posted October 09, 2011 08:04 AM            

I see you are fairly active today, not really a lazy sunday .

There is something bothering me, I can't get him out of my head and decided to pop up and check if you are probably in the right mood for asking the cards something on my behalf?

It is that Cancer gay that I know since more than an year now. We met professionally, worked together on some projects, went out several times for lunch but not like on real date rather semi proffesional. Well I don't really know what is the proper description of it. Anyway. He is like in and out of my head for months and yesterday he "appeared" again although I try to suppress any thoughts of him. And as it has happened in the past now I can't get him out of there...

So, I want to know is he feeling something more for me than physical passion, because this attraction is mutual and obvious . DO we have a potential for relationship? Will there be one?

posted October 09, 2011 10:33 AM            

However, I just finished your reading. And I'm confused. Do you still have this job you had when you were going out to lunch with this guy?
I got a lot of WANDS. Wands are fire and desire. And you are a fire sign, no?
I got the Death card in between the Wands; some kind of disappointment "damping" all this desire.
Long-term though the most beautiful card ever: the 10 of Cups. Love, peace, joy, content, happiness in a long-term relationship setting.
So I say, it won't be easy to make it work but you DO want it -perhaps more than he does- and if you persist, you will win.

posted October 09, 2011 10:55 AM            

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Originally posted by toptops:
No Anon,

I am not on that job since mid June, it was a huge, huge blow for me. We haven't met since because I have withdrawn myself and sayd I am not in the city and actually I didn't want to meet anybody. He called 3-4 times checking out on me, tha last conversation I ended bit abruptly - I was making pancakes and needed to hang up. But as he hasn't called since (that was August) I thing he might have understood me wrong. I didn't wanted to get rid of him and was really actually making pancakes. So before that we had a strange relationship, that is not actually the right word but I know no better. We exchanged jokes, the tension was almost visible, you can cut it with a knife when we are around each other. He made those sweet little tokens of affection...It was,... I don't know how to put it, a strange, vibrant, sexy, pleasant, yet with boundaries kind of connection. Bare in mind I was in Mktg dept he was from adv agency - I commissioned projects to him, so we had to get that part going smoothly (which we did).

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posted October 09, 2011 11:04 AM            

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Long-term though the most beautiful card ever: the 10 of Cups. Love, peace, joy, content, happiness in a long-term relationship setting.
So I say, it won't be easy to make it work but you DO want it -perhaps more than he does- and if you persist, you will win.

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This means there IS potential. 10 of Cups in the long-term position - it is *the* LOVE card. But you have an inner struggle to overcome [7 of Wands in the penultimate position of immediate future] and it's ALL you; you have to stop getting in your OWN way; like, with refusing to acknowledge your feelings, etc. Be fearless!

posted October 09, 2011 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by toptops:

Well...you are probably right at shouting at me, I am actually scared.
Don't get angry Anon, I have read it.

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I wish I could give you a huge for real!
Take it easy. Small steps. First, call him just to say "hi" and "I'm sorry I was abrupt when you last called me." Nothing else. See where it goes. Don't try to predict your whole life after one step.

posted October 09, 2011 11:16 AM            

for the time and efforts and come on pls don't get angry with me.

posted October 09, 2011 11:23 AM            

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Originally posted by toptops:
Thank You Anon,

for the time and efforts and come on pls don't get angry with me.

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posted October 09, 2011 11:32 AM            

P.S. But there is one sentence I just can't resist commenting . How exactly do you expect a Cappy not to try to predict the future, to plan and analyse all the Pro's and Con's and the different scenarious and the possible outcomes .

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Hit refresh so you can see my responses. I'm not angry; I'm concerned and I wish I could give you a real hug to make you feel better!

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posted October 09, 2011 11:34 AM            

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Originally posted by toptops:
How exactly do you expect a Cappy not to try to predict the future, to plannand analyse all the Pro's and Con's and the different scenarious and the possible outcomes :P .

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posted October 09, 2011 11:34 AM            

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Originally posted by toptops:
How exactly do you expect a Cappy not to try to predict the future, to plannand analyse all the Pro's and Con's and the different scenarious and the possible outcomes :P .

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