posted November 10, 2011 07:49 AM            

Thank you so much! Here are the LARGER posts of the charts. Thanks for your help!!

Dude's Natal: (Remember birth time is an estimate)

Anita's Natal:

Our Synastry Chart:

Our Composite Chart:

Dude's Major Aspects (Taken from Astro.com):

Sun Sextile Jupiter 4°51
Sun Conjunction Saturn 3°50
Sun Conjunction Ascendant 2°33
Moon Trine Venus 3°34
Moon Square Mars 1°37
Moon Trine Neptune 4°28
Moon Opposition Pluto 7°30
Mars Sextile Saturn 4°54
Saturn Conjunction Ascendant 1°17
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3°02

My Major Aspects:

Sun Opposition Jupiter 2°08
Sun Sextile Uranus 2°50
Sun Conjunction Ascendant 6°56
Moon Conjunction Mars 7°30
Moon Square Uranus 6°18
Moon Square Neptune 5°31
Mercury Conjunction Venus 0°15
Mercury Conjunction Pluto 2°53
Venus Conjunction Pluto 2°37
Mars Square Neptune 1°59
Jupiter Trine Uranus 0°43
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3°50
Neptune Sextile Ascendant 2°03
Pluto Conjunction Ascendant 5°53

Synastry Aspects:
(Conjunction ~4, Everything else 2 or lower)

Sun opposition Moon 26 Libra 33'10" 25 Aries 4'15" 1.48

Moon sextile Mercury 0 Libra 1'38" 0 Sagittarius 39'45" 0.63

Moon square Neptune 0 Libra 1'38" 29 Sagittarius 32'33" 0.48

Moon trine North Node 0 Libra 1'38" 28 Taurus 3'43" 1.97

Moon conjunction Vesta 0 Libra 1'38" 28 Virgo 40'48" 1.35

Mercury conjunction Sun 12 Scorpio 14'22" 14 Scorpio 43' 3" 2.48

Venus conjunction Sun 11 Scorpio 59'17" 14 Scorpio 43' 3" 2.73

Mars opposition Lilith 7 Libra 31' 7" 7 Aries 0'20" 0.52

Mars trine Chiron 7 Libra 31' 7" 7 Gemini 2'52" 0.48

Jupiter conjunction Moon 24 Aries 25' 9" 25 Aries 4'15" 0.65

Jupiter conjunction Pholus 24 Aries 25' 9" 23 Aries 55'55" 0.5

Saturn conjunction Venus 17 Sagittarius 28'19" 21 Sagittarius 30'22" 4.03

Uranus conjunction Venus 23 Sagittarius 42'38" 21 Sagittarius 30'22" 2.2

Uranus square Juno 23 Sagittarius 42'38" 24 Virgo 50'10" 1.13

Neptune conjunction Jupiter 5 Capricorn 31'50" 9 Capricorn 51'34" 4.33

Neptune sextile Pallas 5 Capricorn 31'50" 4 Pisces 36'19" 0.92

Pluto sextile Jupiter 9 Scorpio 21'53" 9 Capricorn 51'34" 0.5

Lilith trine Lilith 7 Leo 2'53" 7 Aries 0'20" 0.03

Lilith sextile Chiron 7 Leo 2'53" 7 Gemini 2'52" 0

Chiron opposition Neptune 28 Gemini 43' 9" 29 Sagittarius 32'33" 0.82

Chiron square Vesta 28 Gemini 43' 9" 28 Virgo 40'48" 0.05

Pholus opposition Mercury 29 Taurus 2'51" 0 Sagittarius 39'45" 1.62

Pholus conjunction North Node 29 Taurus 2'51" 28 Taurus 3'43" 0.98

Pholus trine Vesta 29 Taurus 2'51" 28 Virgo 40'48" 0.37

Ceres conjunction Neptune 3 Capricorn 49'59" 29 Sagittarius 32'33" 4.28

Ceres sextile Pluto 3 Capricorn 49'59" 2 Scorpio 34'40" 1.25

Ceres sextile Pallas 3 Capricorn 49'59" 4 Pisces 36'19" 0.78

Pallas conjunction Uranus 9 Sagittarius 21' 9" 12 Sagittarius 4'46" 2.72

Juno sextile Venus 22 Aquarius 43'59" 21 Sagittarius 30'22" 1.22

Vesta trine Mercury 2 Leo 15'36" 0 Sagittarius 39'45" 1.6

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posted November 13, 2011 11:17 AM            

Venus in Sag can be a player lol

Moon in Aries has get up and go and boldness and courage.

