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Topic: Synastry - good? bad? long term?
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Jounia
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posted November 14, 2011 07:22 PM
  
Hello all!Please could you take a look at this synastry. I'm cancer. Any thoughts welcome  Thank you!  IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 19, 2011 07:05 AM
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Ami Anne
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posted November 19, 2011 07:57 AM
Hi Baby. If you really want to make it easy for me. Make a bigger chart with him on the outside. I have to transpose it, all the time, when the female is on the outside. Put Nessus, Dejaneria, Child, Pholus and Eros if you are making a new chart, anyway.------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted November 19, 2011 11:08 AM
Ok, I will share a few things that I saw. There would be super attraction, like off the charts, I think. You prolly feel really close to him and as if he is familiar and "homey". He prolly makes you feel buzzing with atraction vibes.
What *I* would not want long term is the Saturn. Your Sun and NN conjunct his Saturn. I think he would feel like a taskmaster in a long term relationship. You, on the other hand would be shaking him up as your Uranus conjuncts his NN.
This is my sense. I could be all wrong. Tell me what you think. It feels super passionate like you cannot be away from each other. You feel like you know him and have always known him. However, long term he would be the father and you would rebel against him. That looks like it would feel bad for both of you. That is my 2 cents. What do you think? Tell me about the relationship, please. How long have you known him? How serious is it?
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Jounia
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posted November 20, 2011 05:21 AM
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Jounia
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posted November 20, 2011 05:26 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ok, I will share a few things that I saw. There would be super attraction, like off the charts, I think. You prolly feel really close to him and as if he is familiar and "homey". He prolly makes you feel buzzing with atraction vibes.
What *I* would not want long term is the Saturn. Your Sun and NN conjunct his Saturn. I think he would feel like a taskmaster in a long term relationship. You, on the other hand would be shaking him up as your Uranus conjuncts his NN.
This is my sense. I could be all wrong. Tell me what you think. It feels super passionate like you cannot be away from each other. You feel like you know him and have always known him. However, long term he would be the father and you would rebel against him. That looks like it would feel bad for both of you. That is my 2 cents. What do you think? Tell me about the relationship, please. How long have you known him? How serious is it?
We've been together 7 years, for the first 3 there was super sexual attraction, now the sex is dwindling (not on my side!). We argue a lot - he really annoys me with his indecisivness and inability to take charge of a problem or situation - that's always left to me to deal with.
This man turned me from being a spoilt ***** in to a woman. He really changed me for the better. I feel a bit suffocated by him - I'm spontaneous and fun, and he's not. I need more stimulation from life, he's happy just to plod along.
Where is this going? will it always be a struggle? Thank you. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2011 08:25 AM
His Saturn conj your NN. It will always be a struggle, imo. He may be your stern father type of person. You have your Pholus conj his Sun. Things will wildly explode, between you, two. It will feel like an ape in the China shop feeling. You may be the one pushing the exploding. Is this cuz he is so strict and stern that you make things explode lol------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2011 08:36 AM
Then, HE has Pholus( our favorite exploder) conjunct Lilith, which is raw sexuality. Is he super sexual lol------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2011 08:41 AM
WOW You shake him up--like crazy. He is super devoted to you, committed and super loyal. It is passionate and primal. HOWEVER, his restrictions on you and your wanting to make him fly apart at the seams, may take it's toll on you.IF you stay, you must accept him as the stern parent and you as the one that makes things fly apart and stirs things up. You will be trying to take down his barriers and he will be putting them up, at some level. Have I described your relationship as it feels to you 
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Jounia
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posted November 20, 2011 12:42 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
His Saturn conj your NN. It will always be a struggle, imo. He may be your stern father type of person. You have your Pholus conj his Sun. Things will wildly explode, between you, two. It will feel like an ape in the China shop feeling. You may be the one pushing the exploding. Is this cuz he is so strict and stern that you make things explode lol
He was very strict at the beginning. Now I'd say it's not so much that he's strict, it's more that he's not up for any spotaineous plans that I have. In that sense I feel suffocated and feel like there are restrictions on me. That makes me expload. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 20, 2011 12:46 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Then, HE has Pholus( our favorite exploder) conjunct Lilith, which is raw sexuality. Is he super sexual lol
lol not with me!
At the beginning of the relationship he struggled with addiction to porn. Now I;d say he's really not that sexual a person. This is what is killing our relationship. I simply cannot function normally or do day to day tasks without sex. He said he doesn't need it as much as I do. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted November 20, 2011 12:52 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
WOW You shake him up--like crazy. He is super devoted to you, committed and super loyal. It is passionate and primal. HOWEVER, his restrictions on you and your wanting to make him fly apart at the seams, may take it's toll on you.IF you stay, you must accept him as the stern parent and you as the one that makes things fly apart and stirs things up. You will be trying to take down his barriers and he will be putting them up, at some level. Have I described your relationship as it feels to you
Yes, he is super devoted and committed to me. I know that and I feel it. I'm not sure I can bare the emotional restrictions. Yes, he does feel very homely and familiar to me, like I've know him forever and I'm very comfortable around him, but still I feel I cannot be myself. I feel like we don't truly connect on a spiritual level - like I can't talk about random or silly things becuase he doesn't understand me. I can't be silly with him. However he has changed my life and made me a woman. He is so caring and would do anything for me. He's a guy that would be there to the end - honest, hardworking and extremely loyal and forgiving..... but I am missing that whole soul mates connection thing.... and that's killing me  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2011 12:59 PM
Well, I don't believe in soul mates, really. I think it is an idealized Hollywood version. People are too messy and weird to stay soul mates, forever, as the term soul mates connotes a perfect love, which I don't think exists in the midst of real life exigencies. I would tell you to pray about what you should do about this relationship. Then, follow that still, small Voice, inside!------------------
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Jounia
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posted November 20, 2011 02:55 PM
My heart is telling me stay...... my head is telling me to be free..... so difficult! I do love him though Thanks for your analysis! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2011 03:17 PM
Yes, I get the indecision. I do! You are very welcome. Please come back and update me.------------------
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