posted December 25, 2011 10:59 PM            

Specific things that could be addressed:

Pluto in the 7th -- should this be a concern?

Venus in the 1st -- does this hold any significance?

We are already in a relationship and have been for a few months, which is why I posted the composite. However, here is the synastry as well.

posted December 26, 2011 09:58 AM            

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posted December 26, 2011 10:04 AM            

So, I have a respect for this aspect. Yours is close. This may be very hard. What do you think?

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posted December 26, 2011 11:11 AM            

We don't live together, however we do spend a LOT of time at each other's places. So we don't share bills, but we are with each other very very often.

We don't fight a lot. There have been times when I've been frustrated with him over small things, but he lets it blow over and doesn't turn it into anything huge. That's a key difference between this relationship and my past ones. In my past relationships, the things I get frustrated over would have been turned into massive fights. But he lets me cool off and then we move on. In our nearly 5 months of dating, there's been one time when we have both been mad at each other and had a "fight." It did kind of escalate into more than it should have been. Even then, however, it was resolved within a day.

I can see how fights could turn up, with two people like us. We are both strong-willed, stubborn characters. We want what we want. And sometimes the things we want are not the same. We compromise, and normally he is the one who lets me do what I want... without that, however, I think there would be a lot of bickering between us. But, as I said, we both have a lot of drive and there are certain things that we don't want to compromise on.

What do you mean about Pluto being a "tidal wave"? Could you clarify that for me maybe

posted December 26, 2011 07:18 PM            

So if you have it in the 7th, your relationships would take on this tidal wave sense about them like Richard Burton and Liz Taylor, maybe. I am not saying you WILL have what they had, just the feeling nature of the passions.

Did that make sense

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posted December 27, 2011 09:53 PM            

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posted December 28, 2011 07:25 PM            

You may have a job or service to do as a couple. Love will define your relationship.

You may have struggles with society. Do you have any issues society may not "like" such as an interracial marriage, big age difference etc?

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posted December 28, 2011 07:27 PM            

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posted December 28, 2011 07:29 PM            

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posted December 28, 2011 09:50 PM            

What indicates to you that love will define the relationship? Can you pinpoint a certain aspect or anything for that, so I can do more research on it?

Not interracial, no big age difference... honestly I can't think of anything that would cause too much of a struggle with society. The only thing that popped into my mind when I read this was that we were a "secret" at first. We had to hide our relationship for a bit because it would deeply hurt one of my good friends who had interest in him in the past. We are more open now and basically everyone knows about us, including that friend. However I am very hush-hush about it around that friend because she does not want to hear about it even though she knows.

Can you give an example of some of the "pain" that will be dealt with? Would it be pain that we have experienced in our own lives before the relationship being carried into the home life? Would we cause pain to each other? Basically looking for some clarification on that, if you can.

Moon in 11th... I don't feel I understand the 11th house to speak knowledgeably about this. I will have to think on that some more, if I come up with anything, I will let you know.

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posted December 28, 2011 10:30 PM            

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posted December 28, 2011 10:35 PM            

Then His NN conjuncts your Stellium. You will take him in all the directions your stellium planets will go.

He brings you excitement. You bring him the color of a lot of planets so a lot of life.

You have chiron conj ASC. Were you bullied? What wound do you take in to life?

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posted December 28, 2011 11:29 PM            

Glad you think it is wild and wonderful -- sometimes I worry that our synastry is horrible!

We haven't been dating terribly long but I have a desire to know him deeply. I'm always wanting to have deeper talks with him and really get to know him, sometimes I just have trouble initiating those things.

I'm reading up and Venus in the 12th can indicate a secret love affair -- definitely resonates considering what I explained above, about my friend.

Reading up about 12th house synastry and it seems to show some connections to karmic links and past life associations. Wonder if this explains the amount of deja vu feelings I get when I am with him, and have since before we actually started dating! Doesn't happen every time I am with him, but more often than any other time in my life!

Found this: "Jupiter in partner’s 12th House - indicates a mutual interest in meditation, spirituality, and development of intuitive powers. You will be able to share everything with each other, no matter how sensitive the subject. You can help them understand and overcome their subconscious emotional hang-ups."

Very interesting, because we both seem to "get" each other when it comes to spirituality and religion. Of course, he does poke fun at me for believing so much in the stars... but I know that he respects my passion for it and maybe even admires the passion that I have regarding this.

I definitely do feel a strong connection to him. On the surface, our interests don't really match. But there's definitely something there, something that is holding this together that I can't quite put words to. Definitely an understanding and acceptance of each other and a desire to be honest with one another, I think. This relationship still is new on some levels. It has some maturing to do and I think that we should get to know each other even more