posted January 21, 2012 06:57 PM            

I just want to know if this guy and I would make a good match natally, and what's in the cards for us in the future if we ever do get into a romantic relationship with one another.

His birthtime is unknown... I think he was born in New York, NY. His birthday is January 6th, 1984

And my birthtime is 9:48 am, Queens, NY, May 8th, 1984 (I'm female)

We met at approx. 2:38am January 21st, 2012 in New York, NY

Thank you very much everyone!!

posted January 21, 2012 07:08 PM            

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posted January 21, 2012 07:18 PM            

Here is the synastry....
http://i1127.photobucket.com/albums/l639/IAMLOVEDNOW/meandhim.gif

Here is our composite chart......
http://i1127.photobucket.com/albums/l639/IAMLOVEDNOW/ourcomposite.gif

Thanks again everyone!!!

posted January 21, 2012 07:19 PM            

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posted January 21, 2012 07:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Sounds urgent

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lol

Yes, this is very urgent lol!!

posted January 21, 2012 07:24 PM            

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posted January 21, 2012 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I will look at the synastry, as I trust it, more.

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Thanks a million!

posted January 21, 2012 07:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
There is a lot here. There could be true soul mate devotion and attraction. However, there is strong Saturn which could either be a strong glue or you could get on each other's nerves, badly. You have Saturn in hard aspect.
However, your venus conjuncts his Vertex so you were fated to bring him love. For me, personally, I would not want the Saturn in hard aspect to my moon or Sun. For me, this would not work, but I am very sensitive, emotionally, and for others, it may.

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Thank you very much for the reading Ami! When you say that we can "get on each other's nerves badly", what do you mean? Is there a way that we could avoid the harsness of these aspects?

Thanks again Ami!!!

posted January 21, 2012 11:13 PM            

I wouldn't say your sun/saturn opposition would be too hard for you, but for him it might get to be. He might feel like he has to be the 'parent' or 'authority' all the time, however you two also have sun sextile saturn which vibes with him better. Saturn square moon also hard, but like your sun it would be less of a problem with you and more with him, again for the same reason. His venus is unaspected just as it is in his natal. This is trickier, to me it tells me that you don't particularly pull him more than any other girl in his generation would. Mars opposite mercury is going to be a problem. Bickering.

posted January 21, 2012 11:18 PM            

I will put some info on Saturn. Saturn can restrict one and one another in a relationship as in a 'wet blanket". It can, also, bind. With the hard aspects, it would be harsh as a restriction for me, personally.

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posted January 21, 2012 11:19 PM            

Saturn, in the chart, may represent one’s father. A good father will be strict. He will not allow one to think one is the center of the Universe. He will not allow one to bound out,unbridled in a Jupiter-like fashion, throwing caution to the wind. A good father will be stern, as it is for one’s best interest. Saturn is like this. We don’t like Saturn to spoil our fun. However, if you eat too much candy, you will get a stomachache. Saturn would have told you to be sensible.

As such, Saturn makes one work for one’s career, ones money, one’s rewards, one’s prestige, one’s place in life. If one works hard, one can achieve. Saturn rules the tenth house, which is the house of career and society.Saturn knows that one must build one’s reputation slowly, but one can lose it, in an instant. As necessary as Saturn is, Saturn CAN get oppressive when placed in strategic places in the chart. Then, Saturn may squeeze one as a python around one’s neck. Can one get out of the choke hold? I am not sure. I hate to sugar coat life. I find it hurts people, more than helps them. Cold hard reality can be more of a peace than the fluff of cotton candy which seems to be delicious, but does not satisfy.

As such, I am a realistic Astrologer. God can overcome our charts, to a degree, but one must define overcome. We will never be perfect. Life will never be perfect. It comes down to working with the energies we have been given with as much grace, as we can muster, in my opinion.

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posted January 24, 2012 08:15 PM            

I truly appreciate each and every one of you with all of my heart and soul!!!

I respect your wisdom and am very grateful to be able to communicate with such WONDERFUL people!! Thank you sooooooooooo much!!!

posted January 25, 2012 01:29 PM            

Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html

I agree with littlecloud here and in natal moon/aspects/natally and chart comparison are invalid to...

posted January 25, 2012 01:36 PM            

his sun conj your Desc, his juno conj amor. His POF (part of fortune) conj North Node, very good. Venus conj Vertex

not so goo aspects.
His neptune conj your mercury could be deceptions or lies.
Saturn opposite sun- not great...
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_saturn_aspects.html

"Sun conjunct Saturn: This union is on the edge between being difficult and being relatively manageable. Much depends upon the other aspects to this conjunction. If favorable, then the Saturn individual can help "school" the Sun person in issues like self expression and responsibility. The Saturn person is often perceived to be more experienced and wise. The Sun person tends to cheer up the Saturn person. But if the Saturn person is born at night and other indicators are more difficult then the Saturn individual may be too strict and harsh to the Sun person and the Sun person will tend to rebel and seek independence from the Saturn person" http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/sun.html

posted January 27, 2012 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
the synastry bi wheel must be reposted and the orbs reduced to 40% as the max orb allowed between planets is 3%

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I reduced the orbs to 40%. Here's the new synastry.....
http://i1127.photobucket.com/albums/l639/IAMLOVEDNOW/40percentorbs.gif

Thanks