From: Bulgaria
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted September 17, 2011 10:21 AM
Hey Venia,how are you doing today (hug)? Don't close yourself, come on and don't overindulge in shoko cupcakes either... Melde dich! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 20299
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 17, 2011 11:25 AM
Put up your chart, with the transits, Baby.IP: Logged |
Venia
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Bonn, Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 18, 2011 09:10 AM
Hi guys!toptops! Thank you for your concern
Unfortunately, I don not have internet access where I currently staying and should visit the internet cafe...
I feel better and stopped crying! I REALLY WANTED TO SAY A HUGE THANK YOU to all of you nice people for your amazing support. I deeply appreciate it! And gives me hope and makes me think positive again! THANK YOU from all of my heart! IP: Logged |
Venia
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Bonn, Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 18, 2011 09:12 AM
Ami Anne!Thank you for offering to look up at my chart! BUT I am using a public computer and itīs sort of hard to do this now. Thank you, though - you are always soo helpful dear! IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 18, 2011 09:18 AM
Venia, you can always post your natal stats here and we can draw your chart for you.
Ami's right; that would be great help.
In any case, it's lovely to hear from you again. I hope you find a cheap/free place with wifi soon (a library perhaps)?hugs,
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Venia
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Bonn, Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 18, 2011 01:52 PM
Got a chance to post it!
It's just my natal, though...  IP: Logged |
Venia
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Bonn, Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 18, 2011 01:54 PM
anongrl10!Thank you!!!
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anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 18, 2011 02:10 PM
Venia, I knew we had things in common. You're also a Saggie Sun! :-)IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 18, 2011 02:12 PM
This Moon in Leo is a bit dramatic. Please make sure you handle words with care otherwise you will intensify any pain you have because of some pretty intense/negative words you use to refer to it. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 18, 2011 02:14 PM
Another thing we share: your Venus is in Scorpio too! IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 18, 2011 02:16 PM
I'm a bit in a hurry but I spotted this: T Nept squares your N Uranus, ruler of your 8th, other people's money. Your employer's money is 8th house matter. This could explain why you "had" to lose your job. Now your Uranus is in the 5th house. Are you married, have kids, how is your love life? It looks like this loss of job might bring you a partner (if you're single) or kids (if you're married)! Neptune is asking for sacrifices if you want to make a dream true.
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Venia
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Bonn, Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 18, 2011 03:43 PM
anongrl10,Oh! What a coincidence!
Indeed we got some things in common! Thank you so much for that info! Indeed true! Wow! I am not married (thank God! lol...), but I also sense this job loss will bring me someone - that is great news! He might help to lift my spirits! Thanks again... If you want, I can do a card reading for you... for 'thank you' for help! Be well! IP: Logged |
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