posted January 14, 2012 07:47 AM            

Question: Should I give up on him or do we have a future?

posted January 14, 2012 08:08 AM            

You are Sun, Moon and Venus.
He is Saturn (we cannot give him sun,a s this is your main ruler).

Sun in Capricorn is in the sign of Saturn - so you clearly love him.
Moon in Virgo has no strong dignities to Saturn.
Venus inn Pisces is in the face of Saturn, a very minor dignity.

But this is interesting Venus has just left the sign where it was ruled by Saturn (loved Saturn). Did your interest in him fade a bit recently? Maybe due to some frustration?

Moon will soon move into Libra though, the exaltation of Saturn, so you will still be besotted with him, at least in an emotional way.
So the sexual interest might not be so strong anymore.

Saturn is on the last degree of Libra, where it loves Venus, but is in the fall of Sun. His interest in you might predominantly be laced with sexual attraction, though it might not necessarily be deeper than that, at least at the moment.

His sig as well will change signs, into Scorpio, where it is in the detriment of Venus, and in the fall and in the fall of MOon. I fear this means he will definitely lose interest.

Actually with so many planets changing signs or just having changed signs, the status quo cannot be maintained, and I fear it does not look like you have a future.

but let us check for aspects.

Venus has just separated from a trine to Saturn - so your love-affair seems to be a thing of the past.

Sun WILL have an aspect to Saturn though; a square. Things will get very bumpy and challenging, but at least there is contact.
I am just not sure if it will be worth it; if it will continue then there could be a decided imbalance between your love for him and his sexual attraction to you. But with all these changing signs, I donīt know. Within a short while you might not even want a future with him anymore, if h doesn`t reciprocrate your love equally.

posted January 14, 2012 08:38 AM            

Yep, your right, my interest is fading in recent days. Just a bit of hard to get over only. Sexual interest decreased tremendously - happens whenever I am falling out of love... but yes, I still love him emotionally kinda in a hard to move on type of way.

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Within a short while you might not even want a future with him anymore, if h doesn`t reciprocrate your love equally.

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Very true. This is what I know I will be.

Speaking of contact... will you know when that will be or if it will be him or me making the contact?

posted January 14, 2012 08:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Wow, I just had a flashback. I dreamed of you. Well seeing your username at least. But there was another one with a very similiar name, Lilith2Pluto (or something like this), but it was a different user. *scratches head* Not sure why I recalled that now or why I dreamed of your username.

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posted January 14, 2012 09:30 AM            

But also because so it will be easier for you, when you really part ways.

"but yes, I still love him emotionally kinda in a hard to move on type of way."
I think there could be also a bit of nostalgia involved.

"peaking of contact... will you know when that will be or if it will be him or me making the contact?"

That is very hard to tell. I mean there are calculations and tables and stuff for that, and Hera had it down so well in my chart, but I am very hesitant with these things. But I am giving it a try anyway.

Sun is about 5 degrees away from Saturn - so the number would be 5x.
Sun is in a cardinal sign and a mutable house.
This relates to months or weeks.

Sun is applying to Saturn, so Sun is probably making the contact.

Judging from this you probably will be initiating contact with him in 5 months or 5 weeks (I guess weeks is more likely), or you will run into him.
He is in your 3rd house, so it could also be over mail or telephone or chat or in some every-day life situation.

The aspect being a square, it will not be smooth or harmonious.

posted January 14, 2012 09:54 AM            

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But also because so it will be easier for you, when you really part ways.

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Yeah, your right. he's not good for me. He broke my heart..

I can swear tat I won't be making the contact.. but can't tell if 5 weeks or 5 months down the road i may feel less determination to avoid him.