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Astra
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posted November 05, 2011 09:47 AM
  
All my life I've been attracted unwanted attention from men. They become oddly obsessed instantly to the point where sometimes I even fear for my life. I dress very conservatively and I do my best to blend in with my environment, but I still attract attention. Is there something in my chart causing this?
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anongrl10
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posted November 05, 2011 10:07 AM
I think you are very feminine with Moon in the 1st and Nept in the 12th house of Pisces/Nept. Even our Venus in on the IC/home and on the Aries/Taurus cusp which makes you pretty sensual and ideal marriage partner. Your Sun in the 5th also attracts fun/infatuation. Mainly people will see you as extremely feminine and looking to you for light-hearted fun and even more serious home/marriage plans. Moon is also the ruler of your 7th house and when it falls in the 1st it's like a Libra effect; attracting close relationships. With Moon square Venus, you find it hard to reconcile your emotional needs with your female sensitivities when in intimate relationships. Mars in your 6th in Gem is the key for balancing both your Moon and your Venus. Are you a bit passive in your daily routines, almost like a Pisces, finding it hard to set goals and go after them, more laid-back than a go-getter? This Mars says you are good in communications and if you open up in your daily life, routines and day job you can assert your Moon needs and reconcile them with your Venus needs in the house of the home. Do you feel a bit suppressed at home? Like you cannot be your own person in it? A Gem Mars says assert yourself. Hope this makes sense. Let me know.  IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted November 05, 2011 05:11 PM
AnongrlThanks for your reply! Your reply sounds logical to me. People do tell me I'll make a wonderful wife someday. I notice that every guy I've ever dated has expected me to take care of them. They want to be babied and looked after, which I find creepy. I don't mind taking care of others, but there needs to be a limit. I don't like to feel as if I'm my boyfriend's mother. It's just weird to me! quote:
Are you a bit passive in your daily routines, almost like a Pisces, finding it hard to set goals and go after them, more laid-back than a go-getter? This Mars says you are good in communications and if you open up in your daily life, routines and day job you can assert your Moon needs and reconcile them with your Venus needs in the house of the home. Do you feel a bit suppressed at home? Like you cannot be your own person in it? A Gem Mars says assert yourself.
If I'm among my friends, I tend to be very laid-back. However, at work, I'm very much a go-getter, intense and ambitious. I plan everything well in advance and I regularly set goals. I can spend many years working towards the same goal. If there is something I want, I have no problems tirelessly working to get what I want. Question: I just noticed that my mars, venus, neptune and pluto all aspect each other. Would these aspects contribute to the excessive attention? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 05, 2011 05:15 PM
Venus oppose Pluto. Venus is 29th degree. Perhaps, you cannot tell them to go away cuz the 29 degree is a frozen degree. Perhaps, you freeze rather than take assertive action. Does this fit? I have been frozen, so know that one cannot act in one's own behalf,very well, when one is that way.
Venus oppose Pluto may put your primal self and your love self opposite you. Are you like 2 people in romance. Are you wild,on one hand, but hate that part of you,on the other, so yin/yang back and forth?
Do you struggle with these two parts of you as almost a Dr Jekly and Mr Hyde?
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Astra
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posted November 05, 2011 05:25 PM
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Venus oppose Pluto. Venus is 29th degree. Perhaps, you cannot tell them to go away cuz the 29 degree is a frozen degree. Perhaps, you freeze rather than take assertive action. Does this fit? I have been frozen, so know that one cannot act in one's own behalf,very well, when one is that way.
It sort of depends on the location. If I'm at work, I have to keep quiet or I lose my job. I don't encourage them. I simply give them an icy glare to make them back down. If I'm outside of work, I'll reject them gently. There have been a number of women in my area that have been murdered by men they have rejected, so I'm careful about leaving their ego intact. quote:
Venus oppose Pluto may put your primal self and your love self opposite you. Are you like 2 people in romance. Are you wild,on one hand, but hate that part of you,on the other, so yin/yang back and forth?
Do you struggle with these two parts of you as almost a Dr Jekly and Mr Hyde?
Yeah, I'd say there's a bit of truth to that at least in terms of freedom vs intimacy. One on hand, I crave relationships, but I greatly value my freedom. I never control anyone that I date and I expect the same courtesy in return. However, the guys I date at first seem very independent and have active lives, but they end up throwing all of that away while dating me despite the fact that I encourage them to spend time with their friends and maintain their independence. These guys end up becoming very clingy and make me feel suffocated in the relationship. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 05, 2011 05:27 PM
My sense is that you have an INNER issue that is manifesting on the outer, rather than just a magnet for weird guys. Do you know what I mean? ------------------
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posted November 05, 2011 05:30 PM
Put a chart up with Nessus, Deja and Eros, if you care to. Start a new thread, if you want. I like fresh canvases. There IS something here, I think. It is not just the outside and the world of crazy guys  ------------------
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Astra
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posted November 05, 2011 05:30 PM
I'm not sure what issue that would be. My life isn't perfect, but overall I'm satisfied. My childhood had some rough spots, but overall, I enjoyed it. I'm not a very complex person. Pretty much what you see is what you get. IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted November 05, 2011 05:37 PM
Okay, here's my chart with the asteroids:  By the way, thank you for your help, Ami! IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted November 06, 2011 07:19 PM
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Ami Anne
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posted November 06, 2011 07:22 PM
Astra The chart is really fuzzy. Could you see if you could get it clearer. Sweetie. I have never seen this. You have Eros conjunct Chiron. This may be your issue.Did you have sexual abuse as a child so that pain is associated with sexuality? ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted November 06, 2011 07:23 PM
You have Deja trine Mars so that should help you not be a victim or fight off someone who wants to make you a victim. That is a good one.------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted November 06, 2011 07:24 PM
You don't have to do a new chart. That is fine.------------------
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posted November 06, 2011 07:25 PM
You have Sun sextile Nessus so that is OK. I think the Eros conjunct Chiron is your problem.------------------
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posted November 07, 2011 03:48 PM
Hmm, interesting. No, I've never been sexually abused. What does eros conjunct chiron mean anyway?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 07, 2011 04:06 PM
Pain would be associated with the erotic part on you, I would think.------------------
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