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doll
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posted December 31, 2011 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for doll     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, this is a stupid question, but my Pisces moon is awful with the notion of love. I fall for nearly everyone who shows me the slightest bit of compassion (and then get over them pretty fast after they reveal their 'true colors'), so I've grown to doubt the authenticity of my feelings.

What I want to know is what's going on between myself and this new guy I've been seeing. I feel a major intensity coming from him but I'm worried that I may just be projecting (Pisces moon, woolgathering, blah blah). I feel soooooo nervous around him and I sense that he is nervous about me too. We are very socially awkward around each other.

However, he is not very communicative about his feelings. Any type of emotion I 'read' from him is based of intuition on my part and as I've already mentioned - I just don't trust my intuition after so many failed relationships! I feel loved by the way he holds me and touches me - in fact, I'm picking up subtle energies from him that indicate he may even be a little obsessed with me (or am I the obsessed one!?), but verbally, he is more intellectual and hasn't told me how he feels.

Please tell me if there is a loving attraction coming from his end - I don't want to waste my time going by my gut instinct :-/

MY CHART:



HIS CHART:

OUR SYNASTRY CHART: (ME inside, HIM outside)

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doll
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posted December 31, 2011 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for doll     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also just wanted to mention that he really was born at 8pm on the dot. He told me so and asked if that was strange... ha

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Ami Anne
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posted December 31, 2011 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome to PR Doll

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Ami Anne
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posted December 31, 2011 12:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just read your post. I will be back to answer.

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Ami Anne
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posted December 31, 2011 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It feels strange because he is bringing his Chiron, the planet of DEEPEST wounds to your Mars, the planet of passion and action.You may get really close, really fast. IT may then break apart just as fast. With these Chiron things, you need to give a lot of space to each other. It seems to implode and explode to nothing, if space is not given, in my experience.

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Ami Anne
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posted December 31, 2011 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He is bringing his deepest passions to your mind, too. I would go with it. It will be special.It will be intense, but heed what I said about Chiron.

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posted December 31, 2011 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He, also, brings his heart and his optimism to you. This would feel wonderful. I bet it feels warm and close to both of you. I have one Chiron friend left since I learned about Chiron.I give her a lot of space and vice -versa and we are still really close.

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posted December 31, 2011 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think, as the relationship progresses, there will be a lot of power struggles to the point it may feel as if it is not worth it.

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Jounia
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posted December 31, 2011 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His moon is on your ascendant. He will probably have moments where he will express feelings to you, and afterwards be concerned about what he has expressed or if it was too much. The emotions between you may overwhelm you both at times.
He's a scorpio moon. So am I. If he is anything like me, his emotions will run very deep but he may be very cautious about expressing them. You will both be very sensitive to each other with this aspect.

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doll
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posted December 31, 2011 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for doll     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Ami, thanks for your responses! I don't know much about Chiron, so this is helpful.

Power struggles may sound scary, but to be honest I have endured them in nearly every relationship I've ever had. I am not sure if it is my first house Pluto causing me to ONLY want intense relationships - but typically, that's how I am. All or nothing and over this past year I've kind of learned to use my pluto in an empowering, less destructive way -

So far, no power struggles (but we are in our initial stages of romance) - He is VERY kind towards me, almost TOO kind , in that martyr sort of way (He has neptune in his first house, opposite his Sun, I thought that may be why). He is giving me lots of power which I have rejected, because I don't want to exploit his kindness (I - Pisces Moon- know how it feels to be exploited in that manner).

You are right, we did get close immediately. The sex was not lustful by any means, it was a truly intimate experience , almost TOO deep for two people who had known each other for only a few minutes. That's why I am so full of doubt, questioning if it's all in my head, or if truly, there was something there - or if he's simply just this nice to every woman [He said he's picky].. I am feeling a strong Piscean vibe from him, moreso than his Scorpio moon and rising.

I'm OK with giving him space - It's not a long distance relationship but we do live about an hour apart. I suspect that I'll only see him once in a while. I don't NEED him like I've NEEDED certain men in the past (when Venus-Pluto showed up in synastry), but he is on my mind, constantly and I feel very strongly for him.


Jounia - It's good to know that there are feelings coming from his end. I'm so worried about dealing with another unrequited love situation - I told myself I'd never get involved with anything like that again (Its my new years resolution, lol). I guess ultimately I'm just afraid of him not being interested. :-/ And if he is interested, I need him to be VERY interested, because that's what I'm looking for right now (Saturn just entered my 1st house and I'm cutting out all the nonsense I dealt with while it was transiting my 12th).

As a Scorpio moon, do you get obsessive about a partner you like? I feel hes a little bit obsessive, though doing so in secret - I'm just judging from his mannerisms and the way he compulsively touches me , and when I say compulsive its like in an OCD sort of way, lol. There have been times when I've been too busy to contact him, expecting him to just forget about me (I guess I'm used to men ditching me all the time) but he kept coming back to approach me in some way and then the other night he asked me what kind of flowers i liked . I dunno!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Jounia
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posted December 31, 2011 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doll, i understand what you're going through. It's so annoying when you think you know what the other person is feeling but yet you're not sure and you end up analysing everything to the point where it interferes with your intuition! (or maybe that's just me? )

Yes, as a scorpio moon, I can be obsessive. Very obsessive actually. But I will never intentionally show that to the other person, although somethings just slip out I guess. With such intense emotions, it's impossible to hide everything.

With the moon conj asc aspect, he should feel comfortable telling you how he feels when the moment grabs him.

