posted October 08, 2011 08:41 AM            

One specific question for each person pls. Give me a bit of context (not too much). First come first served.

posted October 08, 2011 09:03 AM            

He's in your mind right now [King of Wands]. Is he a fire sign? He comes across as a very strong personality.

In the immediate future, I get the Hermit; you have been looking for a solution. You want the truth. Has not been an easy ride because you don't feel people understand what you need in order to move on with this.

The Fool is a wonderful next card after the Hermit in my opinion. You will end you search for a resolution by taking a new risk. A renewal of your relationship with your father is in the cards. You still need to watch where you step (you know that cliff? don't fall off! lol) but you need that child-like naivite in your dealings with your father again. You need to approach him as a daughter, as his child, not as an adult or a friend. Trust your intuition about how to go about this. It's not an immediate future card so don't push things now. It's coming up. Trust it is coming up.

I say your "position" -to answer your question- is fine. You are looking for the truth here and you are justified in being persistent. Just remember to be flexible so you can accommodate and respect his needs and expectations too. Above all, if he's the strong King of Wands I see here, you need to be more diplomatic, to appeal to his sensitive side. Anything else will bring back the "swords" (arguments/wounds) of the past.

Let me know if this helps a bit.

hugs,
A

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Originally posted by toptops:

And the question will be in connection with my relationship with my father, we have never come along and recently we had yet another argument. As long as I remember the situation is tence between us. Am I right in my own position or should I change something?

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posted October 08, 2011 09:37 AM            

Yeah, I get this sadness. You had this image about your family [Page of Cups, illusion] that is now shattered [Death, big change] to pieces basically.

You are in the Strength card position. You need all the courage in your heart to endure this. But make no mistake; you ARE capable of enduring it.

I get the Wheel of Fortune in the immediate future (next few months) and five of pents in the long-term position; the keyword here is change. You must remain open to change in order to save yourself from turmoil. This is good for your soul. The only condition is that you remain open to whatever comes because you are bound to get some unexpected events happening. Let it flow and flow with it. It will take you to a better place. Above all don't loose faith or some much-needed perspective.

Notice that the cards speak only of you! I don't see any family member here. It's all you. The lessons are on your side. [Was there a divorce?]

Now I'm not sure if this upheaval is the result of this estrangement you mentioned but this is what my cards wanted to communicate to you today.

Hope this helps a bit.

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Originally posted by Blue light:
Hi Anongirl

I too would love a reading regarding my family there has been an estrangement and want to know what if anything you see regarding this in the coming months
thanks

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posted October 08, 2011 09:39 AM            

you are right that he is a strong personality, he is bossy and imperious (although Aquarius, not fire). We are way too much alike with him for things to go smooth. It has been up and down my whole life.
To be straight with you I am really no in the mood for making compromises with him so I will let it be for a while. I am in a too moody period to back down for anybody right now. If in the future things come to a resolution so be it.

Thanks for the insight. Again .

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
A lot of erratic energy here. Have things been changing a lot, like back and forth in your relationship with your father? Like you have been trying to get along with him and you do succeed for a minute but then you get let down again all of a sudden. [Knight of Swords and Four of Swords]

He's in your mind right now [King of Wands]. Is he a fire sign? He comes across as a very strong personality.

In the immediate future, I get the Hermit; you have been looking for a solution. You want the truth. Has not been an easy ride because you don't feel people understand what you need in order to move on with this.

The Fool is a wonderful next card after the Hermit in my opinion. You will end you search for a resolution by taking a new risk. A renewal of your relationship with your father is in the cards. You still need to watch where you step (you know that cliff? don't fall off! lol) but you need that child-like naivite in your dealings with your father again. You need to approach him as a daughter, as his child, not as an adult or a friend. Trust your intuition about how to go about this. It's not an immediate future card so don't push things now. It's coming up. Trust it is coming up.

I say your "position" -to answer your question- is fine. You are looking for the truth here and you are justified in being persistent. Just remember to be flexible so you can accommodate and respect his needs and expectations too. Above all, if he's the strong King of Wands I see here, you need to be more diplomatic, to appeal to his sensitive side. Anything else will bring back the "swords" (arguments/wounds) of the past.

