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Topic: Synastry and Composite Opinions
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moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 03:42 PM
I recently have felt an intense attraction to someone I normally would not be attracted to. I can not explain, but definitely feel a fated type of pull to him. We have several soul mate and asteroid connections in our synastry.Is this a case of too quick too soon, or does this relationship have long lasting possibilities that would benefit us both? Here is our synastry chart: < img src="http://i1142.photobucket.com/albums/n616/handstitchlady/SYNASTRY_2.gif" > Any ideas/opinions would be appreciated. Thanks.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 10, 2011 03:45 PM
Hi Moon in Cancer. Welcome to Personal Readings I am Moon in Cancer, too. Your link does not work, Sweetie.------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 03:47 PM
Sorry, just saw that HTML is turned off. Try this: Thanks again. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 10, 2011 03:50 PM
He is on the outside. Good Girl. I will be back to look. Then, tell me the story ------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 10, 2011 04:20 PM
You have Chiron conj the ASC. Were you bullied?------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 04:23 PM
A little in school, but not too much. Had a very strong willed mother.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 10, 2011 04:25 PM
No, you. You have Chiron conj the ASC. That is a wound or painful something which you wear on your person. Do you have a physical problem or emotional one which caused you a lot of pain?------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 04:44 PM
Emotional. IP: Logged |
moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 04:47 PM
Quite a lot of emotional pain as a child and lately as an adult due to family.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 10, 2011 05:16 PM
Why don't you talk about it, if you care to, and we will go from there. If your birth time is right, it is NOT your fault. Your Chiron placement was the root of it.------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 10, 2011 05:19 PM
He comes to you with his mind to help you, doesn't he?------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 05:45 PM
My grandmother was schizophrenic and very abusive to my mother, who still tried to help her all my grandmother's life regardless of the abuse. Had to watch this pain of my mother being treated by her parents.Father was VERY distant in my house. Like he was not there at all. As an adult discovered that he was not happy at all with my mother, possibly homosexual, and really didn't want children at all. They were finally divorced this year after a very hard two year process. LOTS of bad feelings. Will not even associate with father. Spent my entire life looking for a feeling of safety that never seemed to get at home. There always seemed a family crisis. Father always wanted to move to a new area every six or seven years, went to 12 public schools. Am in a relationship right now, but still can not relax enough to feel that safe secure feeling no matter how hard I try. That's why I am confused about this new individual. He has habits that I don't particularly like, smokes and drinks, but I still feel a strong pull and connection to him. We're both intensely shy, so this will probably not turn into anything, but just wanted to find out reasons for sense of connection and fate that maybe were meant to help one another even if not romantically. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 10, 2011 05:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonincancer: My grandmother was schizophrenic and very abusive to my mother, who still tried to help her all my grandmother's life regardless of the abuse. Had to watch this pain of my mother being treated by her parents.Father was VERY distant in my house. Like he was not there at all. As an adult discovered that he was not happy at all with my mother, possibly homosexual, and really didn't want children at all. They were finally divorced this year after a very hard two year process. LOTS of bad feelings. Will not even associate with father. Spent my entire life looking for a feeling of safety that never seemed to get at home. There always seemed a family crisis. Father always wanted to move to a new area every six or seven years, went to 12 public schools. Am in a relationship right now, but still can not relax enough to feel that safe secure feeling no matter how hard I try. That's why I am confused about this new individual. He has habits that I don't particularly like, smokes and drinks, but I still feel a strong pull and connection to him. We're both intensely shy, so this will probably not turn into anything, but just wanted to find out reasons for sense of connection and fate that maybe were meant to help one another even if not romantically.
OK, Darling I can understand this need for safety, too I will look at these charts but please do another thread with both of your charts WITH asteroids. When there is a super painful story such as yours, asteroids will tell it. I did an article on myths and how ones life is like a Greek myth. I will put it up for you. As far as asteroids, get Child, Pholus, the "normal" ones and the dark ones such as Sedna, Ixion, Nessus and Dejaneria. Also Orchus. If I need others later, I will ask.
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moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 10:16 PM
As requested, here is our synastry chart w/asteroids. Let me know if you need anything else:
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littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 11, 2011 12:58 AM
wow! I would run...synastry like this, intense but I would run. Mars opposite Uranus, merc opposite Uranus, Uranus conjunct Pluto, Sun square Sun and Saturn...and moon square Pluto...I wish you the best of luck. I however would not want to be in this relationship. IP: Logged |
moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 11, 2011 01:55 PM
Thanks for the input. Understand completely very intense on both sides of the good/bad spectrum. Very conflicted.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 11, 2011 02:21 PM
Does he make you explode like all your "stuff' comes out ------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 11, 2011 02:23 PM
I would think he would make you "explode" in your sense of 'devotion' to. i wrote an article "Pholus explodes what it touches'.I will put it up.Please explain about this, if you can. ------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 11, 2011 02:24 PM
You have Moon conjunct nessus. Do you feel you were abused by woman/your mother etcWow--Uranus conj Eros in synastry. WHAT does it feel like with him ------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 11, 2011 02:26 PM
His Nessus conj your Sun and Saturn. Is this an obsessive relationship for you? It seems like it would be lolDoes he feel familiar like really bad but at the same time really good, in that crazy obsessive way? ------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 11, 2011 02:27 PM
HIS Pholus conj your ASC. Does he make you "explode" /shatter who you are? I think you both do this to each other.Please, explain. ------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 11, 2011 02:29 PM
Man, does he have a romantic, tragic hero persona ? He has Venus conj Chiron and Lilith. You gots to send me a picture Then you have Lilith conj Chiron in synastry. Do you guys share pain so that it runs in to erotic spheres? ------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 23325 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 11, 2011 02:30 PM
I will leave it there, for now. Come back and answer those and I will continue.------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 11, 2011 04:33 PM
So many questions. First of all, thanks for the input: quote: I would think he would make you "explode" in your sense of 'devotion' to..... HIS Pholus conj your ASC. Does he make you "explode" /shatter who you are? I think you both do this to each other.
I only met him once briefly, so I don't know this yet. I just have had an odd feeling lately that even if not romantically connected, we are "fated" to connect on some level for some purpose. We have a strong karma connection, for good or bad. quote: You have Moon conjunct nessus. Do you feel you were abused by woman/your mother etc.
Not abused by any means, but feel overpowered by mother. Too controlling on her part. Burdened by having to deal with her abuse issues and her own emotional problems, which have hindered numerous things in my life. quote: Wow--Uranus conj Eros in synastry. WHAT does it feel like with him.
Intense to say the least. quote: His Nessus conj your Sun and Saturn. Is this an obsessive relationship for you? It seems like it would be....Does he feel familiar like really bad but at the same time really good, in that crazy obsessive way?[QUOTE] Yes, yes, and double yes. I'm usually a pretty lukewarm person in this regard, not trusting emotions at all, but can't help myself with him. My main question is, though, is there mutual interest here or just an one-sided obsession on my part?[QUOTE]Man, does he have a romantic, tragic hero persona?
Yes and that definitely appeals to me. quote: Then you have Lilith conj Chiron in synastry. Do you guys share pain so that it runs in to erotic spheres?
Yes.Let me know if you have any more questions. IP: Logged |
moonincancer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 03:19 PM
Bumped up as requested.Thanks. IP: Logged |