I think you should trust your intuition here becuase from what you've written, I think it's pretty obvious that he's really in to you. I cannot say if he's in love. Only he can tell you that, but give him time, he may also be worried or fear rejection. All the best! xx

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mintgirl123
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posted December 31, 2011 06:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doll, just letting you know, it seems based on the chart that the guy doesn't seem the most loyal type.

Gem venus + mars?? and Libra moon, usually libra moon is ok but in combo with the gem I'd be careful if I were you.

He also has venus square pluto tight so he's going to be possessive and controlling. This is not a good combo with gemini as gemini is mentally manipulative at times.

Just be careful lol.

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Jounia
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posted December 31, 2011 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doll, It's up to you, but I wouldn't listen to that comment.

Mintgirl, I'm so sorry that you've been hurt badly in the past by a Gemini Venus with a Scorpio moon but try and be a little objective and stop judging everyone with these placements.

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Ami Anne
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posted December 31, 2011 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am Gem Sun,Merc and Venus and SUPER loyal

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posted December 31, 2011 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jounia:
Doll, It's up to you, but I wouldn't listen to that comment.

Mintgirl, I'm so sorry that you've been hurt badly in the past by a Gemini Venus with a Scorpio moon but try and be a little objective and stop judging everyone with these placements.


lol you have the same placements and you're cheating right now. But this isn't about you, it's about getting her to be alert.

Gem placements does make someone have the tendency to be unfaithful. I see it around me too. It's not just with the ex =). And I wasn't judging the guy, I'm just telling the OP to be careful and wary. Did I say he'll definitely cheat? No I said he doesn't seem the most loyal type. Bc he doesn't, esp since he has venus square uranus too.

Ami, gem venuses manifest badly in men more than women.

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lilithpluto
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posted December 31, 2011 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini venus, libra mars, aquarius moon. I'm loyal to a fault.

If he's in love, i doubt he will cheat.

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doll
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posted December 31, 2011 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for doll     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey everyone! Thanks for all of your responses.

mintgirl, BELIEVE me, the venus-mars conjunction in Gemini was the first thing that I noticed!!! I got very scared (I was badly hurt by a Moon/Venus gemini boyfriend and the wounds are still fresh in my mind :::shudder:: . In fact, I got so paranoid the first thing I did was confront him about it!

He was very quick to stress that he has never cheated in his life - it seemed sincere, but like I said, I'm gullible to a fault sometimes...lol.

Anyway, one of the first things he fessed up to me about was his marriage (he is separated) and 5 year old daughter. He was very honest about those things
. Technically, could've kept them all a secret from me and gotten away with it, but he was upfront, saying he did not want to waste my time if it would be an issue for me.

Do you think venus square uranus manifests in different ways? I read somewhere it makes people attracted to 'unusual' types. There is a notable age gap between us and we are also racially/culturally different, and I'm not sure if you can tell from my chart, but I'm kind of extremely weird..my Moon and mercury are both badly afflicted by Uranus and I dunno, everyone around me thinks I'm a little bit kooky (Him included, lol).
We have Uranus in the 1st in our composite.

As for the controlling/possessive thing, man, my venus in cancer would love that. Hahah. Not sure about the manipulative part !!! But I am a little bit submissive in relationships (Ironically, I'm a domineering person outside of them...Pluto in 1st!!).

Jounia - With pluto in 1st, I'm relentless with psychoanalyzing people, not just the one I like! I must have obsessively documented everyone I know's birthday and birthtime by now....hahah - It DOES make me more paranoid and cautious, but I think thats good for my impressionable pisces moon...
That's why I'm here asking everyone for their input because when my intuition is out of whack, I am usually TOO paranoid or TOO gullible.

lillithpluto - I'm assuming from your username that you have a heavy pluto influence in your chart, do you think that helps with the loyalty factor?

it's funny, as I'm writing all this, he contacts me....

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posted January 31, 2012 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for doll     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, just a follow up, but he confessed that he had no feelings beyond the sexual for me. Said we weren't on the same wavelength, and that we couldn't communicate. So it looks like I was projecting again. I am pretty hurt over this. Even though he cut things off with me, I'd like to give it some time and contact him again in the future. I'm not sure why I'm so stubborn with this. I don't want him to let me go. It's true that we have a harsh Saturn Venus contact and mercury Pluto contacts that are causing a lot of blockages in communication (and his Gemini venus/mars really needs it- the lighthearted kind, not the uncomfortable probing kind we've been having) but I could swear that the feelings are there. I don't know bleh . I wish I could get another chance. Our composite has major Pluto going on too, but otherwise looks good.

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posted January 31, 2012 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for panda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry it turned out the way it did for you

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posted January 31, 2012 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey there, you actually have pretty nice synastry

Sun conjunct jupiter, moon conjunct ascendant, moon square venus (you're bursting at the seams with tender feelings for each other) and moon square mars (strong sexual attraction! but arguments too), moon sextile uranus (great chemistry, both physical and mental), sun trine mercury, moon opp pluto

red flag is venus opp saturn and uranus, and mercury opp saturn, not good for a love relationship

Not bad. Post your composite, please?

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doll
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posted January 31, 2012 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for doll     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Here's our composite.

I want to contact him again, but I'd really hate to come off as a stalker of sorts.

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posted January 31, 2012 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for doll     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I should also mention that he started acting especially different from his usual nurturing self once Saturn began transiting (conjunct) his Moon. Maybe that's it? He's been cold and unfeeling since. :-(

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