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posted November 13, 2011 12:44 PM            

Is the Cancer ASC what you think is right? Do you have an approximate birth time that made you choose this. I am getting more inklings of a player BUT he does not have a full 5th house, so this makes me pause but we do not have an accurate time, so would really need to discuss the time to see what would happen to the 5th house, as the houses are based on birth time.

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posted November 13, 2011 02:07 PM            

Thanks for all your help! Haha, actually he is not a player. The problem is that he said he wasn't sure what time he was born, he did tell me, however, that his mother said that it was in the morning.

In the beginning of the relationship I had joked and made fun of him in regards to the player aspect. Actually, the more I made fun of him, the angrier he grew, until he kind of had to raise his voice and said "stop. it's not funny. i'm serious about you, trust me."

In the beginning when I was un-sure about this man, I told him that we weren't in a relationship (after we went on 2-3 dates) and he got upset at me and said "I'm very very disappointed with you."

I don't see venus in sag so bad.. Actually I know a few friends with venus in sag (and also sun sag themselves and also merc in sag) who are 150% loyal and committed in relationship. I've also dated a Sag and it was one of the longest relationship I've ever had. We were in a long distance relationship for 4 years.

He does have a quick temper, though around me he controls it very well. But there are times that I can "feel" he is very very upset and the tension is very intense when we are in a fight.

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posted November 13, 2011 02:24 PM            

The one thing I really, really like is the moon/Vesta and Juno conjunction, as this seems like an aspect of real and true heart and soul.

Please, keep me posted!

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posted November 13, 2011 02:45 PM            

Here's something interesting, perhaps you should know out background a bit more?
Our very first arguement/fight was over the fact that I didn't wake him up in time. We were going to see a classical music concert (actually, he's not into classical music, but he overheard me talking to a taxi driver about it once so after that, he went to get tickets for a classical music concert and took me with him). He said he'll go take a nap and he asked me to wake him up at a certain time because we need to get to the place 40 minutes prior to show starting.

However, I knew we didn't need to go that early, so I let him take an extra longer nap (woke him up about 15 minutes later) and he was angry and upset. No words were exchanged but he did lash out a bit and asked "Why didn't you wake me up?? (on time)" I said it will be okay and we will make it on time, i know it will be okay. But he said "what if we can't? There's a reason why it says when we bought the tickets *PLEASE ARRIVE 40 MINUTES PRIOR TO SHOW STARTING* What if we miss it?!?!"

We went there, and we arrived EARLY. The whole ride there, the whole concert it was just a COLD WAR. Not much word exchanged, obviously we were both upset. Or atleast I was upset that he didn't apologize to me since I knew I was right.

Of course later, towards the end of the concert, I realized that it was my ego coming into act again. This is seriously the first time I've ever had to stop and analyze my own ego. ( I have alot of that and many guys tell me it is VERY VERY hard to handle me). Perhaps this is his "man" thing, he probably has more ego than me. Fair enough. Afterall, who's taking who to see what? He took me to watch a concert to music which he is not all too familiar with (I caught him dozing off a few times..but its okay, I understand not alot of ppl can take it!). Afterall, isn't he just taking me there because he wants to make me happy? Since he knows music is my passion? And after all of that...people just wanna be appreciated for the things they do for others, right?

So, finally, I took a BIG GULP, swallowed my not-so-necessary-pride and told him, sincerely, how much I appreciated him taking me there. From his facial expressions his eyes lit up a bit and asked "oh, I'm glad you enjoyed it. Was the performance good?" and I said it was very good and I thanked him.

First lesson learned - I don't always have to be a pain in the ass..

I used to be one. If this was any of my previous boyfriends I would give them hell, torture them and make them eat dirt!!! I know, I'm very bad...but if it was me back then, it would've been ROUGH. I would've been like "I don't need to apologize, YOU should apologize to me!!" and even if the guy apologized I'd still torture them.