posted October 16, 2011 01:00 PM            

I have a male friend whom I've known for roughly 10 years, but within the last year, I've been toying with the thought of taking our friendship to the next level. These are our charts:

MINE: http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/124/mychart.gif
HIS: http://img402.imageshack.us/img402/8672/hischart.gif (I don't know his birth time)

At first, I was hesitant about it because I didn't want to make things awkward between us, and I wasn't sure if he felt the same way. But what kind of sparked my interest was that, about late last year up until now, he would come to me in dreams--and they felt so vivid that I would wake up, 90% certain that they were real. The dreams started out benign; they involved the two of us getting to know one another better. And as the dreams continued over the months, we started to get closer and more intimate in them.

At about the midpoint of this year was when I seriously started considering us getting together--and this was also when the dreams started getting more and more intimate and sensual. When we would hang out, I'd act a little more flirty around him--nothing obvious, just subtle. Much to my liking, I could tell that he enjoyed it. After this had happened, though, if I were to contact him randomly, just to say hello, I wouldn't hear back from him--which is odd because we used to have no problem speaking with one another before. We've known each other forever, after all. But if we happened to bump into each other, it was like his "ignoring" me did not exist. He'd act all playful around me, complimenting me and flirting back a bit. But it's really weird because, one second, he'd be all flirty and playful, and then the next second, he'd act all distant.

That's only if we happen to see each other, though. He doesn't message or contact me anymore (it's been a good several months since he's done so), and in response to that, I stopped contacting him, too. I guess I kinda took it personally and thought that, if he won't talk to me, then I won't talk to him. Once in a while, however, I'd try to get in touch with him (even though I know that he won't respond) because he's still my friend, you know? But he just won't talk to me, and I don't get it. He's never been like this, and it's worrying to me. I don't recall doing anything to offend him...

And that's pretty much what it's like between us, at the moment; I haven't seen him in a couple of months now. I get that he likes me as more than a friend--I can feel it when he's near me--but, as a friend, he's not being a very good one. At least, that's what I think, anyway.

Do you feel that we share the same dreams? I heard that it might be possible for people to meet on the astral plane, and I was wondering if that was what had occurred? For some reason, that's the only explanation that's making sense to me, but I'm still not certain. And I can't confirm this with him, as he won't speak to me, so I'm not sure what's going on between us.

posted October 16, 2011 02:10 PM            

I just want to say I agree with Anongrl.

Putting astrology aside for a moment, you guys need to talk about that. And only from there you can see if you share the same dreams, and if he`s the friend you`ve always thought him to be.

posted October 17, 2011 08:15 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I wouldn't drive to his place unexpectedly. Might freak him out.
If I were him and got your msgs and still didn't respond, the last thing I'd want is for you to knock on my door eek.

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