posted January 15, 2012 05:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
I said so as not to 'scare him off'! Stupid Libran logic. But I HAVE tried to undo it. With things I have since said and the amount of contact Iv'e tried to make he'd have to know I like him! What's with the hiding out from the world?

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Libra sun, Venus in Scorpio here

My guess is that he feels very deeply hurt and confused.

He might feel like you were dishonest with him or like the intimacy that you experienced was dishonest.

On the more positive side, this could be an indication that he's a higher-evolved Scorpio, if all that he is doing is hiding out and not retaliating against you.

I just have Venus and Pluto in Scorpio (conjunct, in the 12th). I myself definitely use the silent treatment when I am really upset. I might 'have words' if annoyed, but if I am truly hurt, I don't communicate.

I notice that he has Mercury in Scorpio too. Mercury in Scorpio people, in my experience, aren't always communicative with words. His actions might be a better indicator of how he is feeling. Given that he's being low-key, I really do believe that he feels hurt.

I don't think that this will be resolved quickly, if it is resolved. Scorpios are very highly sensitive people, and the good ones have a powerful capacity for love. If he feels like he poured himself out to you, only to be rejected, then I don't know if new words will change his mentality. He may need a lot of time to get over things, if he does get over them. He may also feel that your attempts to fix things are "damage control" and not sincere. I definitely feel that you are being sincere, but he might not feel that way. Scorpios tend to be highly suspicious and very slow to trust--I'm that way in relationships (Venus in Scorpio). If a Scorpio lets his/her guard down, and lets you in, and it does not go well, it will be awhile before they are able to trust you again--if they decide to give you another chance.

I would say that the best thing to do would be to give it some time and then try speaking to him again.

I can't honestly guarantee what he will do, but am wishing both of you the best. Keep us posted!

posted January 15, 2012 07:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Thanks Aquaguy :-)
And thankyou Reg for the advice. You were a little unhappy a few weeks ago, are things ok now? I have been thinking of you.
I just messaged him and told him how I feel, I was pretty deep (not too deep, bearing in mind the Aquarius factor) I got "Thanks" I said "for what?" he replied "for the compliments". Aaarrgh!

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I am doing better, Libreo, thanks for asking! I really appreciate that :-)

posted January 16, 2012 08:40 AM            

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posted January 16, 2012 03:16 PM            

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posted January 16, 2012 03:18 PM            

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posted January 16, 2012 03:35 PM            

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posted January 16, 2012 03:47 PM            

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posted February 15, 2012 02:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Thankyou. I don't have his TOB. And all of our planets are conjunct except our suns moons and Mars. My ASC is Pisces. I know this guy was interested before but I can't even get boo out of him now. He's not being rude and nasty to me, he's being tactful and polite, but his tune has definately changed. I'm quite upset by this.

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doesn't matter just use 12noon or 6am

Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html
To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….

Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% as the max orb between planets is 3'. To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….

when you get this chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages –at a glance planet to planet. Scroll down to last page and *aspect grid*

problem is uploading to photobucket you have to change this from abode format into a picture. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid/bit in front of you,on screen then( if bit big press ctrl and - to reduce image). the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has copied to clipboard.

Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart press IMG and past link into thread.... done

posted February 19, 2012 04:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
I also find your answers too advanced and not spoken in simple terms. I have stated numerous times that I am learning, plus I am a single parent and do not have time to study the trillions of links you constantly provide. If this was my chosen method of learning I could do it myself. I come here to learn from and speak to people. This is my chosen way of finding answers and I resent being sent elsewhere all the time. I do not have the time to study 10 different links to answer one question.

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many newcomers come to forum when they are 'desparte' or having relationship problems and are simply looking for a quick fix and want answers dropped in their laps, to somehow exonerate them from taking responsibility for their problems and taking actions to resolve them. This forum is full of these, one time visitor type threads...

Lastly, by making the effort to post the correct charts AND aspect grid will ensure that you are serious in your enquiries and will guarantee (from me at least) a serious response……if you are simply here to get a freebie or are just curious but can’t be bothered to make the effort to post the correct charts then I won’t bother making an effort to delineate them. In this case you will simply be referred to a website that offers interactive models (like astro.com) for their amusements…

This forum (as all forums) are unpaid, free help and advice from lots of professionals (like myself) and enthusiastic amateurs, who do this for the ‘love of astrology’ and genuinely want members to learn about themselves and partners through this ‘science and art’ we call astrology……