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Topic: why didnt anybody see this in my chart =/
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aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 14, 2011 01:11 PM
im pregnant -__- IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 21997 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 14, 2011 01:20 PM
WOW----Congratulations, if you feel happy about it. A natal would not show it. You would have needed a Horary which would have allowed you to ask a question like "Why am I sick etc?"------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 14, 2011 01:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: WOW----Congratulations, if you feel happy about it. A natal would not show it. You would have needed a Horary which would have allowed you to ask a question like "Why am I sick etc?"
lOl yess but im not sure what to do =/ =/ i love kids but im not ready for one =/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 21997 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 14, 2011 01:28 PM
Adoption, Baby. Someone will LOVE that child, someone who can't have one. I will help you, if you need help.------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Metid Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Between the realms of insanity! Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 14, 2011 01:44 PM
Love the child!!! One can always feel not ready for things.. But surprisingly they can be a blessing.I was adopted and my blessings have been mixed to say the least. IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 1408 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 14, 2011 02:03 PM
I am with Metid. Nobody is ever 100% ready for such big events. If you love kids, and if you can love your child, you can make it work. Hugs. IP: Logged |
aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 14, 2011 10:22 PM
thanks everyone =]IP: Logged |
Hera Knowflake Posts: 814 From: the OR Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 01:06 AM
Well, your Solar Arc Asc is sextile your 5th house ruler, so maybe not so surprising. Some people don't use soft aspects in Solar Arcs, but I've seen them work before. Also, you have Uranus conj your 5th house ruler, showing an unexpected/unplanned pregnancy. Goodluck! IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 868 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 15, 2011 01:52 AM
wow I'm latee 89er and I can't imagine even imagine having a kid. My parents would go crazy =/ what are you going to do?IP: Logged |
aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 05:37 AM
i dont know everyone i ask to give me advice is telling me to abort it but i cant do that, thats not me at all =/ =/ ..& the father is able to help me take care of it he has a good paying professional job ...but we just dont get along at all hes always trying to control me something i am not trying to live with for the rest of my life.IP: Logged |
aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 05:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Adoption, Baby. Someone will LOVE that child, someone who can't have one. I will help you, if you need help.
NO adoption ami lol this baby is mine!! IP: Logged |
aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 06:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hera: Well, your Solar Arc Asc is sextile your 5th house ruler, so maybe not so surprising. Some people don't use soft aspects in Solar Arcs, but I've seen them work before. Also, you have Uranus conj your 5th house ruler, showing an unexpected/unplanned pregnancy. Goodluck!
WOooow thank you hera
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Hera Knowflake Posts: 814 From: the OR Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 08:46 AM
Would be curious to know where your Child asteroid is. My boyfriend has Child conj Uranus = again unplanned/unexpected child. His ex turned up 6 months pregnant with his child while he was about to ask me to marry him. Turns out his Solar Arc Uranus-Child conjunction is exactly conjunct his Sun...So maybe asteroid Child could also shed some light. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 09:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquarqueen: NO adoption ami lol this baby is mine!!
I just want to say that I admire you tremendously for your decision. It'll be the best decision you will make in your life, regardless of whether the child's biological father is part of the child's life. I'm sorry you have to go through this but this is indeed a blessing. The child will enrichen your life in more ways than can be counted. Love relationships pale in comparison with a bond between child and parent. I'm from the NYC area myself. I'm a man and a proud father of a girl and two boys. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 21997 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 09:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquarqueen: NO adoption ami lol this baby is mine!!
Cool
------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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yuting Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Hong Kong Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 10:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquarqueen: i dont know everyone i ask to give me advice is telling me to abort it but i cant do that, thats not me at all =/ =/ ..& the father is able to help me take care of it he has a good paying professional job ...but we just dont get along at all hes always trying to control me something i am not trying to live with for the rest of my life.
My parents were divorced but they had always emphasized that their not being together had nothing to do with us (me & my bro) and they both loved us all the same. This made a lot of difference. I think if the father of the child can support you on this (ie willing to be a loving father regardless of your relationship), on top of economic support, then the child could actually be in a better position than those who have to grow up with parents in the same house, in a marriage, but always fighting. So it could be important that you do not mind sharing the child (and the child's affection) with the father.
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toptops Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Saturn Registered: Jan 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 12:57 PM
WELL DONE, baby girl!!!This one sentence of you says it all! You have the strenght to handle whatever comes, trust in this. All the best, have a happy pregnancy, easy birth and sunny child!
quote: Originally posted by aquarqueen: NO adoption ami lol this baby is mine!!
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aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 16, 2011 05:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hera: Would be curious to know where your Child asteroid is. My boyfriend has Child conj Uranus = again unplanned/unexpected child. His ex turned up 6 months pregnant with his child while he was about to ask me to marry him. Turns out his Solar Arc Uranus-Child conjunction is exactly conjunct his Sun...So maybe asteroid Child could also shed some light.
how would i figure this out ? IP: Logged |
aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 16, 2011 05:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by yuting: My parents were divorced but they had always emphasized that their not being together had nothing to do with us (me & my bro) and they both loved us all the same. This made a lot of difference.I think if the father of the child can support you on this (ie willing to be a loving father regardless of your relationship), on top of economic support, then the child could actually be in a better position than those who have to grow up with parents in the same house, in a marriage, but always fighting. So it could be important that you do not mind sharing the child (and the child's affection) with the father.
i wouldnt mind sharing because i didnt grow up with a dad either so whatever i didnt have i would rather my child 2 have IP: Logged |
aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 16, 2011 05:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I just want to say that I admire you tremendously for your decision. It'll be the best decision you will make in your life, regardless of whether the child's biological father is part of the child's life.I'm sorry you have to go through this but this is indeed a blessing. The child will enrichen your life in more ways than can be counted. Love relationships pale in comparison with a bond between child and parent. I'm from the NYC area myself. I'm a man and a proud father of a girl and two boys.
Thank you so much for your support .. IP: Logged |
aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 16, 2011 05:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by toptops: WELL DONE, baby girl!!!This one sentence of you says it all! You have the strenght to handle whatever comes, trust in this. All the best, have a happy pregnancy, easy birth and sunny child!
THANK YOUU AND I WILL KEEP ALL OF YOU UPDATED ON THE BABY THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT IP: Logged |
aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 16, 2011 06:50 PM
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 16, 2011 07:24 PM
Don't mean to pry, but is your child's father going to be in your child's life? How does he feel about his responsibility? This is an issue of much relevance to me as a man. How does he feel about you? Is he going to be in your life?IP: Logged |
aquarqueen Knowflake Posts: 180 From: bronx Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 16, 2011 07:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Don't mean to pry, but is your child's father going to be in your child's life? How does he feel about his responsibility? This is an issue of much relevance to me as a man. How does he feel about you? Is he going to be in your life?
he will be in the childs life is not his 1st child even if he decides to turn into a diffrent guy & not be in the childs life after its born thats something i really cant control cant force someone to do things they dont want to do .. but he wanted this baby the reason why this is so shocking to me is because doctors told me it will be tough to have kids in the future so i wasnt expecting to get pregnant .... we have a close relationship even though we have a lot of disagreements more like a friendship sometimes lol & as long as hes there for the baby i dont care about him being with me or not .. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 16, 2011 08:54 PM
I don't mean to be old fashioned, but I'm in a different generation from you. I would humbly and most respectfully suggest that you attempt to work hard on a relationship with your child's father. I know your happiness is paramount as well, but it'll be great if your child could grow up with two parents. Again, I respect whatever decision you make. IP: Logged |