Let me know if this helps a bit.

hugs,
A

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posted October 08, 2011 09:45 AM            

You're most welcome!

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Originally posted by toptops:
Dear Anongrl,

you are right that he is a strong personality, he is bossy and imperious (although Aquarius, not fire). We are way too much alike with him for things to go smooth. It has been up and down my whole life.
To be straight with you I am really no in the mood for making compromises with him so I will let it be for a while. I am in a too moody period to back down for anybody right now. If in the future things come to a resolution so be it.

Thanks for the insight. Again .

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posted October 08, 2011 09:52 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Hi Blue,

Yeah, I get this sadness. You had this image about your family [Page of Cups, illusion] that is now shattered [Death, big change] to pieces basically.

You are in the Strength card position. You need all the courage in your heart to endure this. But make no mistake; you ARE capable of enduring it.

I get the Wheel of Fortune in the immediate future (next few months) and five of pents in the long-term position; the keyword here is change. You must remain open to change in order to save yourself from turmoil. This is good for your soul. The only condition is that you remain open to whatever comes because you are bound to get some unexpected events happening. Let it flow and flow with it. It will take you to a better place. Above all don't loose faith or your perspective.

Notice that the cards speak only of you! I don't see any family member here. It's all you. The lessons are on your side.

Now I'm not sure if this upheaval is the result of this estrangement you mentioned but this is what my cards wanted to communicate to you today.

Hope this helps a bit.

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Thankyou so much (((Anongirl)))
your quite right this has shattered everything to pieces, good to hear that I have enough in me to endure this.

posted October 08, 2011 09:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Blue light:
Thankyou so much (((Anongirl)))
your quite right this has shattered everything to pieces, good to hear that I have enough in me to endure this.

Can you shed any light on the unexpected events not sure if I can cope with anymore upheavel.
thanks for your guidance
xx

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posted October 08, 2011 10:02 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
You're welcome!
I am running out of time, I'm sorry I can't do a further reading.
The strength card was in the middle of the 5-card horseshoe spread and this is the essence of what is going on now. Don't be scared by anything. You have the inner recourses to deal with anything. Remember that any readings are focused on the "now" energy and up to 4-6 months tops. It is not the end of the world. Hang in there. Take care, find your center and you will be fine.

hugs,
A

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Thankyou again, you've been very kind and helpful ...I'll hang in there
god bless xx

posted October 08, 2011 10:11 AM            

you are right that he is a strong personality, he is bossy and imperious (although Aquarius, not fire). We are way too much alike with him for things to go smooth. It has been up and down my whole life.
To be straight with you I am really no in the mood for making compromises with him so I will let it be for a while. I am in a too moody period to back down for anybody right now. If in the future things come to a resolution so be it.

Thanks for the insight. Again .

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
A lot of erratic energy here. Have things been changing a lot, like back and forth in your relationship with your father? Like you have been trying to get along with him and you do succeed for a minute but then you get let down again all of a sudden. [Knight of Swords and Four of Swords]

He's in your mind right now [King of Wands]. Is he a fire sign? He comes across as a very strong personality.

In the immediate future, I get the Hermit; you have been looking for a solution. You want the truth. Has not been an easy ride because you don't feel people understand what you need in order to move on with this.

The Fool is a wonderful next card after the Hermit in my opinion. You will end you search for a resolution by taking a new risk. A renewal of your relationship with your father is in the cards. You still need to watch where you step (you know that cliff? don't fall off! lol) but you need that child-like naivite in your dealings with your father again. You need to approach him as a daughter, as his child, not as an adult or a friend. Trust your intuition about how to go about this. It's not an immediate future card so don't push things now. It's coming up. Trust it is coming up.

I say your "position" -to answer your question- is fine. You are looking for the truth here and you are justified in being persistent. Just remember to be flexible so you can accommodate and respect his needs and expectations too. Above all, if he's the strong King of Wands I see here, you need to be more diplomatic, to appeal to his sensitive side. Anything else will bring back the "swords" (arguments/wounds) of the past.

Let me know if this helps a bit.

hugs,
A

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